Dear Mr. White,
Thank you so much for your warm welcome! I must agree with you, the perfect form certainly reads even more gracious!
The truth is my late wife passed away roughly one year ago, it has been very lonely ever since. Especially considering my residence. I live in a house rather far outside urban civilization, and seldom meet other people. The only true christians I have had any contact with since moving here are my parents. Any "christian" who themselve pick which of God's rules to follow, I no longer want to associate with.
However I know my wife is in the warm embrace of God now, and I no longer feel sorrow for her, knowing she's in paradise.
We were actually in the process of conceiving a child, so I do have some experience in this matter. While I agree with you that the process is rather distasteful, it is afterall God's will that we father children. Therefore, by not seeing it as a judgemental act, but the opposite, I never found it very problematic.
I will pray for you and your wife tonight, may god bless you and your future children.