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Default 70% of Divorces are Initiated by Women - 10-28-2023, 01:16 AM

Landover Baptist has a long history of successful marriages and of counseling married couples. It's unfortunate so many couples do not use Landover Baptist's Divorce-Is-Sin Program until it is too late.

It is not difficult to understand that when women entered the work force and had access to their own money they began evaluating their life options. You can be sure fewer filed for divorce when they depended on a man for food and shelter. How does Landover Baptist prevent women from filing for divorce?

Since the church's Divorce-is-Sim Program is a revenue source, I am reluctant to say much about this--people can sign up and learn. That said, it is not hard to realize that if women are not given the option to escape a marriage they will "choose" to stay. Preventing this option is at the heart of long-term marriage.

If you are a male and feel your marriage is slipping, immediately enroll you and your wife in Landover's Divorce-is-Sin Program.

Man Explains Why 70% Of Divorces Are Started By Women — 'Men And Women Do Not Have the Same Options' (msn.com)


Isaiah 24:1-3 Behold, the LORD maketh the earth empty (2)...as the taker of usury, so with the giver of usury to him. (3) The land shall be utterly emptied, and utterly spoiled: for the LORD hath spoken his word.
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Default Re: 70% of Divorces are Initiated by Women - 10-28-2023, 04:00 AM

Ever since Loretta Wynette stopped singing Stand by Your Man and started the evil refrain of D I V O R C E or I Don't Wanna Play House, our morals have steadily declined. 3 of the women at work are divorced or divorcing. One of them is named Jade.

Jade is divorcing because her husband controls what she wears, what she buys, the bills, and who she spends time with. One day she was complaining because she has to cook and clean and take care of the kids (5)


Her husband's mother visits daily and Jade hates that.


Being a young well built certified equine gnathologist I am actually glad I have not entered into marriage. It would surely fail due to some sort of incompatibility issue and I don't want to make the Baby Jesus Weep over another failed union. I can't think how we would be incompatible but my spirit whispers that in my ear.


I am curious who teaches Landover's program. I would imagine the Etheldreda husband has graduated this course. I say that only because Sister Mary is a strong woman. Not to fault them.


Proverbs 21:31 KJV 1611:
“The horse is prepared against the day of battell: but safetie is of the Lord.”

Lord, may I serve my equine brothers and sisters just as I do my fellow man.
Amen and Amen
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Default Re: 70% of Divorces are Initiated by Women - 10-28-2023, 04:15 AM

Is it just me?
Or does this seem like an unusual arrangement?
Very unusual. (If she's even married at all.)
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Originally Posted by A divorce lawyer:
I am seeing working moms doing it all. She's got the kids, she's got the groceries, she's got the laundry, she's got the meals, she's got the work - and by the way, she's making all the money and she's paying for the house and doing everything else."
Everyone has their own outlook on life, yes, and the majority have no interest in applying God's perspective; as an easy going person myself I of course respect their life choices – there's only one, really, the choice to blast oneself and one's family into perdition for unendurable yet inescapable torment, described by God as deserved. Although there are many so-called world views, following their precepts has a single outcome in The World To Come, reassuring every Christian that following God's path is the right desision.
Philippians 1
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Only let your conversation be as it becometh the gospel of Christ:
thatI may hear of your affairs
with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel;

28 And in nothing terrified by your adversaries:
which is to them an evident token of perdition,
but to you of salvation,
and that of God.
In all that kids, groceries, laundry, meals, work, money, house, plus whatever's meant by everything else, there was no mention of a husband. There may never have been one, in which case the paragraph would still apply. So who owns her? And say there was or is a husband, upon her repudiation, to whom does she then belong? This point was not covered and anyway I can't see the difference between single or married persons having to do housework. Unless staff is available, perhaps. But I would never employ a foreigner, almost all of whom follow major heresies involving idols. Continuing on:

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Funny enough (in a dystopian way), several studies suggest that the greater the gap by which a wife's income outpaces her husband's, the less he does around the house. That's right - the more money a woman makes than her husband, the more work she does around the house. Talk about an unequal division of labor.
She said, “I'll "dystopian" you!”

