[Sister Kitty]

Sister BelieverInGod, I am new here and do not wish to overstep my bounds. However, I do have some thoughts and questions.

First, clearly your husband should not be viewing pornographry and spilling his seed, he is flirting with eternal damnation by so doing. Is he Saved? If he is not, this is simple. You should not be with him.

2 Corinthians 6
14Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
15And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
16And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
17Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.

Now, if he is Saved, then this must be the result of something you have done. Are you properly caring for his sons? Are you keeping his house and his car clean? Do you do his laundry promptly and have warm meals ready for him the moment he returns from work Do you obey his every command and hang on his every word when he tells tales of his life outside the house? Are you cold in bed? Have you let yourself go, so that he no longer finds you attractive?

These are just some of the questions you should be asking yourself right now.

I am praying for you, Sister.