[PetitionLady]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

Bless you brothers! Pastor Ja'von has many words of wisdom on his website pages. Here is an eloquent quote where he is asking for your testimony! Might I suggest some of us take him up on his request?

Professor, thank you for such a remarkable story. Have you invited him to join this friendly and Godly forum?

I also liked the suggestion of a name change to Pastor Jason.

A GOOD name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold. Proverbs 22:1

[Professor Bessemer]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

I'm not a lesbian, its my daughter who's the lesbian. I'.m a 60 year old mother with two grown children, one of who happens to be gay. I'm not even bisexual like Mr. Bessimer is saying...not that I'm making much sense of what he's saying come to think of it. I wouldn't be ashamed if I was thats just the way I'm made like others are made either straight or gay or bisexual. The trick to happiness is accepting who you are and working with what you have. Is Mr. Bessimer a sex change? Because I don't understand the reconstructive surgery part. As for Believer, if you were gay or HAD been gay I will give you that for the sake of argument you would know it was a gay bar.

Nan, if that is your real name, I am shocked at you ignorance and your impudence! Firstly, I did not spend ten years of my life at various Christian institutions doing post graduate work to be called Mister Bessemer! I will insist that you call be Professor Bessemer. Perhaps if we get to know each other better in the future, which seems unlikely but not impossible, I would allow you to address me as Doctor Stephen.

Now, not that it is any business of yours, but when I chose to cure myself of my rampant Sodomania, one of the therapies I chose was a radical new technique called Aversion Surgery. It involved the implantation of small, barbed, stainless steel rods in my genitals. Their function was to cause intense pain at the slightest physical arousal. They worked exactly as planned. However, a short time after they were removed, I contacted an opportunistic necrotizing fasciitis infection in my pubic region.

The doctors did not manage to save either my penis or my testicles. The reconstructive surgery you so rudely inquired about involved rerouting my urethra through a makeshift excretory protuberance so that could urinate in a standing position.

Brother James was referring to another elective surgery I endured more recently. I had the bulk of my colon, which was really quite damaged and barely functional due to my abuse of it for many years, removed and I had my rectal opening surgically closed. As I have mentioned here before, I praise Jesus that he cured my of my gayness every time I empty my colostomy bag.

[napa valley nan]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

how horrible! have you thought of suing the aversion therapy doctors? Id have thought problems like that might be a warning youre going down the wrong path! I bet they spent a lot of your money too. I'm sorry.

[Professor Bessemer]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

how horrible! have you thought of suing the aversion therapy doctors? Id have thought problems like that might be a warning youre going down the wrong path! I bet they spent a lot of your money too. I'm sorry.

No need to apologize, I am now cured of my homosexuality, and I praise Jesus for this fact each and every day. I consider my lack of genitals and closed anus a small price to pay for my salvation.

As to suing the doctors, they are Christian colleagues of mine and I was warned of the potential dangers of the surgery before I chose to have it. And as the old saying goes, you cannot make an omelette with breaking some eggs! Praise!

[napa valley nan]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

As to suing the doctors, they are Christian colleagues of mine and I was warned of the potential dangers of the surgery before I chose to have it. And as the old saying goes, you cannot make an omelette with breaking some eggs! Praise!

there are Gay Rights groups out there who'd sue for you probably even pay the lawyers who'd even work for free because what was done to you was a terrible and painful thing no one should have to go through. You might not get back to how you were before but you can keep it from happening to another person. Seriously I hope you think about this. What were the names of the doctors?

[Professor Bessemer]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

there are Gay Rights groups out there who'd sue for you probably even pay the lawyers who'd even work for free because what was done to you was a terrible and painful thing no one should have to go through. You might not get back to how you were before but you can keep it from happening to another person. Seriously I hope you think about this. What were the names of the doctors?

I do not think you are understanding me Nan. The very last people I would want to be legally entangled with are a mincing gaggle of sodomite enabling lawyers! I chose to cure myself Nan. I consider my current situation below my waist a blessing compared to what I was going through in my past!

I had deluded myself into thinking that I enjoyed drug fueled orgies of anonymous anal, oral, and manual sex! The countless all night encounters I had with innumerable sweaty, fit young queers were an offense to Jesus Nan, and the fact that He chose to let me cure myself is the greatest blessing anyone could hope for! I see the mess between my legs as a just punishment from God for going against His word for all those years.

But I do thank you for your concern. I just wish you had the same concern for you hell bound lesbian daughter, Nan. She is currently on a road that will lead her to much more pain, swelling, and suffering than I ever had to endure. Nan, you daughter is headed for hell itself!

[napa valley nan]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

I had deluded myself into thinking that I enjoyed drug fueled orgies of anonymous anal, oral, and manual sex! The countless all night encounters I had with innumerable sweaty, fit young queers were an offense to Jesus Nan, and the fact that He chose to let me cure myself is the greatest blessing anyone could hope for!

theres a middle road that s not all one night stands or getting yourself with everything cut off. The lifestyle my daughters friends now include living together and yes marriage. you dont have to go from one extreme to anothers. Dont be afraid to reach out for help because from what I have seen the gays and lesbians are accepting of ALL kinds in the family. Theres room for everyone even ex ex gay.

[Professor Bessemer]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

theres a middle road that s not all one night stands or getting yourself with everything cut off. The lifestyle my daughters friends now include living together and yes marriage. you dont have to go from one extreme to anothers. Dont be afraid to reach out for help because from what I have seen the gays and lesbians are accepting of ALL kinds in the family. Theres room for everyone even ex ex gay.

That may sound reasonable to the mother of an lesbian currently in the grips of her disease, but I am a straight man now.

Granted, I am not technically functional in a sexual capacity, and I need daily hormone therapy so that I do not grow breasts, but I can say proudly that I will never in any capacity be involved in either receptive or assertive anal sex ever again. And that is a fact I can be proud of Nan!

[BelieverInGod]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

theres a middle road that s not all one night stands or getting yourself with everything cut off. The lifestyle my daughters friends now include living together and yes marriage. you dont have to go from one extreme to anothers. Dont be afraid to reach out for help because from what I have seen the gays and lesbians are accepting of ALL kinds in the family. Theres room for everyone even ex ex gay.

Why are you so Hell bent on dragging the poor man back into the gutter with you? Are you Satan? Or just working for him?

[Benedict A. Davis]

Re: An Inspirational Ex-Gay© Ex-Drag Queen Negro Friend of Mine

Nan, Many years ago I found myself in a similar situation as you are in now. My only son ''came out of the closet'' in a very public way. I realized there were two options available, accept my only child for what he was and work towards some sort of relationship that some people would find acceptable or turn my back on my child and his hedonistic ways and lose him forever. There wasn't really much of a decision there, I put him out of my house and have not spoken to him since. he left me no choice, ignoring the words of our Lord as they are found in the Bible.

Leviticus 18:22 Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.
Isaiah 3:9The shew of their countenance doth witness against them; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not. Woe unto their soul! for they have rewarded evil unto themselves.
Deuteronomy 23:17 There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite of the sons of Israel.
1st Kings 14:24 And there were also sodomites in the land: and they did according to all the abominations of the nations which the LORD cast out before the children of Israel.

and if there were not scripture stating we must look to and live by secular law my child would have suffered more than just his banishment from the family.

Leviticus 20:13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

Sometimes you have to make the choice God or family.