What should I do?

[Mei Saeki]

I have just discovered my thirteen year old daughter has an interest in BDSM and Ageplay. She has told me that it excites her to even think about finding a man to dominate her, care for her and treat her like the princess she is. I have looked into BDSM and everything about it seems okay, and the two of us have agreed that she should wait until after she is married to engage in this practice. The Ageplay however is what I am concerned about, in Ageplay people act younger than they are as a way of comforting themselves and some are just born that way and have always felt like this was meant for them. While I love my daughter very much, I would like the opinion of you True Christians on what I should do.

[Elmer G. White]

Re: What should I do?

I have just discovered my thirteen year old daughter has an interest in BDSM and Ageplay. She has told me that it excites her to even think about finding a man to dominate her, care for her and treat her like the princess she is. I have looked into BDSM and everything about it seems okay, and the two of us have agreed that she should wait until after she is married to engage in this practice. The Ageplay however is what I am concerned about, in Ageplay people act younger than they are as a way of comforting themselves and some are just born that way and have always felt like this was meant for them. While I love my daughter very much, I would like the opinion of you True Christians on what I should do.

Darling,

You should follow the advice of Jesus.

Luke 14:26
If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

In addition, you should allocate many more hours to Bible Study and Prayer, instead of bombarding God's Favorite Worship site with nincompoop-level inquiries, although your prayers will be futile (John 9:31) unless you're already Saved, but they will be good practice in case...

1. (99.999 % probability) ...you end up in the Furnace and want to plead to Jesus (won't work) or...
2. (0.001 % probability) ...Jesus hears our Prayers on your behalf, makes you Repent and choose Him allowing you to Praise Him for Eternity.

Yours in Christ,

Elmer

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

And how will that help us? I want her to be happy, I will not have her disrespecting me because I don't agree with her wanting to do this.

[Elmer G. White]

Re: What should I do?

And how will that help us? I want her to be happy.

Wonderful! We've pinpointed your problem! You want her to be happy!

What a disastrous thing to say! I want my children to be Saved and get into Heaven. We'll have plenty of time to be happy in Heaven! In fact, I am pretty sure that they hate my guts (Luke 14:26! Praise Jesus!!) for making them follow Jesus instead of their fornicatory impulses. They'll thank me in Paradise one day!

John 16:22
And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.

This is exactly the problem of most atheists and false Christians worldwide, the short-sightedness of Earthly existence. This applies to sodomites, feminists, left-wing liberals, those seeking medical advice (2 Chronicles 16:10-13), asexuals, those voting for animalistic liberation, etc. They all want to bring happiness onto Earth by following their instincts and their emotional needs for comfort and "being Loved". That is not the way of Jesus. Jesus asks so little (Ecclesiastes 12:13; Luke 14:26). If we take the sodomite swarm, for instance, they make requests that are apparently reasonable on the surface: no more persecution, charity, letting others live their lives in their bedrooms as they please.

Wrong!

The Bible teaches us how to live our lives to get into Heaven. it also tells how this can be destroyed in an instant. It is a hard life to follow Jesus!

1 Thessalonians 2:15
persecuted us; and they please not God, and are contrary to all men:

The few decades of excruciating existence on Earth may seem hard now but think about the profits and benefits you'll receive in Heaven!

Matthew 13:22
He also that received seed among the thorns is he that heareth the word; and the care of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful.

Matthew 6:19-20
Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:


Yours in Christ,

Elmer

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

My husband and I have decided to treat her like a baby for one week and let her decide at the end of the week is she would like to go through with this later on after marriage, we are both okay with BDSM as long as it is after marriage and we are all happy with this decision. Thank you for your opinion! ^^

[Didymus Much]

Re: What should I do?

...Thank you for your opinion! ^^

The opinion you just soundly rejected.

Why are you here?

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

Just because you ask for opinions doesn't mean you should follow them! I wanted to know the views or what other people thought about this, not so I could follow them but so I could see what they thought.

[Joanna Lytton-Vasey]

Re: What should I do?

Why are you here?

I think the clue is in the user profile:

About Mei Saeki

Biography I'm a mother of two children, a girl and a boy and I'm currently pregnant with another boy!

Interests Drawing, Singing, Roleplaying, Writing

Occupation Stay at home mother

I didn't think it was biologically possible to have a 13-year daughter if you are only 14 yourself. But modern secular science has produced some Godless aberrations and I will defer to our own scientists on this matter.

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

Excuse me, but I am thirty. Roleplaying is just something I do in my spare time with my husband or on Twitter. I have not had the time for it unforunately.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: What should I do?

some are just born that way

No.

Excuse me

No.

Revelation 21:8

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

Actually, yes. I was born with what they call little tendencies, but they did not kick in until my little sister was born and I was jealous of the attention she was getting, I was about thirteen maybe fourteen. That is actually how my husband and I met.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: What should I do?

Actually, yes. I was born with what they call little tendencies, but they did not kick in until my little sister was born and I was jealous of the attention she was getting, I was about thirteen maybe fourteen. That is actually how my husband and I met.

Nonsense. You were born with what is called a "sin nature." That is to say, in your natural state, you are sinful, and therefore highly offensive to Jesus, and obviously, the rest of us. Predictably, the Holy Bible has the explanation, and answer! You see, mankind is born with a "sinful flesh" (Romans 8:3). It’s our human nature that produces sins like those listed Colossians 3:5. And Romans 6:6 speaks of "the body ruled by sin." In short, you and me and everyone, like King David of old, were born in sin (Psalm 51:5).

But there is good news! You don't have to continue to be repulsive, and disgusting, and of such a nature Jesus Himself wants to vomit. You can accept the Truth and be Free (John 8:32)! Wouldn't you like that? Wouldn't you like to offer your daughter a way out of her mental and emotional and spiritual hell-hole? Wouldn't you like to offer her True Freedom? Simply confess your many stupid habits, the ones that lead you away from Christ, and accept Him as your Lord and Master (Romans 10:9). Then you'll stop being so irritating, and you can join us in Praising Jesus for ever, and ever, and ever!

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

...The Bible does not say anything is wrong with what she wants to do and what I used to do, Ageplay and BDSM won't kill her.

[Didymus Much]

Re: What should I do?

...The Bible does not say anything is wrong with what she wants to do and what I used to do...

And when they show you that the Bible does indeed say something about those things, you'll be all fingers in ears LALALALALALALALALALA ignoring what they're telling you. Again. Still.

Mark 6:11 "And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear you, when ye depart thence, shake off the dust under your feet for a testimony against them. Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgment, than for that city."

In future, you'll learn a lot more from people if you A) listen to what they're telling you, instead of what your brain is hearing, and B) stop letting your pride and arrogance get in the way.

[Mei Saeki]

Re: What should I do?

They have no proof in the Bible to show me this is wrong, if they did they would have given it to me already.