[Dr Laurence Niles]

Re: lostandlooking

I began to read some of the posts here and I began to feel convicted. I knew that my husband was not alone in his thought process. I don't believe the church we attend is Independent Baptist. I only know they believe in holiness and acts 2:38 as salvation. I have a cookbook from there. I will see if I can find address on the cookbook.
What do you suggest on my techniques to read the bible?
And I def had a good tanning last night. My bottom is still bruised good. But. I know that it is his right bc he must give account for my soul. I need to be good. I don't want anymore spankings even though I know I will get them.

Could you not have chosen a better avatar?

You look like a young boy in a golden wig: exactly the kind of thing that will attract the gaywise to our friendly forums

Please change it to a less provocative female face.

YIC

[Faith_Machine]

Re: lostandlooking

Welcome, Husbandslover! What shall we call you? Your first name would be fine.

You're reminding me of this one summer when I worked on a farm. I caught one of the other farm hands having sex with mule. Anyway, you kind of remind me of that mule.

[husbandslover]

Re: lostandlooking

This is a remarkable (and slightly suspicious) turn-around in the space of 24 hours.

Maybe you have, maybe you just figured out the Google works (but that in itself would be surprising, given the near-total lack of comprehension you were displaying yesterday).

Maybe the phrase "beating some sense into someone" has a grain of truth behind it (though I've never seen it demonstrated before; the exact opposite has been demonstrated on many occasions, in fact).

Be that as it may, I'm still uncomfortable with your continued reluctance to identify the Church your husband takes you to, that the True Christians™ may verify that it is, in fact, an Independent Baptist KJV-only institution.

I'm also discomforted by your apparent jumping around in reading your Bible. It would be too easy to miss something, and then your efforts would be for naught (viz. James 2:10).

But as the kids say, "Whatever", I'll be here to help you understand the commitment you rightly deserve for believing this crap are willing to make to your husband and your God.

I began to read some of the posts here and I began to feel convicted. I knew that my husband was not alone in his thought process. I don't believe the church we attend is Independent Baptist. I only know they believe in holiness and acts 2:38 as salvation. I have a cookbook from there. I will see if I can find address on the cookbook.
What do you suggest on my techniques to read the bible?
And I def had a good tanning last night. My bottom is still bruised good. But. I know that it is his right bc he must give account for my soul. I need to be good. I don't want anymore spankings even though I know I will get them.

[Didymus Much]

Re: lostandlooking

...I also read the entire book of Proverbs...

This is a remarkable (and slightly suspicious) turn-around in the space of 24 hours.

Maybe you have, maybe you just figured out the Google works (but that in itself would be surprising, given the near-total lack of comprehension you were displaying yesterday).

Maybe the phrase "beating some sense into someone" has a grain of truth behind it (though I've never seen it demonstrated before; the exact opposite has been demonstrated on many occasions, in fact).

Be that as it may, I'm still uncomfortable with your continued reluctance to identify the Church your husband takes you to, that the True Christians™ may verify that it is, in fact, an Independent Baptist KJV-only institution.

I'm also discomforted by your apparent jumping around in reading your Bible. It would be too easy to miss something, and then your efforts would be for naught (viz. James 2:10).

But as the kids say, "Whatever", I'll be here to help you understand the commitment you rightly deserve for believing this crap are willing to make to your husband and your God.

[husbandslover]

Re: lostandlooking

Sounds like you are making progress. You may jabber way too much...
But I think moderation is too harsh considering you do know your place and are apologetic!
Perhaps you should spend time on the female-orientated forums when you become a forum member and learn from great, godly women like BelieverInGod, Daisy Mae, Mary E, etc.

Thank you sir. My husband has taught me my place. I do admit I have a lot to learn. Perhaps, I should. I understand and respect the decision of moderation. My husband explained to me today about having to obey those that have rule over us so they can do it with joy and not with grief. I have so much to learn.

[Alterboy]

Re: lostandlooking

I have. I posted about it on "women are property" and/or "things the bible does not say." I repented to God today and asked for forgiveness. I also read the entire book of Proverbs, I cooked dinner and cleaned my home too. I don't want to waste anyone elses time or make anyone else unhappy. I read in proverbs today about how stupid it is to hate correction and how the rod is for the backside of those without understanding and how I need to work hard in my home and please my husband everyday.

