[Tarantula-Nebula]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I dislike college very much, but I am not seeing another option right now. My parents both live on Disability, and cannot support me. I haven't even found a potential spouse yet to support me, and am worried that I never will. The only thing I can do is get an education and find a good job. My parents encourage it. I am also very unhappy living with my parents for reasons I cannot discuss here, and I am overseas right now as an exchange student. And I wasn't completely obedient to my father anyway. If he told me to do something I didn't want to do, I would laugh and say, “I do what I want!”. He didn't like it. So him being in a different country, too, means there is no male in charge of me now.



I don't have a good True Christian male over here that I have met yet to discipline me. I don't really know anyone here yet except just a few people. Any other options? But if I did, that would be the acceptable answer? Not just any male willing to discipline me? And I also read somewhere that females have big buttocks so that they can be spanked. I guess that must be true . . .



So what would happen to my husband if he started getting off of the path of righteousness if I cannot try to correct it? Does another Christian male spank him? And a husband (or boyfriend?) only spanks his wife if she actually sins, right? Not just for things like forgetting to pay the bills? If it's for any mistake, I would never be able to sit down . . .



“Yes, and bad enough to keep you on the path of Christ”. How bad is that? Crying and in a world of pain from a paddle, or just a few welts from a spoon? I was hoping I didn't deserve one and I was worrying for nothing. I am so scared of being spanked, and I know I won't endure it well. I don't want my butt to be hurt!




I'm sorry for so many questions! I really do appreciate your help! This discipline and female stuff is all new to me.

[Steph Leia]

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Hello! I am a fellow Christian and am looking for some advice. I might post this on other places on the web, too, because I'm looking for opinions. I couldn't figure out how to do my own topic, so I hope you don't mind me replying here, since it is related to this topic. And my questions here are serious.

You don't need to go prancing about the web looking for other opinions. The only opinion you will ever need is Jesus's.

not getting my homework done... being late for class,

If you're 18, (said below) you should not be going to school anymore. I no longer get homeschooled, and now I dedicate myself completely to obeying my father, and serving Him.

I have suffered from these lowly feelings so much that I started searching online for ways to punish myself, and found information on self-spanking. I decided to try it, and just a few hits with a wooden spoon hurts my butt so badly I can hardly stand to continue. It can't work well if I can't punish myself enough, although it does help a little.

Try talking to your parents about this, too. Or if they are unavailable, if you have a good True Christian male that you can trust, ask him to discipline you.

And now I am living alone.

You should be living with whichever male is in charge of you. As you do not have a husband, you should be living with your father. I shudder to think what I would do without a male to tell me what to do. I would just be so confused.

And if I were to someday finally get in a relationship, I would also like to spank my husband if I feel he is straying from the path of righteousness. That is permissible, correct?

Oh no, dear. It would be up to your husband to spank you, not the other way around! As a woman, we must remember that our minds are much more sinful (remember eve) and we more easily fall into the path of sin. If you start disciplining your husband, satan could twist your mind, and you'll start spanking him for obeying God. No. Your husband should be the one in charge of discipline.

1.) Do I deserve a spanking? If yes, how bad of one?

Yes, and bad enough to keep you on the path of Christ.

2.) Where/How can I get this spanking?

Your father.



P.s. To access the intro forum, you click on this link, then select new thread.

[Tarantula-Nebula]

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Hello! I am a fellow Christian and am looking for some advice. I might post this on other places on the web, too, because I'm looking for opinions. I couldn't figure out how to do my own topic, so I hope you don't mind me replying here, since it is related to this topic. And my questions here are serious.

I am currently living alone and come from a Christian family. Lately, I have been having a hard time dealing with guilt from various things, such as not getting my homework done, not keeping my room clean, not interacting well with others, not doing chores, being late for class, etc. I have no one to talk to about my problems, and no one to punish me. I have suffered from these lowly feelings so much that I started searching online for ways to punish myself, and found information on self-spanking. I decided to try it, and just a few hits with a wooden spoon hurts my butt so badly I can hardly stand to continue. It can't work well if I can't punish myself enough, although it does help a little.



I started doing more research and discovered CDD. I had never heard about this before, even though I am from a Christian family and some of them go to Church. I have done a lot of research on it, including on this forum, and am very fascinated with the things I have found. I think I am interested in pursuing this kind of lifestyle because I think it would help me stay on the right path. However, I am 23 and have never even dated before. And now I am living alone. How can I get the severe spankings I feel that I deserve? And do I really deserve them? From reading this forum, I'm also seeing for the first time about interpretations from the Bible stating females should be spanked and live under men. I have always lived equally with the opposite sex. And as far as being spanked, I was so young when I received spankings that I cannot remember them. When I think of being spanked by someone stronger than me, being held across their lap defenseless and feeling my underwear being pulled down to expose my big, bare bottom, my stomach flutters from anxiety. And that only worsens when I imagine someone beating my butt until it's unbearable and I'm in tears. I hate and am terrified of the thoughts of being spanked, but I like the thoughts of the relief afterward that I should feel after being given that kind of punishment.



