[Sykora]

Hi I am Johnny Sykora.

First I want say thank you thank you for letting me join the wounderful web site community web Board...

I am a devout catholic
I come here to you find guidence and understanding and to meet new friends.
I live in portlandOregon area

This is not about me...
this is about a couple going in to a convent together in holy matrimony please don't miss understand me this is about creation of Marriage blissfulness as God has made it clear in the bible to me

but I recently try talking to my Church Pastor’s I got very disappointed because they both told me that I was on the wrong path of what was once done and used in another distant time of place in the world that the bible and god speaks of both of my pastor’s told me not to even try this and will cause a divorce and is of cores abusive by today standers and then they told me to forget that part of the bible

I do not be leave either pastor at my church to be right on this one
I felt they were ands are just blowing me off.
They say I can the head of the house but I can't subjugate my wife with a DD aka: spankings.

I feel strongly deep in side that the god and what in the bible for marriage stands tall and still works even today and has for thousand of years that why we human being are still here today.

I want to have old fashioned marriage for real as God intended it to be.


look using a spanking to " domestic discipline " your wife for issues and keeping the relationship honest and hole and loving to the fullest together the spanking being done in true loving and caring manner no yelling no anger feelings only loving in a Calmly demeanor and the loving after care. And forgiveness a that goes with it all this
Is what I want.

Please look I am in the very beginning stages of what seems to me to be a D/s relationship forming very strongly bonding between a man and a woman...

I feel as tho I am being pulled in this direction with me being the dominant male and she being the submissive female and she wand’s a strong male as her HOH, I am willing to step up to the plate and be there for her in every way that I can

I pray every day to god to give the right thinking and the right way to handle my love for my wife that God givth her to me as a gift I praise the lord who givth my wife to me I love my wife her name is Mee Mee I would die for her to save her from danger any thing that would harm her I cherish her thank you God for bring us together.

we are engaged to be married we are in the process of a K1 Visa as soon as she get my wife here we will get married at the justice of the Pease down town.

I am a 42 year old man in search of how to start A HOH structuring
My Wife is 41 she is directly from China she is Chinese
And she is very sub servant an submissive to me and very nurturing to me.
I never met a woman like this I feel like I died and gone to havens and I am in love with human angel.

It's bringing out my Dom side in small baby like steps.

I am here to make new friends and learn how to do things more assertively in manliness ways.

But I also want understand both the Dom side and Sub side of things and points view of men and woman

I want talk to both men and woman whom are in marriage like this

I'll try say it like this, My past issues: of my past relationships was awfully bad because I did not take control as a man should have, I never new one could use his dominant side in a relationship I was young a very nave.

I hated the fighting / yelling all the time and struggling over who has control.
That's what it was like in all my past relationships.
All the power struggles to no end.

Now that I am in a new loving relationship with truly Subservient & Submissive Woman I'm not use to this naturally submissive state in a woman it's very strange feelings to me and the wonderful things she dose to me for me are so over whelming wonderful.

The things I feel in my head and body, yet it feels very good in some strange way, and comforting to me.

It's making my dominant nature feelings come up from out no-ware I am more protective more out make sure she has many of her needs cared for her health and so on ect ect ect.

She is the only one who makes me feel so alive more then I've ever been in my life.

Recently, I found out about "domestic discipline" by accident one
Night online wile searching about something in marriage life HOH…

And for a longest time I secretly have wanted this type of living life style.

But I never new what it was called.

I've want to do the structuring a family more traditionally once I started to have family.

Well here I am now Starting with my spouse.
I want have an old-fashioned marriage in the Taken in hand, LDD, HOR, HOH style D/s relationship what ever you call it.
I then started to read me bible and looked for things that explain what bible has andf God to offer about marriage



So I've been reading from a few web sites here and there and such.

I am engaged and I am about to be married.
But I feeling I am already married to her on engagement day she calls me Husband it made me have a tears in my eyes, So I then and there called her my Wife ever sense then we do and she makes me feel like man wants to feel but I need to tell her how to please me in the proper way tho.

I thought it would be a good idea as a first step to join some
discussion groups online to learn more about DD D/s style living.

Now me as a child I lived growing up only with only one parent my mother she has been mostly my mother and father I did get spanked as a child for bad behaviors tho.

I do not have any role models to draw any thing from for being HOH as a man.

I am looking for others to help me really fully understand my Dominant side of my feelings now I never really fully realized you can use your Dominant side in the relationship till now…

I want both men and woman who have experience in this area to talk
with me about "domestic discipline and it's full values and advantages to both in the
relationship.

There are some issues I want chat about and learn about ( domestic discipline spankings ) and the use of ( chastity belts ) in a loving relationship.

So I can fully understand from both side of the relationship.


Thank you.

God Bless.

Johnny.