Oh, my, dear Sister Maxine: How your first photo brings back memories of when my beloved father and your Grampy used to go to meetings at the same church. I remember how Father used to come home afterward, so pleased with what these mighty men of
had accomplished.
Your second photo is very interesting, too. I'd imagine that your dear Pa has filled out a bit since the days when he was as green as a grasshopper, especially with your mother's cooking. I mean, if it worked for her, then it must have worked for him, too.
As for your lovely wedding dress possibly not fitting correctly, here's a tip from this old seamstress: just let out the darts. There's usually enough "give and take" within the seams to loosen up your frock a bit.
Sincerely, Isabella W.