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  • Sibling Rivalry

    I know a Christian girl. Her and her brother constantly scream at each other and even hit each other when they get to fighting. As a Christian family what should they do?

    I just don't see myself fit to help although I have been asked to. I don't quite understand them but I figured you guys might have the godly advice they seek. As I don't think them just talking it out is going to help at all.

    I just wondered how you guys would solve the problem.
    I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

  • #2
    Re: Sibling Rivalry

    What are their issues ??

    Is the girl an incipient harlot the boy is trying to save ??
    Jud 1:15 To execute judgment upon all, and to convince all that are unGodly among them of all their unGodly deeds which they have unGodly committed, and of all their hard [speeches] which unGodly sinners have spoken against him.

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    • #3
      Re: Sibling Rivalry

      Originally posted by Metatron13 View Post
      What are their issues ??

      Is the girl an incipient harlot the boy is trying to save ??


      They fight about everything!

      Jessica doesn't like that her brother dates before marriage. She fears that his "virtue" is at stake as John and his girlfriend are not married. Jess says that she hates her brother's girlfriend for lying about being a virgin.

      John yells at his sister constantly for wanting to go to college. He says it is unChristian.

      They have other problems as well but those are the most they fight about.

      As you can see this is way beyond my help as they need other people like them (Christians) to help them. I just hate seeing them unhappy and breaking up their family.
      I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

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      • #4
        Re: Sibling Rivalry

        A young man needs to learn how to put a woman in her place at the earliest age possible. Now if the little wench is hitting her brother I would lock her in the woodshed with no food for a couple of days.
        Luke 5:31
        And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick

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        • #5
          Re: Sibling Rivalry

          Originally posted by Butterfly View Post
          I know a Christian girl. Her and her brother constantly scream at each other and even hit each other when they get to fighting. As a Christian family what should they do?

          I just don't see myself fit to help although I have been asked to. I don't quite understand them but I figured you guys might have the godly advice they seek. As I don't think them just talking it out is going to help at all.

          I just wondered how you guys would solve the problem.
          What do their parents do when they fight like this?!?

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          • #6
            Re: Sibling Rivalry

            Originally posted by Nurse Clampett View Post
            A young man needs to learn how to put a woman in her place at the earliest age possible. Now if the little wench is hitting her brother I would lock her in the woodshed with no food for a couple of days.
            He hits her for calling his girlfriend a whore. She pushes him away from her. Then she justs runs to her room.

            Their mom and my mom are good friends. We went over to their house last night. Jess and John fought almost the entire time we where there. Like I said Jess is upset that her brother is dating a girl that lied to him about being a virgin.
            I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

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            • #7
              Re: Sibling Rivalry

              Originally posted by Jenni111 View Post
              What do their parents do when they fight like this?!?
              Eric (their dad) just tells them to stop. Lily started to cry last night but usually she send them to different rooms.
              I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

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              • #8
                Re: Sibling Rivalry

                Originally posted by Butterfly View Post
                He hits her for calling his girlfriend a whore. She pushes him away from her. Then she justs runs to her room.

                Their mom and my mom are good friends. We went over to their house last night. Jess and John fought almost the entire time we where there. Like I said Jess is upset that her brother is dating a girl that lied to him about being a virgin.
                Well, that changes things then. Still, she should accept her brother's discipline regardless. I think a Pastor or one of the Landover Ladies should take this one.
                Luke 5:31
                And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick

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                • #9
                  Re: Sibling Rivalry

                  Originally posted by Butterfly View Post
                  Eric (their dad) just tells them to stop. Lily started to cry last night but usually she send them to different rooms.

                  What ever happened to the "Stick"?

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                  • #10
                    Re: Sibling Rivalry

                    Originally posted by Jenni111 View Post
                    What ever happened to the "Stick"?


                    Yeah right. Those kids barely do their chores let alone listen to their parents.

                    However Jessica is 19 her brother is 18.

                    They just still live with their parents.

                    Lily and Eric wont let them move out till they marry, something about family tradition......
                    I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Sibling Rivalry

                      Originally posted by Butterfly View Post
                      Yeah right. Those kids barely do their chores let alone listen to their parents.

                      However Jessica is 19 her brother is 18.

                      They just still live with their parents.

                      Lily and Eric wont let them move out till they marry, something about family tradition......

                      What Christian man would wed this nagging Jessica? Does that mean she will be stuck at home? :0

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                      • #12
                        Re: Sibling Rivalry

                        Originally posted by Jenni111 View Post
                        What Christian man would wed this nagging Jessica? Does that mean she will be stuck at home? :0

                        Her dad is picking her husband.....

                        She can cook, clean, loves kids and supposedly she is still "pure".

                        She just fears for her brother.

                        She doesn't want him to go to hell or whatever.
                        I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Sibling Rivalry

                          Originally posted by Butterfly View Post
                          Yeah right. Those kids barely do their chores let alone listen to their parents.

                          However Jessica is 19 her brother is 18.

                          They just still live with their parents.

                          Lily and Eric wont let them move out till they marry, something about family tradition......
                          Why are you imposing this unsaved teen drama on God's favorite forum? If they have parents, then it is their responsibility to deal with these uppity kids. The boy should be over in Iraquistan sending mudslime demons to hell for Jesus right now, and his sister should be tending to her third child.

                          Now go cast a spell somewhere else, witch.
                          Who Will Jesus Damn?

                          Here is a partial list from just a few scripture verses:

                          Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)

                          Need Pastoral Advice? Contact me privately at PastorEzekiel@landoverbaptist.net TODAY!!

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                          • #14
                            Re: Sibling Rivalry

                            Originally posted by Pastor Ezekiel View Post
                            Why are you imposing this unsaved teen drama on God's favorite forum? If they have parents, then it is their responsibility to deal with these uppity kids. The boy should be over in Iraquistan sending mudslime demons to hell for Jesus right now, and his sister should be tending to her third child.

                            Now go cast a spell somewhere else, witch.
                            Sorry Pastor.
                            I can't do good by you people! So I give up I tried your way for change, it sucked. So now back to my way.

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