[Cranky Old Man]

Originally Posted by Latvija13

My apologies Cranky Old Man, I did not look up those verses to make sure they were from the KJV1611

Apology accepted. Always be very careful with information that is not directly from the KJV1611 Holy Bible!

[Palmer C. Eldrich]

Are you some kind of playboy who has to fight the women off with a stick? I'm lucky if I can get a date, these days.

[BelieverInGod]

Originally Posted by Palmer C. Eldrich

Are you some kind of playboy who has to fight the women off with a stick? I'm lucky if I can get a date, these days.

Yes, my husband beats me because I'm a playboy who has to fight women off with a stick Really, please read the thread and you'll see that Latvija was only trying to be helpful in solving my problem.


I'm glad that Brother Cranky put the argument into perspective, the stuff that Latvija13 was coming up with terrified me. There's enough problems in the relationship without having to include another woman.

[JackieDambra]

Originally Posted by BelieverInGod

Yes God is in charge, however Jesus said that we can do all things through him. Well I fast and I pray, and I pray and I fast. I try to be the perfect wife. My husband brought home the movie "the Stepford Wives" a while back and I'm asking myself if that's what he wants, they were robots, I can't compete with a robot.

Jesus said that if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can do anything. Well I pray for it to stop, do I not have enough faith? Am I not a True Christian™ Why won't God stop it? I don't know how to have any more faith.


You're telling me God wanted him to be doing what he was doing?


I just can't do it.



What does homeschooling have to do with anything? Are you saying that my husband hit me because I homeschool the children?


What do you mean I gave up my life? The children and the house are my life! I would fight to the death for my children. What better? I should subject them to a roach infested basement apartment while I work at McDonalds and have no time for them? Send them to public school where they can learn how to use and sell drugs? I'm completely trapped. Is it better to go back, take the beatings, but give my children a good life? Or is it better to leave and put the kids in a poverty that they will probably never escape.

Um I never said that was the reason. And I think that you know that.If you cant see what to do then you really are

[BelieverInGod]

Originally Posted by JackieDambra

Um I never said that was the reason. And I think that you know that.If you cant see what to do then you really are

Well I'm glad to see the Pastors put you on moderation. This is probably the most hurtful statement you've made. You insult my children, who are very intelligent, you insult me.

Yes I can see what to do, I think I'm going to go back this weekend. He says he's going to continue seeing the counsellor with me, and even if nothing changes, he's gone more days than he's home. I just can't force my children into a life of poverty where I'll be too tired to give them a proper home and they'll have to go to public school to be brainwashed into subservient line workers.

[James Hutchins]

BIG, you know God expects you to be at your husbands side. To not be there is wrong.
Unless your husband dies or runs off, you cannot simply consider leaving him. You'd be branded a harlot and whore forever, no man would ever want you. Even if this does not bother you, think about your children, think of the shame they would have. No one would ever want to marry them, heck even employ them. Only if your husband was dead or disappeared, could you retain your purity in the eyes of Our Lord® and the community.
The only men that are perfect are God, Jesus and most Pastors and Reverends. The rest of us try hard but we all have a some failings, insignificant as they may be. I am sure you are not perfect too. I think a long look in the mirror is called for.

[Sidoain]

I read the whole thread and something is lacking.

We don't even know if your husband drink a lot, if he is on drug or addicted to anything that is bad. It seem like he work a lot, so he might drink coffee like every days before he go to work. This add stress in your system i heard and saw. Worst then that, nowadays, ppl drink Redbull instead of coffee.



One of my football teammate died because he use to drink this before each match to be strong. At the biggining, he was only exited every time. In the long run, he started being violent even on us and the Refferee of the match. No one is stupid enough to mess with the Referee. This might be the result of the RedBull. He died on the road. He might got mad while driving and smashed a tree or something. That day, we had lost the match too.

Why does that product have Red at the beginning? Might be because they want you to drink it to make you get enraged like a Bull attracted to the red color.

Anyway, don't get fooled by my Award, i do not Consume anything. Not even coffee since i am use to sleep sooner. I don't even eat at breakfast because i am too tired to move once i wake up, but still, i made a promise to myself to not consume anything, not even coffee. As a result, you rarely see me get stress up and instead, i only do a mean look. I clearly see the difference between me and other consumer; they get enraged so fast while i rarely get enraged. I saw load of other difference too.

Still, i think you deserved the beating when you messed up his system(I think his computer if i remember) You also deserved it when you decided to check him at his office. He is strong enough himself to call for help or press the 3 number on his phone, 911.

