[Rev. Jim Osborne]

Re: Joe Beam - False Christian Sex Pervert!

I don't know what's worse...the fact that he's so casually talking about sex on the internet (where children can read it!) or the fact that he is blatantly posing as a Christian. Just skimming through his so-called "advice" shows the guy probably went to a few Bible study nights at some liberal church and then called himself an expert.

As Prof. Bessemer pointed out earlier, he advised sex while a woman is menstruating, even though the Bible clearly says not to. Here is some more unChristian advice from him.

i never know when my husband is going to get mad


Q: It seems like every day I am living my life on the edge, never knowing when my husband is going to get mad about something. It seems like I can’t make him happy no matter what I do and when he talks down to me it makes me feel like crap. Especially when he gets really mad (about absolutely nothing…seriously it comes out of nowhere.) He has threatened me many times, saying, “If you ever cheat on me, you will end up in pieces in some river!” or “If you ever take my child away from me….” He has tried to choke me. One night he hit me and I told him to let me out of the car and I walked home in the dark that night, scared out of my mind. After all this happens, he acts like everything is okay, like I shouldn’t be mad. Before we were married, he used to be so sweet, opening doors for me, holding me close, and I could see in his eyes that he loved me. It really makes me sad because that is the person I fell in love with and now, I don’t know who he is. I have never felt so low about myself. I don’t even know who I am anymore.

I don't know why this shrew is even complaining. She makes it sound like it's a bad thing that she will be killed if she cheats on him. The Bible makes it clear that adultery is punishable by death!


Leviticus 20:10 And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.


Her husband is obviously a Godly man who knows his Bible. And I love how she tries to make it sound like she's innocent when she gets hit. I'd be willing to be she is neglecting her wifely duties and her husband is simply correcting her with a firm hand.

How much am I supposed to take?
Lately I have been having dreams about other guys (that I don’t know) that show me affection or some sign that they care about me and it feels really good, but I always feel guilty in my dreams because something tells me, “you are married.” One night the guy was about to tell me how he felt and kiss me and it made me feel so special, but I woke up right away. It is sad because I wanted to go right back in that dream, and I actually tried.
I just feel so broken down because I am alone in this relationship. I tell him what I need, for him to treat me well and give me hugs, etc., but he says he won’t change for anyone. Do you have any answers for me?

Yea, I got an answer for you lady! You're an adulterer! Just dreaming about an affair makes you a filthy adulterer.


Matthew 5:27-28 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

In my opinion, you will either live like this until you can’t take it at all and then do something dumb like committing adultery, or you must take charge of your life now. Having lived like this for a while, it’s possible that you will need therapy to overcome your own emotional confusion. You don’t have to divorce him, but you do have to put your foot down and make him face the consequences of his own behavior. If he hits or chokes you, call the police. If you are afraid of serious harm or death, quietly find the folks in your community who operate safe houses for abused women and let them guide you. If he verbally abuses you rather than physically, don’t think that’s okay. Verbal and emotional abuse is destructive and shouldn’t be tolerated. If that continues, you may find it much better to move out, find the spiritual and emotional support you need, and then – if he doesn’t change – move on.

Yea, great advice, Joe. Let's just enable this feminazi even more. Instead of correcting her for making her husband angry in the first place, you make it sound like she's the victim!

If you are a Christian and fear that you will anger God if you don’t stay and take it, read Ephesians 5 where it says plainly that a husband is to love his wife as Jesus loves the church. This man is NOT doing that. He is failing his responsibility and being a bully, a manipulator, and a threat. In my view you have no obligation to stay with him if he does not get the help he needs to become a very different person than he is now.

This angers me! How dare he use the Bible out of context. This is what he is referring to.

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.


What I see here is an uppity wife not submitting to her husband. Her husband rules over her, like Christ rules over the church. There's nothing about "love" here, it's about being subject to. Just like we are subjects and servants to our Lord Jesus Christ, women need to be subjects and servants to their husband.


This man's website needs to be shut down. He is giving bad advice and destroying the image and reputation of Christianity! I, for one, will be sending him a particularily heated rebuke in e-mail!

[Professor Bessemer]

Re: Joe Beam - False Christian Sex Pervert!

Thank you Reverend! This Joe Beam person is the absolute worst. I would rather deal with an admitted immigrant atheist than a person like this. At least with a hellbound Canadian, you know where you stand.

But this fellow, with his feigned concern and his false faith, it is like trying to hold onto a greased eel, you are never sure of which way he is slithering! And as you mentioned, he is aiming his perverse advice squarely at our children!

I cannot wait for 2012, when we can elect Sarah Palin and institute Biblical law in America. Mr. Beam will certainly be on the short list for Holy justice. I will be gathering stones in anticipation of that glorious day. Praise!

[Noah Dint]

Re: Joe Beam - False Christian Sex Pervert!

I don't understand.

Why would anyone want to stick their finger in their wife's bottom? That must have been a typo.

-ND

[Godfly]

Re: Joe Beam - False Christian Sex Pervert!

The internet is no place for pornography!