In reverse order, how can it be unequal if it's voluntarily entered into? Each partner is equally undertaking the amount of work they've chosen. And since this seems to be an upwardly mobile dual-income household, assuming it's the same house, there won't be extra floor to sweep or shelving to dust. Perhaps they could get one of those Italian bright yellow ovens about 2 yards wide with matching marble countertops (in fact I'd go for red quartzite in this case with the yellow fridge and probably uranium glassware would look quite nice) my point being even then the amount of "work" to "do" would increase only very marginally and in such a home, surely there'd be at least a cleaner? Gardener, probably? They could both just sit there enjoying a nice blue cocktail and if they had any taste at all, there'd be concealed UV lighting so the glasses would glow.

DYSTOPIAN

In exactly the same way, for a given population, the amount of work required for society to function is constant. Ten people necessitate 10 units of work, a thousand people 1,000 units and so on. Maybe more people means a lesser percentage going to transport, in that a population of 1 may need a road but a population of 2 could both use the same road, sort of thing. Who does what doesn't change what needs to be done. Again, as an easy-going type myself, I can see that if a third person turned up desiring oil paintings then someone would have to produce them – but that is entirely voluntary, optional and non-essential. Perhaps a hardliner would say unnecessary, but neither of us would go so far as wasteful. So when twice the number of presumably willing hands enter the workforce, given that there's still the same amount work needing to be done, obviously the pay will halve. Then you actually would need double income households just to stay afloat. Other than the owners of the means of production AND OTHER THAN MAKE-WORK, exactly as presented in the second quoted paragraph.

God understands all this and has explained everything we need to know, even for heretics should they choose to listen. Sadly, they never do.
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Default Re: 70% of Divorces are Initiated by Women - 10-30-2023, 08:37 AM

It's certainly true the options are different for men and women.

For men:

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“Hey, guy, your marriage isn't working. Would you like to try and fight to fix your marriage? Or would you want a divorce where you will lose half of your assets and possibly spend years fighting just to see your children?”
For women:

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“Hey, lady, your marriage isn't working. [D]o you want to take half of his stuff, take the children with you, live happy, and then complain about him because everyone will believe you?” he asks hypothetically to a hypothetical woman.
Not to mention, women have far more romantic options than men. Just yesterday I read a female author complaining about (for her) "a bad week" where she only received 3 such propositions.

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In spring 2012 I had a really, really bad week. I was followed home by a guy who was aggressively sexually propositioning me, I was groped on a bus and everybody looked away, and a guy unloading scaffolding turned to another as I was walking down the street and said: “Look at the tits on that!” If those three things hadn’t happened in the same week, I never would have thought twice about any of them because it was so normal.
Men on the other hand are lucky to receive any.


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Default Re: 70% of Divorces are Initiated by Women - 10-30-2023, 10:55 AM

Perhaps I was hasty.
First though:
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For women:
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“Hey, lady, your marriage isn't working. [D]o you want to take half of his stuff, take the children with you, live happy, and then complain..”
There's another alternative, ‘‘[take ˝ the stuff etc.] leave the children, sell all the stuff & move to Biarritz.’’

Godlessness is paramount in all these decisions and here I needed to reread the thread just to make sure. It was mentioned in one of the links that "the greater the gap by which a wife's income outpaces her husband's, the less he does around the house." But what followed did not follow at all! "That's right - " no it isn't, it's a completely new topic: a claim tossed out with no supporting evidence whatsoever! "..the more money a woman makes than her husband, the more work she does around the house." How much work a husband does has nothing to do with how much work anyone else does. Let's say the husband is a commercial airline pilot on $200K great! he's pulling in four thousand a week and can afford his own car. Here we're talking about a significant gap so I'll put the wife on $1.2m as a diamond trader or something. Under such circumstances I doubt either of them would be doing ANY housework. And so on all the way down.

So it was worth reviewing the posts. I may have been hasty in ascribing ratiocination where joined-up-thinking went out-the-window long ago, when they rejected Christ.




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Man Explains Why 70% Of Divorces Are Started By Women — 'Men And Women Do Not Have the Same Options' (msn.com)

Funny enough (in a dystopian way), several studies suggest that the greater the gap by which a wife's income outpaces her husband's, the less he does around the house. That's right - the more money a woman makes than her husband, the more work she does around the house. Talk about an unequal division of labor.

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