[Mrs. Mary Whitford]

While you have legitimate cause to complain about your husband's self-abuse - that's not Godly at all! - I'm having trouble stomaching your whining about a little correction action taken by him when you do wrong.
A good wife will learn from her mistakes and joyfully submit to her husband. You don't see me crying about it every time my husband, Mr. Whitford, gives me a stern lecture whenever I walk into another door or fall down another flight of stairs (oh sweet Jesus, the Lord created me as a clumsy klutz).

[BelieverInGod]

Originally Posted by Sidoain

I read the whole thread and something is lacking.

We don't even know if your husband drink a lot, if he is on drug or addicted to anything that is bad. It seem like he work a lot, so he might drink coffee like every days before he go to work. This add stress in your system i heard and saw. Worst then that, nowadays, ppl drink Redbull instead of coffee.



One of my football teammate died because he use to drink this before each match to be strong. At the biggining, he was only exited every time. In the long run, he started being violent even on us and the Refferee of the match. No one is stupid enough to mess with the Referee. This might be the result of the RedBull. He died on the road. He might got mad while driving and smashed a tree or something. That day, we had lost the match too.

Why does that product have Red at the beginning? Might be because they want you to drink it to make you get enraged like a Bull attracted to the red color.

Anyway, don't get fooled by my Award, i do not Consume anything. Not even coffee since i am use to sleep sooner. I don't even eat at breakfast because i am too tired to move once i wake up, but still, i made a promise to myself to not consume anything, not even coffee. As a result, you rarely see me get stress up and instead, i only do a mean look. I clearly see the difference between me and other consumer; they get enraged so fast while i rarely get enraged. I saw load of other difference too.

You have got to be kidding. Coffee makes people violent? What a liebral lie. I drink way more coffee than he does, why am I not beating the crap out of him? I assume that you're a true believer in the Twinkie defence as well.

You liebrals will come up with anything except yourselves to explain why you can't control your self control.

Still, i think you deserved the beating when you messed up his system(I think his computer if i remember) You also deserved it when you decided to check him at his office. He is strong enough himself to call for help or press the 3 number on his phone, 911.

You're an idiot. his office is in the house. I guess I should have left him in there until he started to stink should I? I called and called for supper, Easter Dinner to be exact. The fact that he wasn't coming up for Easter Dinner would not worry you?

Originally Posted by Sister Mary Maria

While you have legitimate cause to complain about your husband's self-abuse - that's not Godly at all! - I'm having trouble stomaching your whining about a little correction action taken by him when you do wrong.
A good wife will learn from her mistakes and joyfully submit to her husband. You don't see me crying about it every time my husband, Mr. Whitford, gives me a stern lecture whenever I walk into another door or fall down another flight of stairs (oh sweet Jesus, the Lord created me as a clumsy klutz).

Sister, he has been discussing things with the pastors here, and we've been seeing a counsellor. I needed a break, but I'm back home now. I decided that no matter what happens to me, I cannot give my boys the life they deserve by living on my own. I would have to put them into public school, I would have to let liebral brainwashing takeover, in fact Sidoain up above should be happy if I left, then my boys would get the liebral lifestyle that he thinks is so necessary for them.

[Seth Campbell]

I think maybe it's time I weighed in on this subject and put it to rest. I asked the Pastors to delete it, but they seem to think it's a fine example for other couples going through this.

Perhaps I was a little harsh on her. I was sinning, but to be honest, BIG has let herself go, she just doesn't have that spark that first attracted me to her, and the relationship has become comfortable, like an old shoe. Well I was online one doing some research for work and stumbled across a website and was tempted. That's when she walked in. Now she knows not to enter my office under any circumstances, I don't even allow her in there to clean the room because cleaning can easily become snooping. So I figure I can clean my own office and car just to keep her out of them.

As for why she left, well she's always been forward. As I've mentioned before, I should of held out and married a younger girl, or married when I was young instead of focusing on my career. The liebral influence doesn't help either, especially in this community.

Whether or not I have sexual desire for the woman it's her responsibility to accept it. Even on this Godly forum I noticed that some mentioned she should leave me (Cranky old man, Nutella88, etc).

I am VERY upset that she chose to air her dirty laundry on here. Even the secular court system recognizes that what happens between a man and wife is sacred. We've quit going to that stupid counselor she was going to since the femnazi said that I needed anger management. I'm not going to waste my time in some room listening to a bunch of fags whine about how their daddy didn't love them enough. I've put a deadbolt lock on my office door, and she is being punished. I'm keeping her on a short leash and it seems even God is punishing her as her favorite dog has been diagnosed with hip dysplaysia.

Now can we just drop the subject.

[Sidoain]

Originally Posted by BelieverInGod

You have got to be kidding. Coffee makes people violent? What a liebral lie. I drink way more coffee than he does, why am I not beating the crap out of him?

