I come asking for help!

[Maria Knight]

As someone who was once unSaved and ignorant of God's love until very recently, I'm sure it'll come as no surprise to everyone that I was not taught how to cook a proper meal or to sew or really any other things a true, God-fearing wife should know.
How can I possibly find a True Christian husband to serve if I can't make even the most basic dinner or fix a button on his clothes?
I long to be worth rubies (Psalm 31:10), but I'm worth no more than gravel at this point in time.

Which is why I've decided to seek the help of the wonderful ladies here. Recipes for beginners, sewing tips, and any knowledge of other wifely duties that you would be kind enough to share with me will be greatly appreciated.



Thank you for your time and for your kindness.

[Isabella White]

Re: I come asking for help!

Oh, dear Maria, you poor girl! Goodness, gracious -- you have come to the right place if it's helpful advice that you're needing. I'm sure it must be very concerning to you, to think that you cannot find a suitor, considering your apparent lack of culinary and domestic skills.

Sewing a button onto a blouse should not be much of a problem, Dear, but it can take considerable skill to do it properly. But, practice, practice, practice, and you will soon have perfection. Do let us know how you are getting on after a few attempts.

Now, as for cooking, you might wish to go to your local bookstore (and as these can be hard to find in this day of computer gadetry, you might also wish to browse "online") for cooking books for beginners. You will want to find something that features easier things, such as how to make casseroles (assuming you know how to peel potatoes or chop an onion.) Then, after you've mastered that, you'll find yourself undoubtedly eager to move onto recipes that require a bit more involvement. And, that is why I am happy to share with you a recipe that will thrill your future husband to no end.

Duck Pate en Croute

Note: This is a time-intensive recipe that may exceed 24 hours, but a lot of that time is from chilling the farce overnight. Take care with your prep time and you can shorten the work to a day; just be sure that everything is properly chilled throughout the process.

Yield: serves 12
Time: 24 hours

Ingredients

3 1⁄2 cups all purpose flour
3 tbsp. kosher salt
2 sticks chilled unsalted butter, cut into 1/2-inch cubes
5 egg yolks plus 1 large egg, lightly beaten
2 tsp. finely chopped thyme
1⁄2 tsp. anise seeds
1 dried porcini mushroom
1 tsp. freshly ground black pepper
1⁄2 tsp. fennel pollen
1⁄4 tsp. insta cure (No. 1) pickling salt
14 oz. skinless duck breast meat, cut into 1-inch pieces
8 oz. boneless, skinless chicken thighs, cut into 1-inch pieces
5 oz. chicken livers, cut into 1-inch pieces
1 tbsp. olive oil
1⁄2 medium yellow onion, minced
2 king trumpet mushrooms (3 oz.) quartered lengthwise and thinly sliced crosswise
1 1⁄2 tbsp. unflavored powdered gelatin
2 cups chicken stock
mostarda, for serving

Instructions

In a food processor, pulse the flour and 1 tablespoon kosher salt to combine. Add the butter and pulse until it forms pea-size crumbles. Add the egg yolks and continue pulsing until dough just comes together. Transfer the dough to a clean work surface and knead until smooth, about 2 minutes. Cut off one-third of the dough and shape it into a disk. Shape the remaining two-thirds into another disk and wrap both disks separately in plastic wrap. Refrigerate both doughs for 30 minutes or until ready to use.

Using a spice grinder, grind the thyme, anise seeds, and porcini mushroom into a fine powder and transfer to a large bowl. Stir in the remaining 2 tablespoons kosher salt along with the pepper, fennel pollen, and pickling salt. Add the duck, chicken, and livers and toss until evenly coated in the spices. Transfer the bowl to the freezer and chill until the meat is firm but not frozen, about 30 minutes. Set a meat grinder to the large dice setting and pass the meat through it and into a bowl. Pass half the ground meat through the grinder a second time. Stir the ground meats together until evenly combined, then cover the bowl with plastic wrap and refrigerate at least 8 hours or overnight.

In a 10-inch skillet, heat the olive oil over medium-high. Add the onion and cook, stirring, until soft, about 3 minutes. Add the trumpet mushrooms and cook, stirring, until tender, another 5 minutes. Remove the skillet from the heat and let cool completely. Scrape the onions and mushrooms into the ground meat and stir to combine.

