A Mothers Plea Regarding this Community and Daugthers

[BelieverInGod]

As the members of this community know, I am the mother of three boys. I have been praying for a daughter for over a year now, but it seems that God has left me empty, well that and Seth's work schedule.

Anyway, as my oldest boy will be 10 in March and my second son just turned 9 I have noticed a great discrepancy in our community. Where are the daughters? Who will my sons marry?

I am seriously concerned about the despise that this community has for girls, to the point that they're seen as a curse. What finally brought this to a head was this thread where two fine upstanding True Christian(TM) men (Brother Hank and Brother JustGotSaved) are vying for the hand of a woman of questionable background. Do we really want the young men in our community to marry any woman they can snag? Or do we want to raise proper God Fearing girls that will prove to be proper God Fearing wives? Look at some of the issues that some of our True Christian(TM) men have had because they married a woman of questionable background.

Yes it is true that a woman is to submit, first to her father and then to her husband, however do you think that you will find a woman who can follow the following rules in todays sicular society?

• 1. Love your husband, Tit.2:4.
  2. Be a companion, Mal.2:14; Prov.2:16-17; 31:12.
  3. Bible not prudish. Marriage bed honorable, holy, Heb.13:4; b. Consider instructions of I Corinthians 7.
  v.2, Help husband avoid fornication. Are you really helping?
  v.4, No authority over own body.
  
  v.5, "Do not deprive." No bargaining, motivating, paying back.
  v.5, "with consent for a season, lest Satan tempt...".
  4. Childbearing, I Tim.2:15. 5. "Rule," manage household, I Tim.5:14.

Then there's Proverbs 31. Do you think a sickular woman is going to buy a field and plant vines with her own hands? No they're going to whine and cry and demand that you're being abusive because you didn't buy them the latest TV to watch Oprah on.

So to sum it up scripturally.

You should marry a True Christian(TM) woman who knows her role.

• Genesis 2:20-22
• Genesis 3:16
• Leviticus 12:1-5 (trust me men, sickular women are going to want you in there so they can abuse you)
• Deuteronomy 22:5
• Ruth
• 2 Samuel 13:1-22
• Jeremiah 3:1
• 1 Corinthians 11:3
• Ephesians 5:22
• 1 Peter 3:1-7

You should not marry someone who is not a True Christian(TM) as it will cause you grief

• Exodus 34:16
• Leviticus 21:7
• Numbers 25:6-13
• Judges 16:6-21
• Nehemiah 13:25-27
• Proverbs 2:16-19
• Proverbs 11:22
• Proverbs 23:27-28
• 2 Corinthians 6:14

True Christian(TM) parents raise the next generation of True Christians(TM)

• Psalm 127:3-5
• Proverbs 13:24
• Proverbs 19:18
• Proverbs 22:15
• Proverbs 23:13-14
• Proverbs 29:15
• Isaiah 9:17
• Hosea 2:4
• Colossians 3:20
• Titus 2:2-5

So please, PLEASE, PLEASE. Let's consider the importance of women in our community just for the simple fact that we're starting to look like the opposite of a Mormon compound. Yes women are worth less in the eyes of God, but we don't want our sons to marry strange women and go whoring after strange Gods, now do we?

[WinnerNotSinner]

Re: A Mothers Plea Regarding this Community and Daugthers

I completely agree that we need to make as many girls as boys, it's just a bit of a let down being told "It's a girl". It's like winning $100 on a scratchcard, when the top prize is $1000.

That's just one of the hardships of life I guess, and the less Christian(tm) you are the more often you will bear girls.

But your point is valid, Sister, I would rather my sons marry fine Christian(tm) women to do the housework than a worthless harlot, and for that to happen we need girls too!

I only have one, and she's annoying as Hell, but at the end of the day if GOD's happy, I'm happy! (Gen 1:28)And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply,

[Goody Jerusha]

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Dear Sister Goodwife, my own nine year old daughter, Dorcas, is at the age where arranging her marriage is at the forefront of my mind! Perhaps my finding you has been providential.

Dorcas will make a fine wife and mother. She has been soundly whipped by her father and brothers and knows her place in the home. She cooks and cleans and already makes her own clothes.

If it pleases you, speak to your master about arranging a betrothal.

Oh joyous day!

God be with ye Dear Sister!

[Rev. M. Rodimer]

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I completely agree that we need to make as many girls as boys, it's just a bit of a let down being told "It's a girl". It's like winning $100 on a scratchcard, when the top prize is $1000.

Indeed, Brother! It's so much better than the words that brought an abrupt end to my marriage, "It's a puppy!"

