[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: True Christian™ Advice for Marital Bliss

Frankly I don't know why she even bothers to wash, scrub, cook and clean for her live-in boyfriend. He isn't a Christian, he's just the guy who fornicates with her. He could leave any day and there's nothing she could say about it, because legally she's not his wife. She's just his whore and maid.

If he doesn't even care enough to marry her, why is she knocking herself out to please him?

[Remy Lebeau]

Re: True Christian™ Advice for Marital Bliss

and a woman is in no way inferior to a man.

I could lift you over my head and use you as a weight; doing at least 12 repetitions. I doubt you could say the same. Therefore, I am superior to you. And that is only in one respect. Even your secular lieberal elitist atheist sensibilities would have to concur with that.

Check and Mate.

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: True Christian™ Advice for Marital Bliss

Frankly I don't know why she even bothers to wash, scrub, cook and clean for her live-in boyfriend. He isn't a Christian, he's just the guy who fornicates with her. He could leave any day and there's nothing she could say about it, because legally she's not his wife. She's just his whore and maid.

If he doesn't even care enough to marry her, why is she knocking herself out to please him?

Sounds to me like they are emotionally and spiritually married, they just have opted not to put it on paper.

[Rachael Van Helsing]

Re: True Christian™ Advice for Marital Bliss

Frankly I don't know why she even bothers to wash, scrub, cook and clean for her live-in boyfriend. He isn't a Christian, he's just the guy who fornicates with her. He could leave any day and there's nothing she could say about it, because legally she's not his wife. She's just his whore and maid.

Hey, no woman should 'have to' do that sort of thing for any man. Even if they were married, marriage should be an equal partnership where work is shared. Any husband who says his wife 'has to' do anything is not much of a man and is probably trying to overcompensate if you know what I mean.

That kind of relationship is called ABUSIVE. Unless, of course, he's telling her something like 'you must not drink that poison'.

If he doesn't even care enough to marry her, why is she knocking herself out to please him?

Maybe because of being brainwashed by, oh, I don't know, overzealous christians?

[Rachael Van Helsing]

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I could lift you over my head and use you as a weight; doing at least 12 repetitions. I doubt you could say the same. Therefore, I am superior to you. And that is only in one respect. Even your secular lieberal elitist atheist sensibilities would have to concur with that.

Check and Mate.

Maybe I personally couldn't, but that doesn't mean that no woman could. Have you seen some of the female athletes around?

[Mr. Old Iron Crotch]

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Based on the men I've known? A buck fifty, and that's being generous.

Ouch!

[Lithium]

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Whooow a lot to answer to

I'm living my life as I like it, and that does include making my fiance happy, because he and my daughter mean everything to me, as long as I see them happy I'll be too.

Yes I do scrub, wash, .... because if I don't it won't happen, there are minor things that my live-in boyfriend does but that's not much.
I'm home earlier than he is so I have more time to do the houskeeping. I adjust to his wishes because that's who I naturally am, sometimes I really get annoyed and start shouting but mostly when it happens it's because of the hormones
And we are getting married, not because of this forum because he is starting to get pissed because I'm here so often.
He asked me to marry him 2 years ago so ... then I got pregnant and such so I'm still waiting for that day to come

We both go to work every day and always asks eachothers opinion, maybe I do that more often than he does because I always try to avoid conflicts, and I'm happy this way, He's my soulmate, my lover, my everything and I'll do everything to make sure that he thinks the same way about me, and he does, he respects me, loves me and one of his most beautifull aspects is that he can make me laugh any time, no matter how sad I might be, he will always be the one cheering me up


About being brainwashed by this forum. I'm not.
I was raised Catholic (NO I did NOT worship Mary) so I really do believe that there is a God, but I do not agree with the KJV bible that he is so mean and hatefull towards people that are different, I often told my opinion on a lot of threads. And as mentioned before the bible was written a long long time ago, things have changed (although God didn't)

Amen

[Nobar King]

Re: True Christian™ Advice for Marital Bliss

He asked me to marry him 2 years ago so ... then I got pregnant and such so I'm still waiting for that day to come

Here's the problem. Your man get's away with everything without even having to make a commitment.

[SayvedByTheLord]

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You need to be your own person Libra. This is a one way relationship in many ways. You might want to do some introspection to see how happy you are.

Whooow a lot to answer to
I'm living my life as I like it, and that does include making my fiance happy, because he and my daughter mean everything to me, as long as I see them happy I'll be too.

YIC,
Sayved

[Nobar King]

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I agree. I've read the forum your husband posts to, and he never says things like that. It's all, "I can't wait to get home and get drunk so I don't have to talk to that bitch," and "When is that kid going to grow up and get a job?".

[Lithium]

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I agree. I've read the forum your husband posts to, and he never says things like that. It's all, "I can't wait to get home and get drunk so I don't have to talk to that bitch," and "When is that kid going to grow up and get a job?".

We go out together and he doesn't drink so you are slightly wrong here

[Original Gothster]

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Honey, you are a damn fool. That "man" isn't gonna marry you. Why should he? Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free? He'll just bang you until someone younger and hotter comes along.

I've seen it a million times! Dudes tell you they love you until they get into your panties, they screw you till you bore them, and they let you live with them until they find someone better.

Now, unless your the best dick sucker in France and you plan on staying 20 forever, that man is halfway out the door already. "I'll marry you in two years". Give me a piffleing break.

Believe me, I've been there. I've heard that exact same line of bullshit from more than one guy. And am I living my dream life? Well, if my dream life was to be over forty, hooked on heroin, fighting hepatitus, and still turning tricks when money gets tight, then yes, I'm living the dream!

Wake the piffle up girl!

[Lithium]

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Honey, you are a damn fool. That "man" isn't gonna marry you. Why should he? Why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free? He'll just bang you until someone younger and hotter comes along.

I've seen it a million times! Dudes tell you they love you until they get into your panties, they screw you till you bore them, and they let you live with them until they find someone better.

Now, unless your the best dick sucker in France and you plan on staying 20 forever, that man is halfway out the door already. "I'll marry you in two years". Give me a piffleing break.

Believe me, I've been there. I've heard that exact same line of bullshit from more than one guy. And am I living my dream life? Well, if my dream life was to be over forty, hooked on heroin, fighting hepatitus, and still turning tricks when money gets tight, then yes, I'm living the dream!

Wake the piffle up girl!

Huh it's nothing like that, we just don't are in a hurry to get in front of the altar
I know that he will stay with me out of small things, if I really am his "toy" why would he want to have a child ? It's not that our daughter was an accident
And sex is not the most important part of our relationship, he's not demanding in any way so that is not a reason to stay with me neither
That's all about this subject I'm going to tell
But I KNOW that what we have is a good relationship between two people who truly love eachother
I have enough proof for that

[Old Iron Crotch]

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But I KNOW that what we have is a good relationship between two people who truly love eachother

That's the most important thing.

[Nobar King]

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That's the most important thing.

Yeah, until he leaves.