Brother Bathfire, the parable of the Cadillac really clears things up. The soul is a delicate thing that should not readily be shared with others - even family members - would you let a random stranger ride your Cadillac? It would likely be returned all scuffed and with a puncture. Fortunately there are
exercises one can do to maintain integrity afterwards. But best not to share, which - I think, is the distillation of God's Holy message.