[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Old Iron Crotch,

I cannot IMAGINE what kind of perverted relationship you have with your husband! If you actually ENCOURAGE him to abuse himself when you're too tired or have a "headache," you are encouraging him to rail against nature. You are BOTH going to hell, but your punishment will likely be worse seeing as you are a female and you have led him into depravity by refusing to receive him whenever he feels like it.

Neither of us says no to the other very often, but every now and then he's not in the mood when I am, or I'm not in the mood when he is.
I have never used the headache excuse. If I'm not in the mood, I simply tell him honestly, "I just don't feel like it right now." He respects my wishes, just as I respect his if he doesn't feel like it when I make an overture.

[Brother_Percy]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If I'm not in the mood, I simply tell him honestly, "I just don't feel like it right now." He respects my wishes.

More like you're husband's a wimp!

[Bob4God]

Re: About Marital Rape.

I know that MY wife never says no to me. We try not to make a habit out of knowing each other in the Biblical sense more than two or three times a month, but I've never heard her say no.

Often I will simply know her while she is asleep, and if she happens to wake up, she is decent enough to allow me to finish.

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

I know that MY wife never says no to me. We try not to make a habit out of knowing each other in the Biblical sense more than two or three times a month, but I've never heard her say no.

Often I will simply know her while she is asleep, and if she happens to wake up, she is decent enough to allow me to finish.

So you steal sex while she's alseep. You're one sick puppy.

[SUV]

Re: About Marital Rape.

every now and then he's not in the mood

And I'm guessing that he's really in the mood to get out of that cage you keep him confined in.

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

And I'm guessing that he's really in the mood to get out of that cage you keep him confined in.

There are no cages at my house.

[SUV]

Re: About Marital Rape.

There are no cages at my house.

Is your Husband running free now, then, amongst the ticks and chiggers?

[Brother DT]

Re: About Marital Rape.

No ladies,if your husband/boyfriend/uncle/daddy forces himself on you in any way it is RAPE and is ILLEGAL. Believe it or not Christians, you are not above the law of the land and if you engage in these kinds of activities will be be prosecuted , tried and sent to prison.

[Old Iron Crotch]

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Is your Husband running free now, then, amongst the ticks and chiggers?

At the moment, he's getting ready to go teach his classes.

[Nobar King]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Most women are raped while wearing just jeans and a t-shirt.

I'd like to see a source for that ridiculous claim. Everyone knows that most women get raped in miniskirts.

So you steal sex while she's alseep. You're one sick puppy.

How does one 'steal sex'? Are you sure he's not giving it?

[Warrior of God]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If you didn't take a vow to obey, you are under no obligation to do so.

If you are not Christian, you are not bound by Biblical commands.

If one spouse is in the mood and the other isn't, the one who is *expletive deleted* should simply *expletive deleted*.

No rape victim should ever apologize to her rapist.

If you didn't take a vow to obey, You're not a Christian wife, and that's what the Lady was talking about.

If you are not Christian, again, You're not a Christian wife, and , again ,that's what the Lady was talking about.
You would be a concubine , or slut , or some other kind of unpaid , llive in whore.

If one spouse is in the mood and the other isn't, I assume means in regard to the husband's requirements. Obviously , there is only one spousal state of import , the husband's.
Any woman who accepts and enjoys the benefits, security , provisions, and protection that marriage offers , is patently obliged to proffer the services she is capable of.. Otherwise she would be leeching.
Is that really how you see women ?

As exploitative parasites devoid of respectable honour and any valid sense of due reciprocity.

You seem to be making a strong case to say a man should breed the woman how ever many times he sees fit, then get rid of her before she becomes a pointlesss burden , an expensive gadget that doesn't even do its job...

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If you didn't take a vow to obey, You're not a Christian wife, and that's what the Lady was talking about.

If you are not Christian, again, You're not a Christian wife, and , again ,that's what the Lady was talking about.
You would be a concubine , or slut , or some other kind of unpaid , llive in whore.

I am a wife - legally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

If one spouse is in the mood and the other isn't, I assume means in regard to the husband's requirements. Obviously , there is only one spousal state of import , the husband's.

Sometimes the woman is in the mood and the man isn't; sometimes it's the other way round.

Any woman who accepts and enjoys the benefits, security , provisions, and protection that marriage offers , is patently obliged to proffer the services she is capable of.. Otherwise she would be leeching.
Is that really how you see women ?
As exploitative parasites devoid of respectable honour and any valid sense of due reciprocity.

We both have paying jobs and both contribute to keeping the bills paid, groceries bought, and house kept up. We each have our own car; he paid for his and I paid for mine before we were married. The deed to the house we live in is in my name, as I bought it before we married. Neither of us OWES the other sex as payment for other services rendered, and we don't see sex as a form of currency.


You seem to be making a strong case to say a man should breed the woman how ever many times he sees fit, then get rid of her before she becomes a pointlesss burden , an expensive gadget that doesn't even do its job...

If your logic was any more twisted, you could open a wine bottle with it.

[Marshall]

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I still don't understand why a wife would say no when her man has been at work all day earning a living and dealing with things she would never dream about having to deal with. She cleans and sews and vacuums and cooks but when he gets home she should be ready to help him wind down from his tough day. Part of that is her willingness to service him.

[Off Base]

Re: About Marital Rape.

There you go... you are finally getting it. Now you know why there are so many rapes on High School girls. And I'd say that in 99% of the cases, it is ALWAYS the girls fault.

What would you prescribe for me to wear? If you were in charge, would you have me wear those disgusting clothes women are required by law to wear in places like Iran?

I wear Jeans and a T-Shirt quite often. It's comfy and I don't have to mess with going to a special dry cleaners or anything like that. It has nothing to do with trying to show anything off (actually, my favorite pair are actually pretty loose; I have to wear a belt to keep them up since I've lost quite a bit of weight). The t-shirts are hardly form fitting, either; I do have form fitting clothes, but I don't wear them often, unless I have a date coming up.

Are you coming on to me or one of the other Brothers here?
Maybe one of the Sisters?
You are truly depraved.

If you find a six year old Green Day t-shirt with a big mustard stain on it sexually exciting, I have serious worries about you.

And, seriously, that thing is way too huge for me to wear anywhere but bed; It goes down nearly to my knees!

[Warrior of God]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If your logic was any more twisted, you could open a wine bottle with it.

If your response was any more irrelevant annd evasive of the issue you would be called Old Iron Crotch ...

Oh...that's right....you are.....
explains it all.

I imagine you champion all the modern day myths and social placebos that everyone is equal and other such drizzled dung