[christain-goth]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Now, as we all know, Marital Rape is a very serious topic. There is a victim and a perpetrator. It is a dreadful crime.

When you refuse your husband his marital rights, you are committing a crime, Ladies! You swore to honor and OBEY him! Even if you didn't, you still have to: Ephesians 5:24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. If he asks you to minister to him, what right do you have to refuse? Well, I say there is too much talk of "rights" these days. What we need is more responsibility. Women need to make themselves responsible for their husband's godly needs. By not doing what you vowed to do, you are abusing your husband, Ladies!

So next time you lie to Baby Jesus and pretend you have a headache, and your husband requires his rights of you, you just think about what a terrible thing you did. Then apologize to your husband for forcing his hand, and pray to Jesus that he forgive you.

It doesn't matter if your married or not, rape is rape

If the woman isn't in the mood for sex, she has every right to say no

Why should a woman have to apologize to her husband for something that's entirely his fault?

[Ebenezer Wright]

Re: About Marital Rape.

It doesn't matter if your married or not, rape is rape

If the woman isn't in the mood for sex, she has every right to say no

Why should a woman have to apologize to her husband for something that's entirely his fault?

Did you even read the post you quoted?? The wife is supposed to submit to her husband! If he wants it, he better get it. AMEN

[christain-goth]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

[Ebenezer Wright]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

And I would love for you to produce a drop of scripture that supports that.
We follow the KJV 1611 Holy Bible here, this is not a forum for your thoughts and concerns.

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

These yahoos don't believe in marrying for love. They don't believe that a woman should even get to choose her own spouse. I can't imagine marrying for any reason other than love, and I don't believe that adults who love each other expect to command the other or be required to unfailingly obey commands from the other. The word "obey" was not in the vows my husband and I took. The words "love," "respect," "honor," and "share" figured prominently, however.

[christain-goth]

Re: About Marital Rape.

this is not a forum for your thoughts and concerns.

If this isn't a forum for thoughts and concern they why bother making it into a forum? Why didn't you just put down all your beliefs on a website and not let anyone debate them?

[Pastor Isaac Peters]

Re: About Marital Rape.

These yahoos don't believe in marrying for love. They don't believe that a woman should even get to choose her own spouse. I can't imagine marrying for any reason other than love, and I don't believe that adults who love each other expect to command the other or be required to unfailingly obey commands from the other. The word "obey" was not in the vows my husband and I took. The words "love," "respect," "honor," and "share" figured prominently, however.

I'm sure "Hail Satan" did, too.

If this isn't a forum for thoughts and concern they why bother making it into a forum? Why didn't you just put down all your beliefs on a website and not let anyone debate them?

We have a forum for the following reason:

Hebrews 10:24-25: And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some [is]; but exhorting [one another]: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.

Do you have a problem with that? If so, take it up with the Almighty.

[Old Iron Crotch]

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I'm sure "Hail Satan" did, too.

Nope - Satan is a character from Christian mythology. You guys can have him.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

Then your argument is with God Almighty, not us.

1 Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

1 Corinthians 14:34-36
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.

Ephesians 5:22-24
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Colossians 3:18
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

1 Timothy 2:11-15
Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing.

1 Peter 3:1
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands.

Now shut your yap and go fetch me a sandwich!

[Bama_Girl]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Just when I think I have seen it all, here comes Landover to prove me wrong yet again.
I really thought I had seen the most disgusting you people could get. I guess not.

Rape is rape, whether or not it is comitted by a married man onto his wife or not. Forced sexual encounters are rape. If the woman does not submit to her man then SHE is in the wrong? OMG Where do you come up with this malarky?
You people make me sick.
Do you think it is ok for men to rape children as well? I certainly hope you can't produce a bible quote to tell me that that is acceptable as well.

[Capt. Aaron Portway]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

Do you think all husbands want to go to work everyday? Do you think they want to spend their hard-earned money on fancy house dresses, mops, and vacuum cleaners? Do all husbands enjoy holidays with their inlaws?

No, No, and NO!!!

What's a little submission now and then? This thread isn't about breaking into someones house, tying someone up with duct tape, and violating someone with whatever is handy! No!

As Sister Jean Poole stated in the very first post, this is about a little understanding. This thread is about a wife doing her wifely duty and falling on her back and submitting even if she isn't in the best mood she's ever been in. Please, you LIEberals get so dramatic!

Rape? I hardly think so! And if it so awful ladies, just grit your teeth and think of Jesus, he had it a lot harder than you EVER will!

[Capt. Aaron Portway]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Just when I think I have seen it all, here comes Landover to prove me wrong yet again.
I really thought I had seen the most disgusting you people could get. I guess not.

Rape is rape, whether or not it is comitted by a married man onto his wife or not. Forced sexual encounters are rape. If the woman does not submit to her man then SHE is in the wrong? OMG Where do you come up with this malarky?
You people make me sick.
Do you think it is ok for men to rape children as well? I certainly hope you can't produce a bible quote to tell me that that is acceptable as well.

Oh just shut it BG! This thread has nothing to do with pedophiles like you hang out with! It's about the covenant of marriage, something you will never know the comfort of!

Shouldn't you be off somewhere, fornicating out of wedlock or abusing yourself with various devices? It was quite nice around here while you were away. Whenever you post, forgive me Jesus, but I feel like socking you right in the mouth!

[Lithium]

Re: About Marital Rape.

This is poor advice; you have seen that it is a commandment from the Law of God and requires no vow. Furthermore, a woman cannot take a vow unto God, it has to be done through her father

Uhm I did make a vow to God/jesus twice
once when I was 6 and once when I was 12
Normaly everybody does it within schoolyears (only those who were baptised)
I don't know if it's just us who do this or over there in Amercia it's also a common ritual
and I don't know the English name of it

[Jimmy-Roy Stewart]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If the woman does not submit to her man then SHE is in the wrong?

if the woman doesnt' want to submit to the man than she shouldnt' of married him in the first place its' as simple as that when my debbie said i do that meant that she was promising to service all of my needs with no back talk.

[Jean Poole]

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I agree completely, Mr. Stewart! One of my husband's favorite phrases is:

Back talk= Back hand!