You read too fast. I said coffee add stress to your system. Then i said, Redbull make ppl be more violent. This is why we always come down to an never ending argument. You don't understand me, you refuse to take your time to understand what i say because you see me as an unsaved trash with a woman avatar.

You say that you drink more coffee then your husband, i don't see the need at all. I suggest you to use your Sunday to meditate and work out to be healthy instead of going to church. I don't ask you to not go to church at all, but you can use your free time for your own good instead.

[Seth Campbell]

Originally Posted by Sidoain

You read too fast. I said coffee add stress to your system. Then i said, Redbull make ppl be more violent. This is why we always come down to an never ending argument. You don't understand me, you refuse to take your time to understand what i say because you see me as an unsaved trash with a woman avatar.

You say that you drink more coffee then your husband, i don't see the need at all. I suggest you to use your Sunday to meditate and work out to be healthy instead of going to church. I don't ask you to not go to church at all, but you can use your free time for your own good instead.

Boy, what business is it of yours how much coffee I drink? You are unsaved trash, and that ain't no picture of a woman, that's a picture of a sissified momma's boy who hasn't been out of his basement in months. Anyway, if you hate the picture so much, why did you choose it?

So what if she drinks more coffee than me? She's at home where the pot is. And you're actually suggesting that my wife MEDITATE RATHER THAN GO TO CHURCH? You ain't no Christian boy, no matter what you say, you are a lying heathen here to destroy families and cast doubt on weak Christians.

You're a sick twisted boy and I think you should get yourself off to your nearest Baptist church rather than worrying what's happening in my household.

[Sidoain]

Originally Posted by Seth Campbell

Boy, what business is it of yours how much coffee I drink? You are unsaved trash, and that ain't no picture of a woman, that's a picture of a sissified momma's boy who hasn't been out of his basement in months. Anyway, if you hate the picture so much, why did you choose it?

So what if she drinks more coffee than me? She's at home where the pot is. And you're actually suggesting that my wife MEDITATE RATHER THAN GO TO CHURCH? You ain't no Christian boy, no matter what you say, you are a lying heathen here to destroy families and cast doubt on weak Christians.

You're a sick twisted boy and I think you should get yourself off to your nearest Baptist church rather than worrying what's happening in my household.

Lol, inst it obvious? I didnt chose my Avatar and i cannot even change it.

I suggest thee instead. Myself, i keep it coming with water only. For the meditate part, i was being sarcastic. I should had say relaxing so my bad. Still, working out keep you being healthy and less asleep. Myself, i never felt the need to drink coffee.

I go to church, but a protestant kind of church. You see, we do not believe in your Flat earth. As a protestant christian, thats might be why i protest a lot. I also have an Atheist side, but i am still more on the bible side.

[Seth Campbell]

Originally Posted by Sidoain

Lol, inst it obvious? I didnt chose my Avatar and i cannot even change it.

Your kind always come on here and say that, it's tiresome really. I chose my original avatar and then changed it to the photo it is now. I had no problems.

I suggest thee instead. Myself, i keep it coming with water only.

You suggest me instead? What are you talking about?

For the meditate part, i was being sarcastic. I should had say relaxing so my bad.

I doubt very highly that you were being sarcastic, I think you're backpedaling so the Pastors don't smack you.

Still, working out keep you being healthy and less asleep. Myself, i never felt the need to drink coffee.

Sleep isn't that good for you boy, it makes you lazy.

Proverbs 6:4 Give not sleep to thine eyes, nor slumber to thine eyelids.
9 How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou arise out of thy sleep?
10 Yet a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep:
11 So shall thy poverty come as one that travelleth, and thy want as an armed man.

I go to church, but a protestant kind of church. You see, we do not believe in your Flat earth. As a protestant christian, thats might be why i protest a lot. I also have an Atheist side, but i am still more on the bible side.

So why are you here? Why waste your time at a false church? I suspect that you feel guilty about going to a cherry-picking church and want to come onto our board to bring more into your slothful lifestyle.

[BelieverInGod]

Originally Posted by Sidoain

You read too fast. I said coffee add stress to your system. Then i said, Redbull make ppl be more violent. This is why we always come down to an never ending argument. You don't understand me, you refuse to take your time to understand what i say because you see me as an unsaved trash with a woman avatar.

You say that you drink more coffee then your husband, i don't see the need at all. I suggest you to use your Sunday to meditate and work out to be healthy instead of going to church. I don't ask you to not go to church at all, but you can use your free time for your own good instead.

