Speaking as a woman, Mr. Thurmond, I can say from experience that the women who talk about "rape culture" and such are generally the women who are bitter because men don't find them attractive and pay attention to them. But these are the very women who don't take the time to look nicely in public. A little mascara and lip gloss can go a long way if used correctly. Taking the time to dress in a feminine style is always appreciated, and people treat women like ladies when they act like ladies. As no one treats a lady cruelly, I don't know why more women don't leave the flannel at home, put down the ice cream, and smile a little when a man holds open a door for them.