WARNING: MEN ONLY
#metoo as seen through the eyes of doctors specializing in sex-maniacs and general deviants, or "paraphilliacs" in doctor-speak.
Some thoughts:
1. I'm still with the feminists on this one: moral condemnation, outrage, moral panic are the correct response. Feminists focus their outrage on the sex-maniac, we focus our outrage on the sluts who get molested and then act so surprised, as if religious authorities in every culture haven't spent the last 5,000 years telling them exactly what was going to happen.
Attempts to get to the root causes of the problem are obviously just siding with the slut, victim-blaming the man who was seduced, and so on. Finding out the truth is okay when dealing with small problems, but this problem is too big for the truth, making blind fury the proper response.
2. Sex-maniac behavior, such as flashing and public self-abuse, are described as "
courtship malfunctions". The speculation is that in the ancient, savage past, #metoo behavior was a standard courtship ritual, and modern men have not gotten the memo describing modern courtship rituals. Because there ARE no modern courtship rituals, thank you very much sexual revolution.
So when a man wants to have sex, he listens to an argument of angels and demons on his shoulders.
The devil is the ancient urges, whether they are actual demons, or, if you're an atheist, "instincts from earlier stages of evolution".
The conversation tends to go like this:
Demon:
"
whip it out!"
Angel:
"
the proper way to get sex is to follow the proper courtship rituals of your culture".
(But today the angel has no rituals or culture to pass on.)
"
Um....I hear that chicks are into vampires. Aren't you like, part vampire or something? No?"
"Whip your dick out! Why the Hell not?"
"I dunno, maybe he's right. Nobody tells me anything."
If feminists really wanted the molestation to stop, they would work on giving society a clearly organized courtship ritual. In their defense, some have done just this, but of course any heterosexual ritual designed inside a college bubble by rich lesbians is going to turn out just like you'd expect. (The first step is "
make sure everybody is a lawyer").
3. Fetishes seem to happen because children get confused when they are trying to figure out what sex is. Around ages 6 to 8, most children figure out that sex means a man on a woman. Some kids, while getting spanked, end up concluding that sex means spanking, and their urges end up derailed.
This seems to have been the scientific consensus for a long time, yet nobody has acted on this. Nobody has ever thought to just take a bunch of 6 to 8 year olds and show them straight people being straight.
Instead, think what messages you got as a 6-8 year old: the only women in your life are your teachers, who are obviously sexless old hags, TV has nothing but a surreal mess of male rock stars with long hair and makeup, women with short hair and pants...And it's only gotten worse.
4. What is with the term "
sexual predator"? Why this metaphor, of all things? What is the appropriate way for a man to find sexual subsistence? Would a man get better results as a "
sexual herbivore"? Or "
sexual scavengers"? Or "
Sexual parasites"? Women certainly don't want men who wait for the sex to arrive pre-packaged. This metaphor really drives home my conclusion that feminism is dominated by frigids and lesbians who just don't want straight sex to happen, ever.