[nikilds]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

Sister Mary Maria, I applaud the concern you show for your husband's feelings!

Why, I could never imagine the stresses a true man of the God must feel while keeping his family on the straight and narrow. How hard it must be for him to know when and how to righteously discipline his family! Especially us wayword women. With all these "protective" laws (more like destructive, can I get a witness?) and people in the media, like Rosie McDonalds, telling women to "take a stand" . . . why I just dont know how the world isnt being baptized by fire right this second!

I am by no means an authority on this subject, so please discount my humble opinion if someone has a better idea.
I think obedience is best shown through lip quivers. Try not to bite your lip to stop the tears; this only causes tension in the brows which makes one look defiant. As women, we want to show submission.
Also try not to apologize profusely while he's hitting you. I personally think this kind of behavior is cowardly. It's like you are saying, "Ow! I'm sorry! Ow! I'm sorry. Once you stop hitting me though I wont be sorry and I totally havent learned my lesson!! HAHA!!" How condescending of a woman to act like that! And what lesson will you have learned?! Take the beating like a true woman soldier of God!

And remember:
Apologize only when asked.
LIke SUV says, SILENT tears say sooo much. Weep crocodile tears if you must but try not to wail and scream in terror - thats what God made whimpers for.
Lastly, lip quivers say so much! They show true sorrow.

Praise your dilligence in submitting to your husband!
And praise to the strong husbands in the world! Keeping our feeble female minds in check!

Ephesians 5:23-25
23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.
24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.

[GothicDragon (Quarantined)]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

When I misbehave or don't learn my Bible lessons well enough, it's the duty of my husband, Mr. Whitford, to discipline me, and I accept that. The Lord has ordered me to submit to my husband in all things, and that's the way it should be (Adam wasn't formed from Eve's rib, after all).
So when he strikes me, it's for my own good. But it does hurt, so naturally I want to cry. He hasn't said anything about it yet, but I want to do the right thing to make his life easier and not distract him from Jesus. Should I try not to cry at all, or wait until he's done and cry in another room so as not to disturb him? Or should I cry right there to show that I'm learning my lesson?
If I could get some feedback before I ask him, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you, and God bless!

WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!?!?! if your husband is beating you then you should leave him and go to a woman's shelter if you need to. IT IS NOT FOR YOU OWN GOOD WHEN HE BEATS YOU!! IT IS FOR HIS OWN SICK PLEASURE!!!


sorry for yelling ^ ; but why do you put up with it. it is all good and fine for him to discipline you, but when that disciplining goes so far as to be actual physical harm... then it is not discipline; it is assault.... I feel really sorry for you.



if you want to cry when he beats you then go ahead and cry. god did not tell you not to cry did he? crying is a normal part of life, it cleanses you both emotionally and physically.

If the lord wants you to submit to your husband in every way, that does not mean letting him beat you. that is not submittance, that is cowardliness.

please go and see a councilor.

--Best wishes and sad thoughts. Dragon.

[Mrs. Mary Whitford]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE!!?!?! if your husband is beating you then you should leave him and go to a woman's shelter if you need to. IT IS NOT FOR YOU OWN GOOD WHEN HE BEATS YOU!! IT IS FOR HIS OWN SICK PLEASURE!!!


sorry for yelling ^ ; but why do you put up with it. it is all good and fine for him to discipline you, but when that disciplining goes so far as to be actual physical harm... then it is not discipline; it is assault.... I feel really sorry for you.



if you want to cry when he beats you then go ahead and cry. god did not tell you not to cry did he? crying is a normal part of life, it cleanses you both emotionally and physically.

If the lord wants you to submit to your husband in every way, that does not mean letting him beat you. that is not submittance, that is cowardliness.

please go and see a councilor.

--Best wishes and sad thoughts. Dragon.

How nice of you to assume you know what goes on in my house. When my husband, Mr. Whitford, disciplines me, it's only because I did something to deserve it! It he was beating me for his own "sick pleasure", he'd be beating me day and night, but that's not the case! Last week, for example, I forgot to have the oil checked when I had the car filled. That's not a mistake I will ever make again. See? It's for my own good, and I learn from it! So I'll ask you to kindly get your nose out of my family business and into the Bible.

[GothicDragon (Quarantined)]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

How nice of you to assume you know what goes on in my house. When my husband, Mr. Whitford, disciplines me, it's only because I did something to deserve it! It he was beating me for his own "sick pleasure", he'd be beating me day and night, but that's not the case! Last week, for example, I forgot to have the oil checked when I had the car filled. That's not a mistake I will ever make again. See? It's for my own good, and I learn from it! So I'll ask you to kindly get your nose out of my family business and into the Bible.

