[James Hutchins]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time.

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

I am glad to hear the boys will be where they belong, with their dad, doing masculine things.
The last thing they need to do is be hanging about the place with you while you are cleaning and ironing. I'd hate that to provide inspiration to go all Homer.
Hopefully their dad will take them hunting with a gun.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time. Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy? In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

Is there really no man around who can talk to your husband on your behalf?

The husband of one of my daughters was not treating her right and after I politely discussed that matter with him during a hunting party he started treating her a lot better.

[Sister Kitty]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time.

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

So you still have not done the right thing. I will continue praying for your husband and sons.

[BelieverInGod]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time.

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

I'm going to guess that this is her unclean time. Women get all manner of wacky ideas in their heads when they start bleeding from their genitals. That's why God ordered them to seperate themselves from us.

Leviticus 15:19-30
And if a woman have an issue, and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall be put apart seven days: and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean until the even. And every thing that she lieth upon in her separation shall be unclean: every thing also that she sitteth upon shall be unclean. And whosoever toucheth her bed shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. And whosoever toucheth any thing that she sat upon shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. And if it be on her bed, or on any thing whereon she sitteth, when he toucheth it, he shall be unclean until the even. And if any man lie with her at all, and her flowers be upon him, he shall be unclean seven days; and all the bed whereon he lieth shall be unclean. And if a woman have an issue of her blood many days out of the time of her separation, or if it run beyond the time of her separation; all the days of the issue of her uncleanness shall be as the days of her separation: she shall be unclean. Every bed whereon she lieth all the days of her issue shall be unto her as the bed of her separation: and whatsoever she sitteth upon shall be unclean, as the uncleanness of her separation. And whosoever toucheth those things shall be unclean, and shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. But if she be cleansed of her issue, then she shall number to herself seven days, and after that she shall be clean. And on the eighth day she shall take unto her two turtles, or two young pigeons, and bring them unto the priest, to the door of the tabernacle of the congregation. And the priest shall offer the one for a sin offering, and the other for a burnt offering; and the priest shall make an atonement for her before the LORD for the issue of her uncleanness.

[James Hutchins]

Re: I left last night

Yes God is in charge, however Jesus said that we can do all things through him. Well I fast and I pray, and I pray and I fast. I try to be the perfect wife. My husband brought home the movie "the Stepford Wives" a while back and I'm asking myself if that's what he wants, they were robots, I can't compete with a robot.

Jesus said that if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can do anything. Well I pray for it to stop, do I not have enough faith? Am I not a True Christian™ Why won't God stop it? I don't know how to have any more faith.

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Of course your Husband does not want you to be a robot, do not be ridiculous. Robots cannot have babies.
See, that is part of your issue here, you are jumping to all sorts of conclusions without a shred of evidence. What your Husband wants is for you to perform your wifely duties. I know you have read the KJV1611 Bible, you know what God says. But you seem to resist and want to 'do your own thing'. Then you are surprised when there is backlash. If your Husband was wronging you, God would punish him. God has not done so. Why? Because your Husband did nothing wrong. I am sure you have noticed over time, the bruises became more and more severe, right? God made them so, each time, attempting to make you more and more aware of His displeasure with your behavior. God will stop the beating when you abide by His and your Husbands words.

Here is a hint. My wife knows, when she has made a mistake to perform all responsibilities extra well and then go above and beyond. When I come home, A cool beverage is waiting for me. The children are up in bed, sleeping quietly. The house is spotless. My favorite dinner is waiting. My wife stays in the kitchen or goes out to hand wash my truck, allowing me to eat my dinner in peace. I'll find a note, admitting her transgression and a list of the extras she accomplished. She knows the values of all the tasks and makes sure she stays on the positive side.

She does not complain, She holds her head low until I forgive her.

[BelieverInGod]

Re: I left last night

Look at it this way. God is above us all. He tells us what to do, we are not to question Him. If we do, we can expect repercussions. We do as He tells us. We do not disagree or only follow part of what He demands. The people that do are wishy washy Sunday only salad bar Christians. We are True Christan's™. We follow His every word, every second of every day of every week of every year, without falter or deviation. I am sure you agree with me on this.

Yes God is in charge, however Jesus said that we can do all things through him. Well I fast and I pray, and I pray and I fast. I try to be the perfect wife. My husband brought home the movie "the Stepford Wives" a while back and I'm asking myself if that's what he wants, they were robots, I can't compete with a robot.

Jesus said that if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can do anything. Well I pray for it to stop, do I not have enough faith? Am I not a True Christian(TM) Why won't God stop it? I don't know how to have any more faith.

Now, God is the head honcho. God manages your Husband. Your Husband manages you and his sons. You manage your daughters. Therefore, you Husband is only doing Gods bidding. You do not want him to go against God's wishes, do you?

You're telling me God wanted him to be doing what he was doing?

