[MitzaLizalor]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

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[Basilissa]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

I am at a loss as what to do, prayer, discipline and hard work are not working.


I am considering a chastity device, or more strict punishment? Can you please advise me to any ideas you have, or if you think I am doing anything wrong. I pray for him daily, and don't want him to burn in hell.

Professor Elmer has already expressed it so well, but I will just add this:

An apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree. Hence, try working on the log in your eye, first. (Matthew 7:3-5).

[Elmer G. White]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

I am at a loss as what to do, prayer, discipline and hard work are not working.

Mister Jason,

How extraordinary! Usually prayer works extremely well!

John 15:7
If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.

Did you notice the "if"? What does it mean?

John 9:31
Now we know that God heareth not sinners: but if any man be a worshipper of God, and doeth his will, him he heareth.

This suggests that you still have some work to do to become one of Christ's chosen! Had you been ready for Rapture (1 Thessalonians 4:17), God would certainly have heard your prayers and granted you wish. However, your heart seems to be in the right location and you seem to be a genuine seeker for God's Grace. You son is not yet lost, either. Ecclesiastes 12:13 will give you some advice on how to proceed.


Yours in Christ,

Elmer

[JasonK]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

This is precisely why our Godly Pastors decided to set up this website.



You'd prefer that we lure them in under false pretenses, then?









This verse says that we are saved through God's Grace, which is a gift from God, and which results in faith. Big difference, there.

Hi. I am from the UK, and now live in Thailand. I am raising a step son, who is 14.


I walked in on him a few months ago in his room and he was masturbating. I was shocked and disgusted.


I immediately gave him a spanking and then we prayed together for forgiveness. I explained how bad and serious masturbation was as how it was a sin. He seemed to understand.


However, he still masturbates, as I have seen dirty pictures in his room and soiled sheets.


I have taken to securing him to the bed at night, laying on his back, so he can't rub himself with his hands or on the mattress.


Now I have to watch him all the time, as he will sneak behind the house to pleasure himself.


I thought I might be better to stop it at the early stages, when he gets lustful thoughts.


So I now make him wear a pair of very tight and short nylon shorts, with no underwear, in the house in the daytime, so I can see if he gets an erection.


Sadly, he sometimes does, usually after watching TV if there are attractive women or some romantic scene. He will try to hide it, but I make him move his hands from his crotch.


I try to humiliate him when he is like that... and usually give him a good over the knee spanking.


He is so naughty sometimes that he would put his hands behind his back to block my hands spanking his buttocks and yell for me to stop.


I had to put a stop to his lack of respect and his constant testing of me as his new father. So I now bind his hands in front of him before the spanking so he can not do that. I also have to gag up his mouth, as we live in a very small house, which is connected to the neighbours, and I worry they will get disturbed by his cries. All this worked great for a while.


But the last few times he gets an erection during the spanking, so much so that he has on several occasions get damp in his shorts and on my jeans leg.


I am at a loss as what to do, prayer, discipline and hard work are not working.


I am considering a chastity device, or more strict punishment? Can you please advise me to any ideas you have, or if you think I am doing anything wrong. I pray for him daily, and don't want him to burn in hell.


Thank you so much.

[James Hutchins]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

As many of you know, I recently lost my wife, Mrs. Hutchins. I have no idea where she is. Anywho, I was in downtown Landover and was in 'Christian Discount Supplies', right next to Bobby-Joes 'Blessed By Jesus Gun Shop'. Seems due to a rash of masturbation issues, they are carrying a new item. As I understand it, there is an access hole in the back. Some of the folks I talked to tell me it is suitable for framing.

[Pim Pendergast]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

Matthew 4:19 quotes "And he said unto them, Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." This means that you are supposed to convert people to Christianity.

People like you give Christianity a bad name and drive people away from God and Jesus.

Jesus didn't try to trick people into following Him. He wanted people to consider the cost before committing, and that involves letting people know what's involved beforehand, which is what we're trying to do here.


Lk 14:26-35
26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
27 And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple.
28 For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?
29 Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him,
30 Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish.
31 Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand?
32 Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace.
33 So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple.
34 Salt is good: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be seasoned?
35 It is neither fit for the land, nor yet for the dunghill; but men cast it out. He that hath ears to hear, let him hear.

[Basilissa]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

For a pastor you are certainly an <<<curse word removed by moderator>>>. Have you ever heard of witnessing? Christians do that. I think that is associating with "unsaved trash"

Matthew 4:19 quotes "And he said unto them, Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." This means that you are supposed to convert people to Christianity.

This is precisely why our Godly Pastors decided to set up this website.

People like you give Christianity a bad name and drive people away from God and Jesus.

You'd prefer that we lure them in under false pretenses, then?

I cant clean myself.

The only way to heaven in faith in Jesus Christ. not in works.
ephesians 2:8-9 "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast"

This verse says that we are saved through God's Grace, which is a gift from God, and which results in faith. Big difference, there.

[MCRISBAE]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

All True Christians™ know that if a boy touches himself, even in the shower, he is a homersexural. So just shut up about it and accept the fact that you are going to burn in HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY! "Fantasizing" about the "body parts" of female sluts is never an excuse! Since a boy is touching a male unmentionable member, that makes him HOMERSEXURAL!

So you are against hygiene? I cant clean myself. I dont remember that commandment.

As a side note what is a HOMERSEXURAL? <<<curse word removed by moderator>>>.

And Christianity is not trademarked

When it comes down to it... all these things you say will damn someone to hell isnt the case if they are a christian. The only way to heaven in faith in Jesus Christ. not in works.
ephesians 2:8-9 "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast"

[MCRISBAE]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

Pal, you seem to be under the delusion that we are interested in your opinion. We are not.

God actually commands us to stay clear of unsaved trash like you. You're lucky we let you post here at all. Don't push your luck.

For a pastor you are certainly an <<<curse word removed by moderator>>>. Have you ever heard of witnessing? Christians do that. I think that is associating with "unsaved trash"

Matthew 4:19 quotes "And he said unto them, Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." This means that you are supposed to convert people to Christianity.

People like you give Christianity a bad name and drive people away from God and Jesus.

[Didymus Much]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

...That or you're not keeping yourself pure until marriage, which is a big fat sin.

And your Scripture in support of this (as least as applies to men) is... conspicuously absent.

Making claims that the Bible says something it doesn't won't win you any friends here.

[LolitaInbred]

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No jealousy here. I wouldn't have you.

[Zechariah Smyth]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

And you haven't married her yet? Sounds like a cover-up to me. That or you're not keeping yourself pure until marriage, which is a big fat sin.

Your jealousy is an ugly thing.



(James 3:16) "For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work."

YiC,

Zech

[LolitaInbred]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

And you haven't married her yet? Sounds like a cover-up to me. That or you're not keeping yourself pure until marriage, which is a big fat sin.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

It seems you have an unhealthy obsession with homosexuality. Usually when people obsess over something as much as you guys do, it means that they struggle with it themselves and are battling it. You might want to get some professional help to accept your sexuality, "Pastor".

I will have you know that I have been happily engaged to Miss Daisy Mae for the past 7 years.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: New technology: How to stop your child from masturbating!

It seems you have an unhealthy obsession with homosexuality. Usually when people obsess over something as much as you guys do, it means that they struggle with it themselves and are battling it. You might want to get some professional help to accept your sexuality, "Pastor".

So believing, following, and encouraging others to follow the Word of God is an "unhealthy obsession"?