Forgetting to have the oil in the car checked is not a reason for him to beat you.......now you made me sad. I did not know that this kind of thing went on in the world, and the victims think that they deserve it. NO ONE DESERVES THAT KIND OF TREATMENT!!
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I ask again. please see a councilor or get help from someone.
((hugz)) and best wishes.
--Dragon.

[Mrs. Mary Whitford]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

Forgetting to have the oil in the car checked is not a reason for him to beat you.......now you made me sad. I did not know that this kind of thing went on in the world, and the victims think that they deserve it. NO ONE DESERVES THAT KIND OF TREATMENT!!
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I ask again. please see a councilor or get help from someone.
((hugz)) and best wishes.
--Dragon.

I got all the help and council I need from Landover's fine pastors when I converted from the filthy catlick cult to True Christianity, and Jesus Himself guides me through His Word. How can I get it through your thick skull that this is right and it's God's plan for women everywhere?

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

1Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.

[Daisy Mae Johnson]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

The only time my Honeypie, Pastor Zeke beats me is when I deserve it.

Like talking out of line in church.......burning his steak or interrupting him when he is doing something important.

I should know better and got my just deserts.

Humble, Sister Thumper

[GothicDragon (Quarantined)]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

I got all the help and council I need from Landover's fine pastors when I converted from the filthy catlick cult to True Christianity, and Jesus Himself guides me through His Word. How can I get it through your thick skull that this is right and it's God's plan for women everywhere?

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

1Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
3:2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.

.....when people post verses or quotes or whatever I don't even read them...I just skip to the end .

anyway; long story short. It is wrong for men to beat women just like it is wrong for women to beat men. so please talk to a psychiatrist.

--best wishes and lots of ((hugz))
--Blessed Be,
-Dragon.

[Mrs. Mary Whitford]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

.....when people post verses or quotes or whatever I don't even read them...I just skip to the end .

anyway; long story short. It is wrong for men to beat women just like it is wrong for women to beat men. so please talk to a psychiatrist.

--best wishes and lots of ((hugz))
--Blessed Be,
-Dragon.

First you disparage my faith and God's Word, which is bad enough (your wilful disobedience of Him makes you far more in need of therapy than I every will be), but now you try to hex me with a Wicced curse?
Take that back, or face some Godly infraction points!

Exodus 22:18 Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live.

[Miss Hikari]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

No one should be beating anyone. That's called domestic violence. Nest time he should does it, you should call 911. Burning a steak is no reason to hit you. The approipate response for that would be:

"Honey, you seemed to have burned my steak. Could you please make me another, and check the stove more often?"

Problem solved.

It's times like this I'm sorta glad that I have a pushover for a boyfriend.

[Unsaved and Loving It]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

if ($truechristians!="violent") {
      worldEnd();
}

[GothicDragon (Quarantined)]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

What ever, I give up. If you want to let your husband *cough*womanbeater*cough* beat you, then that is you rproblem, just don't go crying to people when he breaks your arm or attempts to kill you someday.

still wishing you all the best.
--Dragon.

PS: good luck with that psychiatrist you are seeing. I hope it helps.

[Joo (Quarantined)]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

No one should be beating anyone. That's called domestic violence. Nest time he should does it, you should call 911. Burning a steak is no reason to hit you. The approipate response for that would be:

"Honey, you seemed to have burned my steak. Could you please make me another, and check the stove more often?"

Problem solved.

It's times like this I'm sorta glad that I have a pushover for a boyfriend.

That or get a boyfriend like me, who'd eat it anyways and not really care that it was burnt, since you went to the trouble to actually make me food in the first place.

[Mrs. Mary Whitford]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

PS: good luck with that psychiatrist you are seeing. I hope it helps.

I am NOT seeing a psychiatrist, and I'd really appreciated it if you wouldn't spread lies about me like that!

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

No one should be beating anyone. That's called domestic violence. Nest time he should does it, you should call 911. Burning a steak is no reason to hit you. The approipate response for that would be:

"Honey, you seemed to have burned my steak. Could you please make me another, and check the stove more often?"

Problem solved.

It's times like this I'm sorta glad that I have a pushover for a boyfriend.

You boyfriend sounds like a damned queer to me.

Its a woman's job to cook a Man's steak exactly the way he likes it. It isn't rocket science. If a woman gets away with burning steaks, then what's next? Burning BRAS, that's what!

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

You boyfriend sounds like a damned queer to me.

Its a woman's job to cook a Man's steak exactly the way he likes it. It isn't rocket science. If a woman gets away with burning steaks, then what's next? Burning BRAS, that's what!

How exactly did you manage to eat regularly before you and Thump hooked up?