Heat the oven to 350°. Using a rolling pin, roll the larger dough disk into a 12-by-18-inch rectangle, about 1⁄6-inch thick. Place a 1 1⁄2-quart rectangular terrine mold in the center of the rectangle and lightly score the dough around the base of the mold, making sure not to cut through the dough. Roll the remaining dough disk into a 18-by-8-inch rectangle, about 1⁄6-inch thick, and trim to a 12-by-4-inch rectangle, reserving the scraps. Using a 1 3⁄4-inch round cutter, cut a circle out of the dough scraps, then, using a 1-inch round cutter, cut out the center of the dough circle to make a ring of dough.

Place the larger rectangle of dough into the terrine mold, using the score marks as a guide, and let the excess dough drape over the edges. Firmly press the dough into each corner of the mold, then fill with the ground meat, making sure to pat it down as you add to prevent air pockets. Fold the excess dough back over the meat, making sure it is completely covered. Brush the dough with the beaten egg then place the 12-by-4-inch dough rectangle on top, pressing firmly to seal and tucking the dough edges into the mold.

Position a 1⁄2-inch round cutter at the one-third mark of the top of the dough and cut a vent in the dough. Brush the dough with the beaten egg and place the reserved dough ring over the vent. Cut the remaining dough scraps into decorative leaves and circles and place them on top of the terrine. Brush the decorations with the beaten egg.

Roll a 2-inch square of foil into a cylinder and fit it inside the vent, like a chimney (this ensures the vent keeps its shape and properly lets out steam). Bake the terrine until the dough is golden brown and the center of the pâté reaches 165°, about 1 hour. Let the terrine cool for 1 hour, then transfer to the refrigerator.

In a small bowl, whisk the gelatin with 1⁄4 cup chicken stock and let stand for 5 minutes. In a small saucepan, bring the remaining stock to a simmer, then remove from the heat and whisk in the gelatin until dissolved. Remove the pan from the heat and let the stock cool to room temperature. Using the foil chimney as a funnel, slowly pour the stock into the vent of the terrine and chill the pâté until the gelatin is set, at least 8 hours or overnight.

To serve, remove and discard the foil chimney, then carefully invert the chilled pâté en croûte and remove it from the mold. Invert it right side up, cut into 1-inch thick slabs, and serve the pâté with mostarda.

https://www.saveur.com/pate-en-croute-recipe/

It is my prayer that this has been of great help to you, dear Maria. Do feel free to ask for more helpful advice -- at any time. And may bless and guide you on your way to domesticity.

[Joanna Lytton-Vasey]

Re: I come asking for help!

Where do you source your fennel pollen, Sister Isabella? I usually get it from the wife of a contact of my husband's in the 'Ndrangheta, but I haven't heard from her for a while and she may have perished in the pandemic, or for some other reason. Such a nuisance.
We should probably point out that "mostarda" is not mustard, but a condiment made of various fruits. It should always be home-made. As a rule, my husband prefers the Cremona version. But as an accompaniment to duck, the more pungent quince flavor of the Mantova recipe might be a better choice?

[Isabella White]

Re: I come asking for help!

Where do you source your fennel pollen, Sister Isabella? I usually get it from the wife of a contact of my husband's in the 'Ndrangheta, but I haven't heard from her for a while and she may have perished in the pandemic, or for some other reason. Such a nuisance.
We should probably point out that "mostarda" is not mustard, but a condiment made of various fruits. It should always be home-made. As a rule, my husband prefers the Cremona version. But as an accompaniment to duck, the more pungent quince flavor of the Mantova recipe might be a better choice?

Oh, my, yes, dear Sister Joanna -- fennel pollen can be hard to find. I shan't pretend otherwise. But, I do get mine during shopping trips to New York, although not everybody has the luxury of going there (especially at this time of flu-like confinement restrictions.) There are a couple of lovely gourmet shops in Manhattan that I favor, (one, in particular, up on Broadway & W. 80th Street) which carry hard-to-find, imported ingredients. I'm ever so happy that I thought to purchase more of the precious pollen when I was there this past winter.

As for the mostarda, either version is quite suitable. I think I prefer the one from Cremona, though. And, it's not difficult to make. Goodness, if one has an afternoon of leisure, then I can think of no better pursuit than the making of one's very own mostarda. Oh, that reminds me! I've forgotten to give some to Sister Hortense, and I know how she is counting on this for her dinner this evening. Must run for now, Dear, and I hope you & Matthew and the kiddies are having a most blessed Easter.