Seem's man's best friend was also . . . Never mind. I don't want to talk about it. It's still too painful.

I sure do miss Rex. She took him with her.

[Didymus Much]

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Seem's man's best friend was also . . .

[PetitionLady]

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Excellent thread, Sister. With the strong faith and love that you have, I believe God will provide for your young men when the time comes.

Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof. Matthew 6:34

[James Hutchins]

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Sister BIG, you know I have a fair amount of respect for you even though you are just a woman. I am a bit shocked at this comment though:

....I am the mother of three boys. I have been praying for a daughter for over a year now....

Why would you pray for a daughter? God blessed you with the ability to make only sons. I wish Mrs. Hutchins only produced sons. In our 30 years of marriage, I have about 11 to 15 (I am not sure) daughters.

And in the next breath you say:

but it seems that God has left me empty

I am not in the least bit surprised God smote you. You need to get on your kness before God and probably the entire congregation and pray to Him to accept your apology.

I am very, very disappointed.

I hope your excuse turns out to be that you should of been sequestered in your menstra-hut and not being online.

[James Dewitt]

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Dear Sister BIG.
The problem as you well understand is a lack of quality females, it is not for lack of fine young men. Sure we have a few unwed Sisters, Felicity, Handmaiden, Tammy and Lycia( I have taken her under my wing and am in search of a good man) to name a few.

What we need is a training facility of some sort. There seems to be an abundance of unsaved females who need help finding Jesus. A place where family values can be taught. A place where a lady of less than pure background can me made whole again. If you think that this may somehow ease the problem, I ask that you contact Brother Porter. He is the head of DFAC, and I am sure that the full weight of DFAC can be utilized to help correct this issue.

I have a large parcel of land that I will be happy to donate to the cause.

As always YIC James Dewitt.

[Dave Smith]

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Awesome

[James Hutchins]

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Awesome

Way to go Dave, you never cease to amaze.

[BelieverInGod]

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Sister BIG, you know I have a fair amount of respect for you even though you are just a woman. I am a bit shocked at this comment though:

Why would you pray for a daughter? God blessed you with the ability to make only sons. I wish Mrs. Hutchins only produced sons. In our 30 years of marriage, I have about 11 to 15 (I am not sure) daughters.

And in the next breath you say:

I am not in the least bit surprised God smote you. You need to get on your kness before God and probably the entire congregation and pray to Him to accept your apology.

I am very, very disappointed.

I hope your excuse turns out to be that you should of been sequestered in your menstra-hut and not being online.

I haven't had a child in over 2 years, there is a 5+ year spread between #2 and #3 that's why I feel empty. The reason that I want a daughter is because so many homemaking skills are lost.

How many women do you know of that know how to properly beat a rug?

Dear Sister BIG.
The problem as you well understand is a lack of quality females, it is not for lack of fine young men. Sure we have a few unwed Sisters, Felicity, Handmaiden, Tammy and Lycia( I have taken her under my wing and am in search of a good man) to name a few.

What we need is a training facility of some sort. There seems to be an abundance of unsaved females who need help finding Jesus. A place where family values can be taught. A place where a lady of less than pure background can me made whole again. If you think that this may somehow ease the problem, I ask that you contact Brother Porter. He is the head of DFAC, and I am sure that the full weight of DFAC can be utilized to help correct this issue.

I have a large parcel of land that I will be happy to donate to the cause.

As always YIC James Dewitt.

Although I may be willing to take on one at a time, I do not think I have the ability to run a training center. I think that with most girls these days we would end up fighting so much liebral teachings. Like home canning will kill you, everything must come from a factory or it will kill you. Hard work will kill you.

[Cranky Old Man]

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I haven't had a child in over 2 years, there is a 5+ year spread between #2 and #3 that's why I feel empty. The reason that I want a daughter is because so many homemaking skills are lost.

Since when is home making a skill? Every women can do that. Be grateful that Jesus blessed you with only sons, most people are not that lucky.

[BelieverInGod]

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Since when is home making a skill? Every women can do that. Be grateful that Jesus blessed you with only sons, most people are not that lucky.

Good Sir, you would be surprised. Most modern librel "womyn" have issues with something as simple as boiling water. They've even written a book for these failures of the gender.



Unfortunately, as you've seen on this board, the same liebral "womyn" don't have the reading capability to understand this. They've even taken Home Economics out of the public schools because it was seen as sexist. I mean, I accept that I am no where near as intelligent as my True Christian(TM) Brothers, but at least a True Christian(TM) woman knows the hose has to be attached to the vacuum for the thing to work.