Sex education is highly distressing

[Mother Of Seven]

My 10 year old daughter is distraught. Let me explain:


She is fascinated by the growing baby in my belly. She asked how it will get out, and I explained that it will come out from down there. That really turned her stomach that babies came from dirty parts of the body. Well, the next question was how the baby got in there in the first place. So I explained that Daddy put the seed inside my tummy, and from there it began to grow into a baby. Now, she's a smart little cookie, and figured out that the 'seed' was the same as the seed in the Bible and she asked how Onan could have spilled his seed. OK, there was no other way to explain this to her than explaining that the seed was like a tadpole which swam out of Daddy's naughty bits and into Mommy's naughty bits. She listened intently, but then suddenly, she burst into tears.


"I used to be in Daddy's naughty parts" she howled. "That makes Daddy a bad man likes those Mary-worshipping priests who do dreadful things to children". Now she won't even look at him, and runs from the room if he enters it. The first time she did it, Mike was going to discipline her, but I explained to him the cause of her distress, so he's left her alone.


Can anyone out there give me some ideas of how to assure her that her Daddy is not a bad man bound for the eternal flames of Hell?

[Elijah Mee, PhD]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

This just makes me sick and angry. I'm so sorry to hear about it.

What the heck is that school doing trying to teach the machinations of sexual intercourse to a 10-year-old anyway?? Are they actually expecting the kids to use this information?!

[Elmer G. White]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

Oh Dear, you have let the things get out of hand a little, haven't you...

Of course, you must have tried some conventional discipline already. I think that you could elaborate on that as follows:

1. The relevant verses to study with the female child.
Proverbs 22:15
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
Proverbs 23:13
Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

She must know these verses already and also their practical applications, I am sure, as you are a Godly woman.

2. You can explain that in addition to the disciplinary rod used for children daddy has a very special God-created rod used to discipline mummy. And that this type of disclipline, while most unpleasant, is also dictated by God similar to the corrective rod used on both mummy and children.

3. This special rod is created by God. Thus, it is a righteous tool, not comfortable or nice but GOOD in the Godly way.

Genesis 1:31
And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

4. This uncomfortable but righteous special rod is also used to fulfill another of God's orders:

Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

5. This shows how INGENIOUS God is. He can fulfill two necessary tasks with a single special rod. Discipline and procreation. By this ROD is mummy not only shown her righteous place below the husband but it is also God's tool to Create new soldier boys for Jesus and new wombs to Create even more soldiers.

6. Thus, the girl is a part of this wondrous scheme of God our LORD. And all that is of God is Good. The rod of discipline is good. The special rod when used in the manner dictated in the Bible is also Good albeit the manner of its use be most uncomfortable for both the husband and wife. The girl does not have to like what she now knows, but to fear and obey God.

7. Finish the teaching session with more discipline by Daddy but using the conventional rod.

My prayers are with you, as always!

Yours in Christ,

Elmer

[Bob4God]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

I'm sorry to hear you did not immediately send the daughter to her father or a trusted pastor to be instructed in these matters. I'm sorry, but women are so easily confused that they often lose sight of the facts and end up confusing their children.

The Bible tells us that GOD forms us each in the womb. I see no mention of "tadpoles" in scripture. In fact, I would bet, were it not morally objectionable, that none of you have ever seen one of these "tadpoles" in real life. Like the big bang, we are asked by scientists to believe in them on faith.

The Bible uses the term "seed" and that is exactly what it is. No amphibians live in MY naughty bits.

Next time a child asks you where babies come from, tell them the truth: They are grown from seeds by GOD in the garden of a woman's tummy.

[Sparkling]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

It is very distressing how young children nowadays lose their child-like innocence due to the twisted education system in many countries- including many public schools in our own United States of America!

I have heard very disturbing tales about children in 4th grade getting pregnant due to being taught "sex education" at a young age! Just think of innocent children being taught how to have "safe" sinful sex!

Unfortunately, I do not have evidence to back up these points, but if it is not the simple truth it is surely very close to the truth. I personally believe that it is imperative to keep True Christian children away from the twisted education system that Obama has brought us along with the communist monstrosity Obamacare. I assume that Landover's vast acres of land includes a True Christian school somewhere on it?

[Mrs. Elizabeth Johnson]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

I am definitely homeschooling my children! I do not want them exposed to that talk and learning about the boys body parts when they are 12, which is what they do in California! Heathens! My godly soon-to-be husband is considering moving.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

This video seems promising.

[Mrs. Elizabeth Johnson]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

This video seems promising.

My betrothed watched it before I did to ensure it appropriate (I am not saying he does not trust your godly judgment, Pastor Ezekiel, he is just very protective of me) and he calls it the best thing he has ever seen about this topic.

[Mother Of Seven]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

I think you all misunderstood my OP. There was no problem with the basics. The problem was that she had once been inside Mike's naughty bits. And she knows that little girls should have nothing to do with male naughty bits. As a result, she now thinks that Mike is a paedophile.


And nothing could be further from the truth. He wouldn't even change a diaper of a girl. He has never seen the girls even take a bath. And when he disciplines them, they have to wear a special suit for the purpose so that he doesn't see their bare buttocks.

[Attila's Wife]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

I think you all misunderstood my OP. There was no problem with the basics. The problem was that she had once been inside Mike's naughty bits. And she knows that little girls should have nothing to do with male naughty bits. As a result, she now thinks that Mike is a paedophile.

I can understand her thinking that if Mike had been inside her naughty bits. But it was the other way round. Can you somehow turn this around, pointing out that if anyone was at fault here, it was her? She could then pray for forgiveness and perhaps you could all move on.

You should definitely show her that video: the illustrations are charming. It gets a bit confusing about 4 minutes in, though, as Jenny's older brother and sister seem to be nigras.

[Mary Delacroix]

Re: Sex education is highly distressing

OP, it was not in your place to begin with to inform a child of such tender age on the vulgar truths of Child Making. Disturbed as your daughter may now be, it is very likely that you have damned her to a path of future whoredom.

Let your husband deal with the matter! The only way to quell the budding seed of promiscuity is for buckle to meet bottom in one glorious moment of Godly discipline. A few cracks to your misguided tush might be beneficial as well, don't you think?