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How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 06:29 PM
Hi everyone,
I recently went on a date with a prospective husband, who my father approves of.
In the taxi to and from dinner, he had wandering hands. I would expect this from a non-christian, but this man is very respected in the community. I don't know what to do, as he wants another date.
Advice please
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted by ann the chinaman girl
Hi everyone,
I recently went on a date with a prospective husband, who my father approves of.
In the taxi to and from dinner, he had wandering hands. I would expect this from a non-christian, but this man is very respected in the community. I don't know what to do, as he wants another date.
Advice please
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My dear, do not forget that you are your father's property. Do you really want to dare to disobey your father and face eternal damnation for displeasing Jesus?
Colossians 3:20 - Children, obey [your] parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.
Ephesians 6:1 - Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 06:40 PM
Hi there Ann, the ching-chong-chinaman girl!
Why didn't your father come along to chaperone? No unmarried woman should be alone with a man who isn't her father, or a trusted uncle.
How far did your date's advances go? Were you dressed like a whore and thus tempting him? It's likely that his gropery was all YOUR fault.
Are you still virginal and 100% intact? I hope so, otherwise you will have no choice but to marry this man with his "Roman" hands and "Russian" fingers! (Deuteronomy 22:28-39)
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by ann the chinaman girl
Hi everyone,
I recently went on a date with a prospective husband, who my father approves of.
In the taxi to and from dinner, he had wandering hands. I would expect this from a non-christian, but this man is very respected in the community. I don't know what to do, as he wants another date.
Advice please
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Dear Ann,
I am not sure why you didn't have a male member of your family there as a chaperone. Wandering hands can quickly be stopped by a brother or a father with a hammer.
YIC,
Pastor Will
Praise and worship with Pastor Will. Services at 9 a.m., 11 a.m. and 6 p.m.
Contact me. pastorwillsampson at gmail.com
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 07:28 PM
Like my True Christian™ peers, I have a hard time grasping how a father would let an unmarried daughter in the latter part of her childbearing years visit a suitor unchaperoned.
Be that as it may, I suspect you mistook his actions. Assuming of course the man is a True Christian™ and not some pervert.
You see, a man needs to know that a potential Soldier for Christ factory is fit for production. Are her hips wide enough to bear a dozen or more fruit without complication? Can her bosom stand up to the challenge of being a milk cow for not one or two, but hopefully five or six hungry little troopers of nursing age? Does her backside have enough meat on it to handle a palm, razor strap, ventilated paddle, or cat o' nine tails?
If you have ever attended a stock or horse show, you would see the judges examine the animals and give them a hands-on inspection. The judges are looking for muscle tone, fitness, and general temperament. Any self respecting True Christian™ suitor would surely do the same when looking at a potential bride.
So don't blame the man. Blame yourself for entertaining such perverse thoughts. Only a deviant mind desperately in need of being taken in hand by a True Christian™ man would draw such sick conclusions from an innocent inspection.
Psalm 137:9 Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 07:58 PM
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... Does her backside have enough meat on it to handle a palm, razor strap, ventilated paddle, or cat o' nine tails? ...
... a deviant mind desperately in need of being taken in hand by a True Christian™ man ...
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As per usual, Brother Des, your wise and Godly-inspired testimony leaves me breathless with awe. What a stern, loving, strong, strict, and muscular husband you will be for the next Mrs. Des ... whomever that lucky lass will be!
ChinamANN: Take heed of Brother Des' sage advice and get your mind out of Satan's gutter.
Also, is this potential suitor White? I hope this is the case, so that you can gradually breed the chink out of your descendents' bloodlines. Please don't marry a nigra or a taco-bender, which would only further mongrelize any offspring of such an abominable coupling, thus offending GOD and damning everyone involved to Hell. (Daniel 2:43)
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 08:01 PM
Thanks everyone for your help.
I see now what was going on. My dress was knee length which i though was modest but pretty and maybe i lead him on. Also, I understand his hands were checking me for his holy purpose. So, it makes sense that he would feel my bosom and under my dress.
Yes I am a true virgin, do you think he will want to check that too?
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 08:05 PM
Yes he's white., but is older having been married before. Dad says I should follow the Lord's path and go with him.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 08:12 PM
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Yes he's white., but is older having been married before. Dad says I should follow the Lord's path and go with him.
