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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:28 PM
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That's very handy to know I never knew what the green blocks were. Also another question that bothers me. How much of a sin is touching myself? I know that any sin is bad but how far have I gone?
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Again dear, that depends on how you have touched yourself. Have you had any so called female orgasms? How many fingers do you use? Has there been penetration? Is your hymen intact? These are the things we need to know dear, so that we may pray correctly for you!
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:32 PM
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I sure could use me one of them velvety hand shaped clothes. Are they still in stock? And if so, what are they selling for? Do they come in other shapes as well?
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I'm not sure if they come in other shapes, Reverend Jim has only ever sent me hand-shaped ones. They cost $49.99, but for me I got a lifetime supply for the $100.00 price!
He might do the same kind of deal for you LostNY, just ask him!
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:35 PM
oops, I posted a little too quickly. Professor Bessemer, your post has helped clear things up.
Is it vivid details you wish to hear? Like feeling, thoughts, visuals etc?
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:40 PM
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oops, I posted a little too quickly. Professor Bessemer, your post has helped clear things up.
Is it vivid details you wish to hear? Like feeling, thoughts, visuals etc?
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Yes, I'm afraid so. Techniques and or objects used, what you think about, body position, these are all critical to determine your course of spiritual treatment dear.
Trust me, it will help you to no end if you unburden yourself.
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Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls. James 1:21
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:47 PM
It really helped me to describe my feelings "down there" (I still can't type that other word, I get too embarrassed ) to Reverend Jim. After I got my first batch of cloths, we talked on the phone for almost an hour. It really made me feel better. I even said that word a few times, after he encouraged me that it would help. And you know what? It did help!
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:50 PM
1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Dearest one;
Whenever you feel that you are being tempted to ... um... do stuff... I recommend picking up the Bible (KJV1611). I've found nothing takes away the desire to defile oneself better than some good old scripture reading.
Some of the best parts of the Bible (KJV1611) to read when trying to pass the time and not fondle oneself are: Leviticus; Numbers; Deuteronomy; Genesis 5; Ruth 4:18-22; 1 Chronicles 1, 2, 4, 6, 8, 9; Matthew 1; Luke 3; and pretty much anything written by Paul.
DO NOT; I repeat DO NOT read Song of Solomon. In fact, it's probably best to not read that book alone. If you are getting to that point in your scripture study, please call a pastor over to help mentor you through that book. If none are available, I (or any of the other brethren) can probably assist you in the reading.
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Judges 9:21 And Jotham ran away, and fled, and went to Beer, and dwelt there, for fear of Abimelech his brother.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:52 PM
hehe I did it again. I'm a little out of synch. This feels kinda embarrassing to admit the exact details but if it will help me then it's for the good.
I don't think i've penetrated. I'm too worried about the hymen breaking. I reached orgasm. I'm filled with sweat. I use about 3 fingers to rub myself or just my palm. Sometimes I am curled up on my side with the hand between on the bed. Others i'm laying straight on my back with my legs spread. Other things like my clothes make it worse. Like jeans. My worse is that I sometimes do it inside my clothes and it dirties what I am wearing. As for objects, I don't use anything but my hand although I sometimes hold my fluffy pillow on me as I tense up. Techniques, I just hold my palm over and rock slightly or with my fingers I tease the top.
How bad does this make me?
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:55 PM
Wow, you are doing some pretty slutty stuff! I think I might need to go get one of those Prayer Cloths right now! I've never done that stuff!
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 08:55 PM
I mean I posted out of synch again, not that I did the act again.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:02 PM
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hehe I did it again. I'm a little out of synch. This feels kinda embarrassing to admit the exact details but if it will help me then it's for the good.
I don't think i've penetrated. I'm too worried about the hymen breaking. I reached orgasm. I'm filled with sweat. I use about 3 fingers to rub myself or just my palm. Sometimes I am curled up on my side with the hand between on the bed. Others i'm laying straight on my back with my legs spread. Other things like my clothes make it worse. Like jeans. My worse is that I sometimes do it inside my clothes and it dirties what I am wearing. As for objects, I don't use anything but my hand although I sometimes hold my fluffy pillow on me as I tense up. Techniques, I just hold my palm over and rock slightly or with my fingers I tease the top.
How bad does this make me?
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Well, since your hymen is still intact, you at least are still a virgin, which is good. And the fact that you have stayed on the outside of your vagina is also good.
The orgasm you think you achieved is a myth, so it is nothing to concern yourself with. You see, orgasms are what men have when they plant their seed inside their wives. You have no seed to plant, therefore you cannot have an orgasm.
While I know this is not actually spiritual advice, it is practical advice. To avoiding messing your panties, I would suggest that if you are overcome with desire and absolutely must touch yourself, you should first remove all of your clothing and lie on a towel on your bed.
Is there anything more your like to tell me? Have you done it in the bathtub for example?
