[James Hutchins]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

There's nothing wrong with teaching them right from wrong. Me being a very softhearted mother however, I have NEVER spanked my son and he's 3. Yet, he still listens to everything I say. I've found time-outs and loss of priviledges to be very effective. *As much as I hate to even do that.* I don't believe parents necessarily have to use corporal punishment to get their children to listen.

Proverbs 23:13-30
13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
15 My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.
16 Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things.
17 Let not thine heart envy sinners: but be thou in the fear of the Lord all the day long.
18 For surely there is an end; and thine expectation shall not be cut off.
19 Hear thou, my son, and be wise, and guide thine heart in the way.
20 Be not among winebibbers; among riotous eaters of flesh:
21 For the drunkard and the glutton shall come to poverty: and drowsiness shall clothe a man with rags.
22 Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.
23 Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.
24 The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.
25 Thy father and thy mother shall be glad, and she that bare thee shall rejoice.
26 My son, give me thine heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.
27 For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit.
28 She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.
29 Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions? who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath redness of eyes?
30 They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.


Then you people wonder why your kids shoot up schools. Follow the Bible, it is not hard to do! Get invovled with your kids life.

[juliet]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I've already mentioned I'm a lesbian, right?

prey the Lord. He will heal you from this disease.

and then find a Godly man. Ask him to spank you to erase your guilt, and then be a submissive wife and fill his quiver....

[juliet]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Well, my emotions are a-frigging-mazing, thank you. And my father's proud of me. Now, my husband? Why should I have one?

it is God's design that you marry a Godly husband and give birth to as many children as you can. it is what our good Pastor told me when my husband started his courtship to me...

[HisGirl]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I've recently married into a Southern Baptist family, I'm being introduced to many new things and was recently told that I will have discipline instilled into my life. After reading these postings I m a bit nervous, especially seeing the wide range of implements used. Im really not sure what to expect from my husband.

[HisGirl]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

...Ask him to spank you to erase your guilt, and then be a submissive wife and fill his quiver....

I'm completely new to this, actually haven't received any "spankings" from my husband yet but how exactly does it erase your guilt? What if you don't feel guilty over some reason that he spanks you ?

[juliet]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I've recently married into a Southern Baptist family, I'm being introduced to many new things and was recently told that I will have discipline instilled into my life. After reading these postings I m a bit nervous, especially seeing the wide range of implements used. Im really not sure what to expect from my husband.

First of all, congratualtions for your marriage! if you married a Christian man, you don't have to worry at all: he surely knows how and when he has to do to discipline you. Our dear husbands honor us with their discipline to make us be the submissive and obedient wives God designed us to be.

Don't be nervous or scary! from your husband you can only expect the best: a loving act as Christian Domestic discipline!! be happy to be so lucky: many wives have secular marriages where the husband does not care at all about them.
Our Godly men, on the othe hand, love us and care about us so much to dedicate their time, their efforts and their energy to correct us.

Of course, discipline is painful (it must be! it's a chastisement!!!!) but, ask yourself, what is worse? not to feel this temporary pain and to destroy your Christian marriage, and make your husband escape, because you are not a Godly wife? Or to accept with joy your husband's discipline, and be the beloved woman of his dreams?

the discipline is for your good, for your salvation, so be very grateful to your husband... and the harder he beats you, the more you have to thank him! You will surely remeber the Proverbs 20: 30
The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil

[juliet]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I'm completely new to this, actually haven't received any "spankings" from my husband yet but how exactly does it erase your guilt? What if you don't feel guilty over some reason that he spanks you ?

Women are inferior to men, so we have reduced capacity of undersanding. Maybe we do not feel guilty, but we are, we must trust the superior capacity of judgement of our husbands!
Remeber: it's not your hunsband, but God himself who is punishing you, through the hand of your husband. Obviously God cannot be mistakes!!!!

I never question my husband's decision to spank me. Actually, it sounds quite sinful to me, to question my husband's authority. We have to submit to our husbands in everything, so, when he mentions that I will be disciplined, I simply remove my clothes and bend on my knees on the bed, expecting for my due spanking.

this is what I really suggest you to do: don't argue, don't ask for explanations, don't moan, don't kick, don't move, don't shout, don't even beg for mercy. Accept with dignity whatever punishment he will deem as necessary for your good, just silently sobb, to show your genunine repentance. And always thank him after...

after punishment we earn forgiveness, that's why it is so good to receive proper discpline!

Beg your Godly husband to introduce CDD as soon as possible in your marriage. You will see how happy and in love both of you will be!!