And if I were to someday finally get in a relationship, I would also like to spank my husband if I feel he is straying from the path of righteousness. That is permissible, correct?



So
1.) Do I deserve a spanking? If yes, how bad of one?
2.) Where/How can I get this spanking?
3.) Any other advice?

[BaptistBethany]

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Dear Ladies of Landover, I am also a Christian Wife who realizes that my husband is the head of the household and must, therefore, dole out Godly discipline when necessary. I wanted to share a picture of a pair of Godly bloomers I made to wear under my dresses. These bloomers take away the need to "pull down" the bloomers for the spanking. My husband was very proud that I had put much thought into the making of these bloomers. He knew I wanted to make his job easier. Please let me know if you would like the pattern for these beautiful Godly bloomers! I will be happy to share!

[Basilissa]

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My Precious, Precious Sister,

As always, there you are - reaching out to others when your own needs are far greater. Surely our Savior will bless you with many crowns come the glory. I know I would LOVE to crown you right now, dear.

Yours faithfully,
Naomi

You're welcome, my beloved Sister.

[Naomi Ruth Lamb]

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My sweet little darling. Why do you ask? Do you want me to read it to you? Oh, you are such a sweetie! Of course I will! I always enjoy helping others!

My Precious, Precious Sister,

As always, there you are - reaching out to others when your own needs are far greater. Surely our Savior will bless you with many crowns come the glory. I know I would LOVE to crown you right now, dear.

Yours faithfully,
Naomi

[Basilissa]

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Sweet Darling Lissa,

Did you ever read YOURS? I seem to recall something about how anything written above third grade level was so hard for you. Keep striving, honeydew. You'll soon get beyond Winnie the Pooh. God will understand.

With prayers,
NRL

My sweet little darling. Why do you ask? Do you want me to read it to you? Oh, you are such a sweetie! Of course I will! I always enjoy helping others!

[Naomi Ruth Lamb]

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Of course, sweetie! Better yet, just read your Bible, it's all there.

Sweet Darling Lissa,

Did you ever read YOURS? I seem to recall something about how anything written above third grade level was so hard for you. Keep striving, honeydew. You'll soon get beyond Winnie the Pooh. God will understand.

With prayers,
NRL

[Basilissa]

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I am new here and desperate for support as I am just entering a Christian DD relationship and I really want/need it to work! Is this site a good resource for me?

Of course, sweetie! Better yet, just read your Bible, it's all there.

[pioneerprincess]

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I am new here and desperate for support as I am just entering a Christian DD relationship and I really want/need it to work! Is this site a good resource for me?

[juliet]

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Dear Juliet

To the right of your name you will see the words 'Posts - 3'.
Above this post you will see three of your posts, none of which counts as an Introduction .

YIC

Oh, I beg your pardon Sir, I was sure I had posted my introduction the firts time I entered the forum but I myself are not able to find it! Maybe I did not save it properly? I am not very familar with web resources, I will post it once more!

[Noah Sole]

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Dear Juliet

To the right of your name you will see the words 'Posts - 3'.
Above this post you will see three of your posts, none of which counts as an Introduction .

YIC

[juliet]

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Welcome to God's favourite forum Juliet, you certainly seem to have the attributes of a good Christian woman (without seeing a photo of course).

How about posting a proper introduction in the Introduction forum. What is your favourite Bible verse, what inspires you?

The one inspiring me today is:

1 Corinthians 14:34
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.

YIC

Dear Sir, I introduced myself as soon as I subscribed to this excellent forum, it was a few weeks ago, because I prefer to read and learn, rather then to write.

[Noah Sole]

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Welcome to God's favourite forum Juliet, you certainly seem to have the attributes of a good Christian woman (without seeing a photo of course).

How about posting a proper introduction in the Introduction forum. What is your favourite Bible verse, what inspires you?

The one inspiring me today is:

1 Corinthians 14:34
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.

YIC

[juliet]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I'll be thinking of you in torment yearning for the same treatment. How can your husband see such testimony as that letter and not immediately beat you senseless!

Yes Sir, you are totally right! It is so loving from our husband to dedicate their time, energy and efforts to correct their wives! And been beated senseless is a right way to increase a wife's respect and love towards a truly dominant and blessed christian husband!