[Brother Temperance]

Re: Please help for my sin!

I don't really know what to think. I'm hearing about 50/50 on both sides. I'm not sure if I like it or not but I really don't want sin and it's scary.

If you like something, that's usually a warning sign meaning that it's a sin.

I understand people with a lot of life experience have a respected say but I think I should keep an open mind and listen to all views like devils advocate here.

If there's one person you shouldn't be listening to, it's the Devil, or any of his advocates. It's hardly the most confidence-inspiring name, now is it?

[Nicole1Happy]

Re: Please help for my sin!

I understand people with a lot of life experience have a respected say but I think I should keep an open mind and listen to all views like devils advocate here. I don't want to say anyone is right but take everything into thought

[Dr. Warren Wierdsbe]

Re: Please help for my sin!

Your decisions are totally up to you. Do what feels right TO YOU, and not anyone else.

I urge you to go back through these pages and read some of the posts by Pastor and Jim. It's really creepy how they want pictures of you,...not cool. And do not buy those hands for your underwear, that's disgusting. It's a waste of your money and it fulfills their fantasies. These guys are all deeply disturbed molesters.

The one thing you need to do, Nicole, is consider the source. This blowhard naysayer is nothing. You have pastors with literally hundreds of years of life experience collectively seeking to help you, and several of the ladies of Landover, including my wives. Think about it.

In Christ,
Warren

[devils advocate]

Re: Please help for my sin!

I don't really know what to think. I'm hearing about 50/50 on both sides. I'm not sure if I like it or not but I really don't want sin and it's scary.

Your decisions are totally up to you. Do what feels right TO YOU, and not anyone else.

I urge you to go back through these pages and read some of the posts by Pastor and Jim. It's really creepy how they want pictures of you,...not cool. And do not buy those hands for your underwear, that's disgusting. It's a waste of your money and it fulfills their fantasies. These guys are all deeply disturbed molesters.

[Nicole1Happy]

Re: Please help for my sin!

I don't really know what to think. I'm hearing about 50/50 on both sides. I'm not sure if I like it or not but I really don't want sin and it's scary.

[devils advocate]

Re: Please help for my sin!

Yuk, this whole thread is disgusting. Be weary of the people that are trying to help you here. The second you explained yourself, pastors jumped right in and "called dibs" like your a prize to be won. They're fooling you.

All you so called pastors should be ashamed, wanting to hear details, wanting photos, wanting their underwear in exchange for gifts. What the hell kind of Christians are you? Your all f***ed up. You guys can get off by "helping" young girls? You old bastards need to keep it in your pants.

And to the OP, do what makes you feel good.

[Brother Temperance]

Re: Please help for my sin!

yes that's right

Frigging can be used as a term for self pleasure and it can be used as an expression of anger. Please excuse the example I use: "It is frigging hard to do the work"

A common sentence in England, where people are so lazy that there are literally millions of unemployed folk. Imagine that, a vast section of the population just being too bone-idle to have a job! Shocking.

Anyway, back to the matter in hand (as it were). There's a wise, Godly old saying that I often invoke at times like this: "Just say no to pleasure!"

[Nicole1Happy]

Re: Please help for my sin!

yes that's right

Frigging can be used as a term for self pleasure and it can be used as an expression of anger. Please excuse the example I use: "It is frigging hard to do the work"

Fanny is also only used to describe womens genitalia.

[Original Gothster]

Re: Please help for my sin!

I read your in England, right? Don't they call it "frigging" over there? And I hear that fanny doesn't mean your butt either! Those wacky Brits!

[Nicole1Happy]

Re: Please help for my sin!

Any help from anyone is always a pleasing welcome. I am thankful that you are all using your time to help me through my problems.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Please help for my sin!

My dear Nicole, it just so happens I run a ministry for young women your age and one of the issues that comes up quite frequently is self-abuse. I have helped dozens of young women over the years overcome their addiction to this sin. I am quite sure after spending a quiet weekend in a hotel with me, poring over the Bible, discussing what Jesus wants of you, and helping you take control of your passions that you will never, ever partake in the horrible sin of masturbation again.

You see, the act of masturbation increases lust within a young woman and makes her willing to explore her fantasies...which is just what Satan wants. Before you know it, she is experimenting with non-coital intercourse, receiving men into very dirty and shameful places in her body, or getting hot and sweaty with another young woman on camera. Many a woman has been led down the road to prostitution, harlotry, and pornography simply because of self-abuse. I've heard hours upon hours of explicit, graphic testimony (even saw videos of these sinful acts being engaged) from young women who told me all sorts of deviant acts they've done. Believe me, it's not pretty.

Hey, back off Jim. I've already got dibs on her

Brother Jim, the young lady has already chosen me to be her spiritual mentor. I've got the situation well in hand.

[Nicole1Happy]

Re: Please help for my sin!

Thank you. I never realised I was abusing my self. It makes sense really. I'm glad you were able to identify it. I don't want to fall to satan's temptations at all. I want to rise above and have the willpower to say no. I really don't want to fall into things like prostitution or pornography from my abuse. I'll be giving this more deep thought.

Thank you for taking the time to respond. It is always appreciated.

[Rev. Jim Osborne]

Re: Please help for my sin!

My dear Nicole, it just so happens I run a ministry for young women your age and one of the issues that comes up quite frequently is self-abuse. I have helped dozens of young women over the years overcome their addiction to this sin. I am quite sure after spending a quiet weekend in a hotel with me, poring over the Bible, discussing what Jesus wants of you, and helping you take control of your passions that you will never, ever partake in the horrible sin of masturbation again.

You see, the act of masturbation increases lust within a young woman and makes her willing to explore her fantasies...which is just what Satan wants. Before you know it, she is experimenting with non-coital intercourse, receiving men into very dirty and shameful places in her body, or getting hot and sweaty with another young woman on camera. Many a woman has been led down the road to prostitution, harlotry, and pornography simply because of self-abuse. I've heard hours upon hours of explicit, graphic testimony (even saw videos of these sinful acts being engaged) from young women who told me all sorts of deviant acts they've done. Believe me, it's not pretty.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Please help for my sin!

Read your KJV 1611 Bible

Get sandpaper gloves.

[Nicole1Happy]

Re: Please help for my sin!

Deep down I feel I only want to live a pure life. I want to go to heaven and in the space of my time on earth, I hope to help as many people as possible lead a wonderful and happy life. I feel greatly bad for this and I can't get over the fact it feels wrong.