Hello Elizabeth,
In future, you should post this stuff to
Landover to the Rescue if it's an emergency, or to either
Focus on the Family or
Auntie Flo's Prayer Shack.
You have had your 15 minutes of intro, and I find this section gets clogged easily with so many sinners wanting to make their voice heard in the only section they can!
With that out of the way, Congrats on your new Soldier of Christ!
Is it a girl or boy (no trans), and how do you intend to keep your child from running afowl of the homersexual lifestyle?
You must obey your husband, always. It's not up to you decide whether you even have a mind to make up, you submit to him without question, dear! That's just how we ladies do it.
Why are you wasting your money on babysitters when you are perfectly capable young lady responsible for the moral upkeep of your own brood?
It's not money you need: You need
JESUS, who in turn, needs money that belongs to Him. Don't be cheap, Ms. Elizabeth. Jesus always knows when you are being greedy!