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Wherefore lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness, and receive with meekness the engrafted word, which is able to save your souls. James 1:21
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:07 PM
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I mean I posted out of synch again, not that I did the act again.
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Sure you did Nicole...
You and me are apparently more alike than I even thought...
Unfortunately I cannot give you useful advise on how to conquer this ordeal. Just know that I know what you are going though. And I hope you get help before you get to where I am where your own palm is no longer satisfactory!!
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:15 PM
So is it okay to actually do the act? Because it wets my hand and makes me shiver. I only use the shower and sometimes when I feel the urge I go for a shower to help cool me off but also on sometimes, I do the act. What is the fluid I experience afterwards? I only do it in my home. I don't try it elsewhere. One of the worse is in the mornings when wearing pyjamas.
And to Lostgirlny. I mostly feel a range of emotions. Really tense, nervous. It dulls during the act and it feels good at points. Afterwards it waves over in just pure guilt and shame.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:18 PM
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Sure you did Nicole...
You and me are apparently more alike than I even thought...
Unfortunately I cannot give you useful advise on how to conquer this ordeal. Just know that I know what you are going though. And I hope you get help before you get to where I am where your own palm is no longer satisfactory!!
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Wow, and I thought I was naughty! Do lots of unsaved girls do this stuff? I had no idea!
Is this the same thing as "emming"? Cuz I've heard some girls talk about emming at The Pita Pit, and I just pretended I knew what they were talking about. I thought emming was drugs or something.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:24 PM
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So is it okay to actually do the act? Because it wets my hand and makes me shiver. I only use the shower and sometimes when I feel the urge I go for a shower to help cool me off but also on sometimes, I do the act. What is the fluid I experience afterwards? I only do it in my home. I don't try it elsewhere. One of the worse is in the mornings when wearing pyjamas.
And to Lostgirlny. I mostly feel a range of emotions. Really tense, nervous. It dulls during the act and it feels good at points. Afterwards it waves over in just pure guilt and shame.
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I did not mean to suggest that it is OK to touch yourself in this way, I just thought I could spare you some time doing laundry if you are overcome by your urges.
Not to change the subject completely, but are you from outside of the United States Nicole? You seem to type with a bit of a foreign flavor. Where are you from?
As to the touching, I think you need to taper off. Stopping completely might cause your urges to build to such a state as you might be compelled to actually lose your virginity. And that would be a shame. As it is, you are still savable.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:30 PM
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So is it okay to actually do the act? Because it wets my hand and makes me shiver.
And to Lostgirlny. I mostly feel a range of emotions. Really tense, nervous. It dulls during the act and it feels good at points. Afterwards it waves over in just pure guilt and shame.
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I am not the one to say whether this is right or wrong, all I know is you are now where I was when it started for me... For me, my urges and "wetness" just got worse. I cannot explain it to you, as you will not be able to comprehend at your current state.
The dulling during the the act is normal - but do yourself a favor and try practice for this to not go away too quickly. With lots of work you will be able to last longer in this act, which in turn will give you more first hand time to decide whether what you are doing is right or wrong.
Guilt and shame is also normal, but this will either fade soon, or get less. In time to come (so to speak) you will only feel the guilt for a few minutes after the act...
I hope this was helpful to you... If you have any further questions, feel free to ask, or do whatever!!!
Psalm 1:5 Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgement, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:35 PM
Ah I see. Thank you I don't want to continue with it but I understand the idea of reducing the damage. I'm originally russian blood but born in united kingdom.
I don't want to lose my virginity until the right man chooses me for marriage but I have been doing this far more when I was young. I really like the idea that I'm saveable.
Thank you Lostgirlny. That has helped put the whole act into perspective. I suppose my biggest worry of it all is when i'm going through it, I start enjoying the feeling.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 09:53 PM
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my biggest worry of it all is when i'm going through it, I start enjoying the feeling.
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I understand. It is a joyous experience. I agree with the rest of the good advise (we both) got here tonight. Eliminate the future consequences by learning to control it now!!!
Enjoy it! Why not! When you find yourself in a dilemma where you need more than what you know now, please please please let someone know. Like they advised, get help from a pastor or reverend!!! May I recommend the good Pastor Ezekiel??
He is helping me and even though my counseling only started recently, I can feel the growth in my soul...
Hang in there. There are people here who can help people like us!!!
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 10:07 PM
Thank you so much for the nice advice. I would very much like to receive help. I'm glad i'm not alone in this. I've also been doing this for many years no and i'm concerned how deep rooted it is.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 10:09 PM
I am glad I could be of help dear. Feel free to contact me or a Pastor here if you need more guidance.
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Re: Please help for my sin! -
09-11-2009, 10:12 PM
I can't thank you enough for offering your time to listen and respond to me It means a lot to me and would be glad to help back if I ever could. I would really enjoy hearing some guidance on how to fully stop myself.
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