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"Married before," dear? What does that mean exactly? So this man is widowed? Does he have any children with whom your future sons will have to compete for his attention and inheritance? I certainly hope he's not divorced! (Luke 16:18)
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 08:14 PM
Yes he is divorced. His wife was tempted by satan and left him to raise 1 son and 2 daus alone.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 08:40 PM
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Yes he is divorced. His wife was tempted by satan and left him to raise 1 son and 2 daus alone.
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Hmmm, unless his spouse was a cheating whore there is no call for divorce. A widower I can sympathize with, as those foolish klutz women are forever falling down flights of stairs, ingesting antifreeze, and stumbling feet first into wood choppers. But I would be wary of a divorced man.
Psalm 137:9 Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 09:24 PM
yes she was
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-05-2016, 10:24 PM
I'm a little worried that you probably looked like a slut. Only sluts get raped and you clearly think he found you slutty as you assume he wanted his way with you.
You've behaved like a whore. Have you apologised to your father for shaming him?
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 12:52 PM
We find it so confusing. I need to marry soon - I'm 18 and Lyn is not much younger. And dressing nice gets the men interested and wanting to date us.
Even Godly men tell us that we look nice when we dress attractively.
If we don't dress to attract the men, how will they want us. Our clothes are modest but not too modest.
1 Timothy 2:9 - In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted by ann the chinaman girl
We find it so confusing. I need to marry soon - I'm 18 and Lyn is not much younger. And dressing nice gets the men interested and wanting to date us.
Even Godly men tell us that we look nice when we dress attractively.
If we don't dress to attract the men, how will they want us. Our clothes are modest but not too modest.
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Stop behaving like whores. 1 Timothy 2:9-10 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. You even quoted scripture that tells you not to do this. Good works and not being uppity and clever are what is required. When you look at the scripture in context you see just how despicable women are. Now get with Jesus and get something properly arranges instead of whoring yourself to heathens.
1 Timothy 2:11-15 (KJV) Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 07:28 PM
We aren't shameful in our dress. Daddy checks our appearance before every date and says we look beautiful.
My date said I looked ravishing, and he is one of the leaders in our church. As has been said, his wandering hands were to check if I was good breeding material, so I think we're dressing properly.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 07:55 PM
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We aren't shameful in our dress. Daddy checks our appearance before every date and says we look beautiful.
My date said I looked ravishing, and he is one of the leaders in our church. As has been said, his wandering hands were to check if I was good breeding material, so I think we're dressing properly.
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You mean well, dear, and you appear to be trying hard, but I think you're a bit thick-headed (as we women tend to be). This discussion, and your flimsy argument, seems to be going 'round and 'round.
On one hand you claim to be dressing modestly, and your father approves, yet you also state that your date called you "ravishing." Sweetie, this is NOT a compliment! To say you're "ravishing" is to say he wants to ravish, or rape, you ... which means you are tempting this decent man by looking whorish.
This all makes me question if your father really is a Christian, or if he is some twisted pervert blaspheming God's Word in a sick attempt at justifying his deviant and lustful thoughts (Mark 3:29)?
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 08:07 PM
You can't say that about my Daddy. He worships and prays daily. He is always quoting scripture. He is no pervert.
He is so respected in our community that he helps other families with their wayward children through prayer and counselling.
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 08:25 PM
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You can't say that about my Daddy.
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Sorry, sweetie; like our old house nigra Detta used to say, "I calls 'em like I sees 'em!"
The bottom line: someone in this situation is a pervert. It's either you (for dressing like a slutty temptress), your father (for allowing/encouraging your harlotry), OR your suitor (for being a sex-crazed fornicator under the guise of inspecting you for potential wife material).
So, my dear, which one is it? We cannot help you if we don't know the complete truth. And please do not lie (Proverbs 19:9) ... I'm sure you know what happens if you do ...
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Re: How to handle men with wandering hands? -
05-06-2016, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Mrs. Paddy McIrish
The bottom line: someone in this situation is a pervert. It's either you (for dressing like a slutty temptress), your father (for allowing/encouraging your harlotry), OR your suitor (for being a sex-crazed fornicator under the guise of inspecting you for potential wife material).
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Could it possibly be all three of them?
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
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