I wish heartly the best for your marriage! Be it as good as you can: obey to your husband in everything, you will not surely regreat it!

[HisGirl]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Juliet- Thank you for responding to my posts! I agree that I am very lucky to have such a loving and caring husband that will dedicate his time, efforts and energy to correct me. It is a bit scary but I trust my husband and I trust God completely so I will do like you said and not fight anytime I'm disciplined. It is different for me to obedient in everything but I really am trying to do so, I am really strong willed but I am doing my best to become completely submissive to my husband.
Thank you, I'm glad there are women to talk to because most the women I know don't understand.

[Brother Harold Porter]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

It is different for me to obedient in everything but I really am trying to do so, I am really strong willed but I am doing my best to become completely submissive to my husband.

Thank you, I'm glad there are women to talk to because most the women I know don't understand.

Young lady, you need not be concerned with the prattle of other simpleton women. God makes it so clear in His word!

1 Corinthians 11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."

If you do not submit completely, you make Jesus weep. It really is that simple.

In Christ

[SharonRose]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

I don't like to boast, but I have a modest collection of disciplinary devices. I am somewhat of an enthusiast, I guess you might say. Though I have yet to be Blessed by Jesus with a wife and children, I can assure you that I am ready, willing and able to dish out all the Godly discipline that any of my future children require. Praise God!

And for any of you True Christians out there who might be interested in starting a collection of your own, there is a magazine just for us paddle enthusiasts!

Everyone needs a hobby....to help them relax....

Dear Pastor Ezekiel,
I hope my request for your friendship wasn't too forward. I was too eager as a PK {Ministers daughter} I got excited reading your posts! I know in Timothy 2:11 it says Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. So I was perhaps a bit to forward with being the initiator that is your job. Hope we can be online friends. Oops there I go again! - If I were married ide deserve some kind of a spanking. LOL! You probably can't edit or erace these posts so i need to be careful on here. I Stumbled upon this forum in my daily devotion on a Godly Woman. I am learning how I can be good mother wife and daughter. One of my fave subjects is a good wife. since I am 27 going on 28 I am ready to Obey a Loving Leader of a Husband. Even if that means being the neck that {turns the head} Not the head of the home. Even if that means being submissive. Being Quiet.
SharonRose

[Rev. M. Rodimer]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Sharon, please do bear in mind that Zeke is engaged to be engaged to Daisy Mae, and has been for at least 5 years. I don't believe he's "on the market".

Our Brother Faith Machine is single, though!

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Dear Pastor Ezekiel,
I hope my request for your friendship wasn't too forward. I was too eager as a PK {Ministers daughter} I got excited reading your posts! I know in Timothy 2:11 it says Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. So I was perhaps a bit to forward with being the initiator that is your job. Hope we can be online friends. Oops there I go again! - If I were married ide deserve some kind of a spanking. LOL! You probably can't edit or erace these posts so i need to be careful on here. I Stumbled upon this forum in my daily devotion on a Godly Woman. I am learning how I can be good mother wife and daughter. One of my fave subjects is a good wife. since I am 27 going on 28 I am ready to Obey a Loving Leader of a Husband. Even if that means being the neck that {turns the head} Not the head of the home. Even if that means being submissive. Being Quiet.
SharonRose

Dear Sharon;

You seem like an upstanding your lady who is in need of some firm True Christian(tm) guidance. Feel free to contact me via the email link at the bottom of my signature. Discretion assured, pics a plus.

Please make a thread of your own in the "Introductions" section of the forum, so that we can properly greet you. Tell us about yourself, your church and how you came to find Jesus.

YIC,

--Pastor Ezekiel

[HisGirl]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Young lady, you need not be concerned with the prattle of other simpleton women. God makes it so clear in His word!

1 Corinthians 11:3 "But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God."

If you do not submit completely, you make Jesus weep. It really is that simple.

In Christ

Thank you Brother Harold Porter. You made it very easy to understand. I will completely submit to my husband and God. After reading some different passages in the Bible that my husband has instructed me to do and some that were mentioned here I am not as scared to receive any punishment that come from the loving hands to my husband. He returns from his deployment tomorrow and said we will be starting our new life and my new way of life as It should be in the eyes of our Lord. I will be in prayer all night because I already know (and was told to expect) the up coming teachings and punishment will be severe.
Again Thank You

[HisGirl]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Introduction, ...really painful, will this stop hurting soon?

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: Christian Domestic Discipline

Introduction, ...really painful, will this stop hurting soon?

That depends on you, dear. What did you do that concerned your husband so? And will you do that again?