Think about how your Husband feels and more importantly, how God feels. I suspect he is fairly sad over the whole sordid matter.
I think it would be in your best interst to spring clean the house, and bake a few pies. Show everyone you have learned your lessons. It is important you put on a smile and show the world the perfect life you are living.

I just can't do it.

I go to public school. I have NO PROBLEM holding on to my faith. We have a Christian club and many of my church's teens go there. Teachers do not pollute the minds of kids. Thats a brainwash that fundamentalists force on people like you. Teachers are NOT allowed to share their opinions about religion, politics, etc. It is STRICTLY education. How about let your children be socialized, get out of the house and let them have a chance of a real education. Homeschooling will NOT get them scholarships, put them on a sports team or get them into a decent college. Also, they need to learn to get along with people of different creeds,religions and races. How else will they handle the world? I am deeply sorry about your situation and will pray for you, however, do yourself a favor, let the kids have a life. I what your teaching them about faith really is what they hold themselves to, public school will not interfear with their beliefs.Once again, I am praying for you.

What does homeschooling have to do with anything? Are you saying that my husband hit me because I homeschool the children?

Um that husband beat his wife for no reason. You did NOTHING WRONG. ITS NOT YOUUR FAULT!!!! Get help! No one should beat his wife. Wheres the respect for you as a woman? Mother of his children? You gave up your antire LIFE and FUTURE to become his houswife. While I 100 percent respect this and paraise you for this, he could caren less. You deserve SO much better. Ignore these people, the man has no control over you, you can submit and trust him, but submit does NOT mean TAKING A BEATING! And I am not Unsaved Trash.

What do you mean I gave up my life? The children and the house are my life! I would fight to the death for my children. What better? I should subject them to a roach infested basement apartment while I work at McDonalds and have no time for them? Send them to public school where they can learn how to use and sell drugs? I'm completely trapped. Is it better to go back, take the beatings, but give my children a good life? Or is it better to leave and put the kids in a poverty that they will probably never escape.

[James Dewitt]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Sister Kitty I am very glad you accepted the invitation. (Jean, my bride is looking forward to meeting you). We will have a room waiting for you. My idiot son is moving to Canada he is engaged to Brother Enoch's half Eskimo daughter, so his room is all yours. You are welcome to say as long as you like. YIC James

[Sister Kitty]

Re: I left last night

Well Sister, you seem to enjoy being disciplined as you actually beg your husband on a fairly regular basis for it. Somehow I don't find torn muscles (my shoulder still hurts) and bruises so enjoyable.

I do not enjoy being disciplined, I simply accept what punishment I have earned and deserve, as any Christian should. I have spoken with my husband, and he agrees that I should travel to Freehold during your Independence Day celebrations to speak with the Pastors about spreading the Word to the unsaved in the arctic. Brother James DeWitt says I may stay at his compound in exchange for light cleaning duties. I will arrive on July 2. Perhaps when I am there we can meet and discuss the subject of discipline. I not only know how to accept it, but also how to administer it.

I rarely smile. This makes me smile.

[Don Bozo el Guapo]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Praise Jesus! I'm sure you've beaten countless wives, brother.

Yes and not just my own as Mrs. Ezekiel will breathfully attest.

[Sister Kitty]

Re: I left last night

I could ask you the same question. Husband in your case.

I do not hate my husband, I love him. He knows his place. Below God and above me. As The Lord commands. You do not know your place, you reject God by thinking your wife is your equal. You are a pretend man, and your wife secretly despises you for your weakness.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Thanks guys this thread has been getting pretty absurd. What can you actually tell a woman with two black eyes? NOTHING!!!! The puta been told twice allready

Praise Jesus! I'm sure you've beaten countless wives, brother.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

The more I read in this thread, the more my stomach turns. Hearing some of the stories, the cold hearts so many seem to have, brings me to the brink of despair. What has happened to society? What has happened to families?

[Don Bozo el Guapo]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

SISTER!!!!!!

Please do NOT blame Baby Jesus for your own shortcomings!!!!

I am glad to finally see some improvement!

Thanks guys this thread has been getting pretty absurd. What can you actually tell a woman with two black eyes? NOTHING!!!! The puta been told twice allready

[James Dewitt]

Re: I left last night

Um that husband beat his wife for no reason. You did NOTHING WRONG. ITS NOT YOUUR FAULT!!!! Get help! No one should beat his wife. Wheres the respect for you as a woman? Mother of his children? You gave up your antire LIFE and FUTURE to become his houswife. While I 100 percent respect this and paraise you for this, he could caren less. You deserve SO much better. Ignore these people, the man has no control over you, you can submit and trust him, but submit does NOT mean TAKING A BEATING! And I am not Unsaved Trash.

Until the Dof, and a Pastor say differently, yes you are Unsaved trash. How are we to know you are who you say you are? For all we know you could be a lesbo or a mooslim terrorist.
Ephesians 5:22-24



22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.