Debating on Marriage

[Nate River]

I still consider 23 years of age to be young, however, I feel that it is time to start looking for the right girl. The thing is, I haven't been able to find 'the one'. It's all very confusing, and I often wonder if I was deemed to be married in the first place.

For the already married, or getting married fellows out there, how do you or did you know you found the right woman?

[Pastor Billy-Reuben]

Re: Debating on Marriage

That's a good question, Nate, and like all good questions, the answer is no further than your closest KJV. There is a checklist for what to look for in a woman located in the Book of Proverbs.

Prov 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
Prov 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
Prov 31:12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
Prov 31:13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
Prov 31:14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
Prov 31:15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
Prov 31:16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
Prov 31:17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
Prov 31:18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
Prov 31:19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
Prov 31:20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
Prov 31:21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
Prov 31:22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
Prov 31:23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
Prov 31:24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
Prov 31:25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
Prov 31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
Prov 31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Prov 31:28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Prov 31:29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
Prov 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
Prov 31:31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

I hope you find this helpful, friend.

Pastor Billy-Reuben

[Billy Ram]

Re: Debating on Marriage

I still consider 23 years of age to be young, however, I feel that it is time to start looking for the right girl. The thing is, I haven't been able to find 'the one'. It's all very confusing, and I often wonder if I was deemed to be married in the first place.

For the already married, or getting married fellows out there, how do you or did you know you found the right woman?

Jesus also has a special love for eunuch's. So if you can't find the right girl the Good Lord has made another way for us. Praise Him.