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Originally Posted by Seth Campbell
Believe it or not, it is actually quite easy to discipline your wife/children without leaving bruises. In Canada the wife couldn't go anywhere without someone pointing at a bruise and saying "did your husband do that?" Even a tiny little bruise on her forearm. Most of the time it had absolutely nothing to do with me.
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You're not kidding. It was getting to the point I was going to start wearing a shirt saying "I have 3 boys and large dogs, yes I have bruises!"
The worst case was when Matthew almost broke my nose. I picked him up and he swung his head forward and just nailed me right on the end of the nose. Seth took me to the hospital for an x-ray, and I've got a nurse, a doctor and a police officer trying to convince me to lay charges. They were really confused when I said "against who? A toddler?" Then the neighbor called the cops because I had a nasty shiner for a while. So I had to discuss the incident with another cop. Then wherever we went, people would look at me with sympathy and look at Seth like he was an absolute monster. It was so nice that they decided I was an abused woman without even knowing the circumstances.
You know if I was an evil manipulative femnazi I could have milked that situation for all it was worth. Or the time I pulled my shoulder while trying to open a stuck gate, or the time I dislocated my knee cap, or the time I fell down the stairs. Seth had absolutely nothing to do with any of those situations, but the Canadian cops still wanted to lay charges against him. Obviously I was just "an abused woman afraid to tell it like it really was".