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Caught my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:06 PM
Yesterday my wife was cooking dinner as usual. When the dinner was ready I went to call my younger son but when I opened the door he sat naked on his bed masturbating over a pornographic magazine! Of course I gave him a hard beating and made him pray to the LORD until bedtime. Me and my wife are in shock, I have beaten my sons all their lives but sometimes they don't seem to understand the will of God. I am very concerned about this and I simply don't know what to do. I have always given them a daily spanking before bedtime but I feel like they need more beatings so they can seriously feel God's anger. Should I beat them more often or is there a better way to make them understand?
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:09 PM
As it stands, he is on his way to an eternity of searing pain being burned in hell. Do whatever you think it takes to get that sin out. No beating you can do will be as bad as what God has in store for kids who don't get the devil off their privates.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:12 PM
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Yesterday my wife was cooking dinner as usual. When the dinner was ready I went to call my younger son but when I opened the door he sat naked on his bed masturbating over a pornographic magazine! Of course I gave him a hard beating and made him pray to the LORD until bedtime. Me and my wife are in shock, I have beaten my sons all their lives but sometimes they don't seem to understand the will of God. I am very concerned about this and I simply don't know what to do. I have always given them a daily spanking before bedtime but I feel like they need more beatings so they can seriously feel God's anger. Should I beat them more often or is there a better way to make them understand?
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Masturbation is completely natural.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:24 PM
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Masturbation is completely natural.
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Even though I agree with you I still find it so very disgusting. GAH!
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02-28-2010, 04:29 PM
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Even though I agree with you I still find it so very disgusting. GAH!
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Really? Dude, I masturbate. I'm a 17 year old girl like you.
Everyone masturbates. I don't understand what's gross about it.
It's okay if you do, I just don't understand why.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:42 PM
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Really? Dude, I masturbate. I'm a 17 year old girl like you.
Everyone masturbates. I don't understand what's gross about it.
It's okay if you do, I just don't understand why.
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Oh, Drizzle. I'd be so embarrassed to even admit that. I have no issue that you do that, but I could never imagine myself doing that. Just the thought makes me pale in the face.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:50 PM
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Oh, Drizzle. I'd be so embarrassed to even admit that. I have no issue that you do that, but I could never imagine myself doing that. Just the thought makes me pale in the face.
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I don't mean to make you feel uncomfortable.
Why does it embarrass you? Does sex in general embarrass you?
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 06:44 PM
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Oh, Drizzle. I'd be so embarrassed to even admit that. I have no issue that you do that, but I could never imagine myself doing that. Just the thought makes me pale in the face.
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Embarrassment is God's way of telling you you're doing something wrong. You have to look for the signs he's giving you. Why would you do ANYTHING that you wouldnt do right in front of God?
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Kittenmuffin: I do not enjoy quotes from that book. Because you think it gives some sort of validity to your statement, but it really doesnt.
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It's the world of God!!!! What could be more valid?
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:26 PM
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Masturbation is completely natural.
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Genesis 38:9-10:
And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
Matthew 5:28:
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:33 PM
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Genesis 38:9-10:
And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
Matthew 5:28:
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
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Edit: According to modern science and biology (not fairy tales), masturbation is completely natural.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:38 PM
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Edit: According to modern science and biology (not fairy tales), masturbation is completely natural.
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Scientists are liars, science is nothing but Satan's way of turning people against the true teachings of the LORD. Masturbation is not only disgusting, but it is also against God's will. I find it very strange that your parents haven't beaten the fear of God into you. You should pray to the LORD and turn away from this filthy habit if you don't want to burn in the eternal fires of hell. May God help you.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:47 PM
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Scientists are liars, science is nothing but Satan's way of turning people against the true teachings of the LORD. Masturbation is not only disgusting, but it is also against God's will. I find it very strange that your parents haven't beaten the fear of God into you. You should pray to the LORD and turn away from this filthy habit if you don't want to burn in the eternal fires of hell. May God help you.
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Science is real. Science is tangible. Science is irrefutable and it contradicts what you believe so you attack it, demean it to no end. You're like threatened little children.
Science will always win. Let God make a million dollars appear before you this instant of I'm wrong.
Do have the million dollars? I didn't think so.
Oh, and hell will freeze over before I give up sex and masturbation.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
03-02-2010, 04:58 PM
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Scientists are liars, science is nothing but Satan's way of turning people against the true teachings of the LORD. Masturbation is not only disgusting, but it is also against God's will. I find it very strange that your parents haven't beaten the fear of God into you. You should pray to the LORD and turn away from this filthy habit if you don't want to burn in the eternal fires of hell. May God help you.
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Legit question from a potential Landover Baptist member: why did God allow Science to progress so far if it's indeed false and based on lies?