Sounds like you are making progress. You may jabber way too much...
But I think moderation is too harsh considering you do know your place and are apologetic!
Perhaps you should spend time on the female-orientated forums when you become a forum member and learn from great, godly women like BelieverInGod, Daisy Mae, Mary E, etc.

[husbandslover]

Re: lostandlooking

I think you need to stop posting and wasting these good people's time until you've made a real effort of reading the Bible.

I have. I posted about it on "women are property" and/or "things the bible does not say." I repented to God today and asked for forgiveness. I also read the entire book of Proverbs, I cooked dinner and cleaned my home too. I don't want to waste anyone elses time or make anyone else unhappy. I read in proverbs today about how stupid it is to hate correction and how the rod is for the backside of those without understanding and how I need to work hard in my home and please my husband everyday.

[Alexandria Puckett]

Re: lostandlooking

I think you need to stop posting and wasting these good people's time until you've made a real effort of reading the Bible.

[husbandslover]

Re: lostandlooking

So why did you marry a Christian man if you didn't know anything about the Bible? And why did he marry a heathen woman?

As for the LORD blessing you with many children, that depends, do you even know how babies are made? God only intervened on "baby making" once in the entire history of man. What grade did you drop out of?

As for why your husband can punish you, well if you go back to that original thread, the scripture is right up at the beginning. The LORD considers us our fathers and then our husbands property. We are to serve and obey them.

If you read the Bible you would know this.

Then again, in your husbands case, I think even sickular courts would agree that sheer frustration would be a valid defense.

He is a good man and he said he would teach me. Yes I'm aware of how babies are made. We do that often. I never turn him down. What are sickular courts? I dropped out in 9th grade.

[BelieverInGod]

Re: lostandlooking

I have considered fully turning towards Jesus. I'm skeptical though.
Will the Lord bless me with children if I turn towards him?

So why did you marry a Christian man if you didn't know anything about the Bible? And why did he marry a heathen woman?

As for the LORD blessing you with many children, that depends, do you even know how babies are made? God only intervened on "baby making" once in the entire history of man. What grade did you drop out of?

As for why your husband can punish you, well if you go back to that original thread, the scripture is right up at the beginning. The LORD considers us our fathers and then our husbands property. We are to serve and obey them.

If you read the Bible you would know this.

Then again, in your husbands case, I think even sickular courts would agree that sheer frustration would be a valid defense.

[husbandslover]

Re: lostandlooking

Being saved is asking the Lord to forgive your sins, to allow Jesus into your heart and to live according to the Good Word (the Bible).

How can you even think of raising your children in such a mindset? No wonder you can't have children!

I have considered fully turning towards Jesus. I'm skeptical though.
Will the Lord bless me with children if I turn towards him?

[Alterboy]

Re: lostandlooking

I was searching for answers on why my husband feels he can discipline me. I saw the forum "women are property" and thought that I could find answers here. What do you consider being saved? Court wedding and why is it wrong to raise them as that? Just looking for answers. Thank you.

Being saved is asking the Lord to forgive your sins, to allow Jesus into your heart and to live according to the Good Word (the Bible).

How can you even think of raising your children in such a mindset? No wonder you can't have children!

[husbandslover]

Re: lostandlooking

Dear Husbandslover (makes you sound like a meandering mistress more than a wife),
Here are some questions:
1.) What brought you here to a forum filled with godly True Christians?
2.) Do you have plans to get saved?
3.) Did you have a court wedding? Afterall, if you are unsaved, how could you have a Church wedding?
4.) Do you want to raise your children as an unrepentant sinner?

I was searching for answers on why my husband feels he can discipline me. I saw the forum "women are property" and thought that I could find answers here. What do you consider being saved? Court wedding and why is it wrong to raise them as that? Just looking for answers. Thank you.

[Alterboy]

Re: lostandlooking

Dear Husbandslover (makes you sound like a meandering mistress more than a wife),
Here are some questions:
1.) What brought you here to a forum filled with godly True Christians?
2.) Do you have plans to get saved?
3.) Did you have a court wedding? Afterall, if you are unsaved, how could you have a Church wedding?
4.) Do you want to raise your children as an unrepentant sinner?

[Didymus Much]

Re: lostandlooking

Ok I will

Yes sir.

I am aware I need to do better. Thank you sir. I apologize for wasting anyones times. Thank you for your correction.

And half an hour later, you're still pointlessly jabbering away.