No I read your whole thread, you accused my husband of being a drunk, of doing drugs, and drinking coffee/red bull the magical rage chemicals.

Then you tell me to skip church to go meditate like some chink. What kind of workout should I do? Tai-Chi? And you don't think a days worth of housework is exercise enough? I don't know how many stairs I climb in a day, but I can tell you it's a lot more than anybody doing 20 minutes on a stair master are doing, and they're not lugging vacuums, laundry, children, and whatever else needs to be moved while they're doing it.

Have you looked at the ingredients of Red Bull? It's caffeine, yep that's it, caffeine and sugar. I've tried them because there are days I need the extra boost, and I found it absolutely useless. There's no magic rage chemical in it. As for your football friend, that sounds more like steroids than Red Bull.

[theonetheonlyme]

Originally Posted by BelieverInGod

I left my husband last night. I just couldn't take it anymore. So I packed up the boys and I'm staying in my brothers apartment until I get my head straightened out and figure out what to do. Last night was just the last straw.

I had made a nice Easter dinner with a glazed ham, sweet potatoes, and some side vegetables in a cheese sauce. About 6:00 I did the call for dinner, well the boys came, but no husband. We sat there waiting for half an hour and no response. So I went down to his office to see what the hell was going on. I caught him pleasuring himself while having "online chat sex". I couldn't believe it! In our own house! So I freaked out, I killed the power bar to the computer and then the fight really started, he twisted my arm, shoved me out of the room. It turned into a fist fight and I grabbed the boys and left.

My brother is going over there later today to pick up my stuff. I don't know what I'm going to do about the dogs, we can't have them at my brothers place (it's crowded enough in a one bedroom apartment with just the humans) I'm afraid he'll hurt them just to get even with me.

I don't know what to do, or where to turn. Please help.

its over. you should just leave him. what he did was just so wrong!

[BelieverInGod]

Originally Posted by theonetheonlyme

its over. you should just leave him. what he did was just so wrong!

Actually I've gone home. He's promised it won't happen again, he's talking to the pastors, and he did see a counsellor for a while.

Anyway, I looked at my options and what's a few punches compared to having to live in poverty? I'll just try my best not to make him mad.

[Rev. M. Rodimer]

Originally Posted by BelieverInGod

Actually I've gone home. He's promised it won't happen again, he's talking to the pastors, and he did see a counsellor for a while.

Anyway, I looked at my options and what's a few punches compared to having to live in poverty? I'll just try my best not to make him mad.

Sister, being a defenseless woman who can't earn a living AND raise children, you make a valid point. What would you do if something were to happen to Seth? He could have a heart attack, or a stroke, or the brakes on his car could fail, or he could trip on a toy and fall down the stairs, breaking his neck and fracturing his skull. Where would you be then?

Sister, have you made sure he has adequate life insurance? Maybe it would be a good idea to get together with Seth and a Christian financial advisor to make sure your financial house is in order! Surely, Seth doesn't want to risk his sons being handed off to a Catholic orphanage where they will be turned into raging homosexuals and Mary-worshippers!

[BelieverInGod]

Originally Posted by Rev. M. Rodimer

Sister, being a defenseless woman who can't earn a living AND raise children, you make a valid point. What would you do if something were to happen to Seth? He could have a heart attack, or a stroke, or the brakes on his car could fail, or he could trip on a toy and fall down the stairs, breaking his neck and fracturing his skull. Where would you be then?

Sister, have you made sure he has adequate life insurance? Maybe it would be a good idea to get together with Seth and a Christian financial advisor to make sure your financial house is in order! Surely, Seth doesn't want to risk his sons being handed off to a Catholic orphanage where they will be turned into raging homosexuals and Mary-worshippers!

Yes we are both incredibly well insured. If either one of us die, the mortgage as well as all the other bills are paid off, and I'm not going to say how much, but we both have a substantial amount in life insurance. His is especially high if he dies while on the road working.

If both of us passed away, the children are to go live with his brother who is still living on the family farmland.

Not that I want to see any harm come to him.

[handmaiden]

Sister, if you do receive any insignificant slaps or punches because you've slipped up in being all you can be for The Lord and your lord husband, you can always apply leeches to the new bruises. This seems like the sort of thing that a Godly woman should do, because going about brazenly with bruises on your face or whatever is sort of like tattling. You need to respect your husband's dignity above all else.

I know leeches seem extreme but make up isn't always adequate to the task and there are always concerns about the evils of face painting. Leeches are not contraindicated in the Bible.

Mildly Helpfully Yours,

Handmaiden

p.s. You know if my husband had been more sincere in the Lord and had taken the trouble to beat me, I would be living in a nice town and too full of life to be sitting here typing right now.