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
11-29-2011, 10:17 PM
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Scientists are liars, science is nothing but Satan's way of turning people against the true teachings of the LORD. Masturbation is not only disgusting, but it is also against God's will. I find it very strange that your parents haven't beaten the fear of God into you. You should pray to the LORD and turn away from this filthy habit if you don't want to burn in the eternal fires of hell. May God help you.
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If scientists are such liars, why can everything they say (at least the practical stuff) be proven. Why would you trust scientists who say that using a computer or driving a car is safe if you think scientists are liars? Consider that to make this post you used a computer.
Why insult the people that have worked hard to make your life today easier than the lives of people thousands of years ago. If you question that life today is easier think of all your modern amenities and the things that make them work. Think of things like: your computer, the internet, easy access to clean water, electricity, cars, your refrigerator, television, the radio, satellites... there are so many things that have been created by scientists, does the lord want you to turn away from all of these things.
If you think scientists are liars then you can't trust any innovation that was devised within the last 2000 years. Frankly, your accusation was ill thought out.
On a related note, if you dislike the scientists who came up with weapons to kill the masses, I too dislike. Nevertheless, even these scientists are not liars but advocates to violence. I challenge you create a counter-argument rather than for you to ban me.
I have been polite to you despite our differing opinions and I hope that you will have the same courtesy.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
02-28-2010, 04:45 PM
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Edit: According to modern science and biology (not fairy tales), masturbation is completely natural.
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Nonsense! God hates modern science and biology. If He thought that they had any validity, He would have put them in the 1611 KJV Bible. Based on the passages that Brother Jonsson presented, it is clear that in the eyes of God, masturbation is not natural and is a sinful abomination. Do you honestly think we should not go by the laws of the Creater of the Universe™, rather than by secular science whom He hates?
Add thou not unto his words, lest he reprove thee, and thou be found a liar. (Proverbs 30:6)
Ye shall not add unto the word which I command you, neither shall ye diminish ought from it, that ye may keep the commandments of the LORD your God which I command you.(Deuteronomy 4:2)
What thing soever I command you, observe to do it: thou shalt not add thereto, nor diminish from it. (Deuteronomy 12:32)
I marvel that ye are so soon removed from him that called you into the grace of Christ unto another gospel:
Which is not another; but there be some that trouble you, and would pervert the gospel of Christ.
But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.
As we said before, so say I now again, if any man preach any other gospel unto you than that ye have received, let him be accursed.
For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ.
But I certify you, brethren, that the gospel which was preached of me is not after For I neither received it of man, neither was I taught it, but by the revelation of Jesus Christ (Galatians 1:6-12)
Anyways, brother, it seems as if your only option is to cut off your son's hands and/or tallywhacker.
Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire. (Matthew 18:8-9)
And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched.
And if thy foot offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter halt into life, than having two feet to be cast into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:
Where their worm dieth not, and the fire is not quenched. And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out: it is better for thee to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye, than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire: (Mark 9:43-47)
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
03-03-2010, 01:40 AM
i need some advice with my girlfriend and i can anyone help?
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
03-08-2010, 04:19 AM
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Nonsense! God hates modern science and biology.
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I am taking a Biology Major, and Biology makes me appreciate God's ways more and more. Every time i learn a new biological process I can only marvel at the complexity and genius of our God. I am yet to find anything in Biology that disagrees with the Bible.
Evolution i believe actually goes hand in hand with the Bible. God made animals before Adam and Eve. Making the world in 1 day doesn't necessarily mean one day for humans.
God's way of living has no structure that compares to ours, God doesn't have days, months or years. That is a system used for and by humans. So what I mean is.... 1 day for God could be millions of years for us.
Also when you think of the BIG BANG THEORY- I think of " Let there be light".
I think Biology is beautiful and only shows in depth the wonders of our God.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
12-21-2010, 01:24 AM
Sir, with all due respect, I do think that beating a child is against the law, hence reporting you to authorities would be the correct action to be take upon this matter, as even your own state tells you here:
But, since I am kind, I shall not do this. I do think that this website can be of assistance, and I do recommend a thorough read through it, as it is good material from a good source. Perhaps, this will even enlighten you and guide you upon your journey.
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
12-21-2010, 01:56 AM
You must shun him!
1corinthians 5:11
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But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be immoral or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat."
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Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do? -
12-24-2010, 04:28 PM
Do you believe that any beating you can give to him is as bad as what's to come for him if he continues? You say you had him praying until he went to sleep, but how can you know what he was doing or thinking of as he went to sleep? Or even as he was praying? What the boy needs is a serious punishment. And don't think just taking the book away can bring him away from the sin; What you need to do is shut him off from the world entirely. I'm sure you don't allow him onto the internet, but if you do, stop doing so. He can find millions of pornographic images on the internet, as we all know and fight against. Do not let him go to school. Imagine if he has a friend there who can tempt him with more of those magazines? What you need to do is quarantine him to a room, an empty room, and have him under constant watch. You cannot take these events lying down.
Amen brother, and good luck in saving your son.
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