Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

**Sister Kitty** · 04-08-2010, 08:40 PM

Re: I left last night

Originally posted by Nutella88 View Post

Yeah you may follow his every word. And I understand the beating in a way to maybe teach a lesson (though I do not beat my own wife). But there is a line in how physical you can get with your woman. And all this crap about it's all her fault is just plain wrong.

Why do you hate Jesus and your wife so much?

**Nutella88** · 04-08-2010, 09:13 PM

Re: I left last night

Originally posted by Sister Kitty View Post

Why do you hate Jesus and your wife so much?

I could ask you the same question. Husband in your case.

**Cranky Old Man** · 04-08-2010, 09:14 PM

Re: I left last night

Originally posted by Nutella88 View Post

I could ask you the same question. Husband in your case.

Yes you could. But that would be silly because Sister Kitty clearly loves Jesus. Why are you playing silly games instead of just answering the question?

**Nutella88** · 04-08-2010, 09:26 PM

Re: I left last night

Originally posted by Cranky Old Man View Post

Yes you could. But that would be silly because Sister Kitty clearly loves Jesus. Why are you playing silly games instead of just answering the question?

I am not playing games. Why did she not ask you the same question? You obviously agreed to some extend with me on the last part. I do not hate Jesus.

**Cranky Old Man** · 04-08-2010, 09:31 PM

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Originally posted by Nutella88 View Post

I do not hate Jesus.

You are misleading yourself. You hate Jesus without even realizing it. Please stop doing that, Jesus deserves better.

**Nutella88** · 04-08-2010, 09:49 PM

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Yes, sir. ><

**Wide-Open** · 04-08-2010, 10:03 PM

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Originally posted by BelieverInGod View Post

I'm having a crisis of faith as well.

SISTER!!!!!!

Please do NOT blame Baby Jesus for your own shortcomings!!!!

**Cranky Old Man** · 04-08-2010, 10:04 PM

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Originally posted by Nutella88 View Post

Yes, sir. ><

I am glad to finally see some improvement!

**JackieDambra** · 04-08-2010, 10:45 PM

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I go to public school. I have NO PROBLEM holding on to my faith. We have a Christian club and many of my church's teens go there. Teachers do not pollute the minds of kids. Thats a brainwash that fundamentalists force on people like you. Teachers are NOT allowed to share their opinions about religion, politics, etc. It is STRICTLY education. How about let your children be socialized, get out of the house and let them have a chance of a real education. Homeschooling will NOT get them scholarships, put them on a sports team or get them into a decent college. Also, they need to learn to get along with people of different creeds,religions and races. How else will they handle the world? I am deeply sorry about your situation and will pray for you, however, do yourself a favor, let the kids have a life. I what your teaching them about faith really is what they hold themselves to, public school will not interfear with their beliefs.Once again, I am praying for you.

**JackieDambra** · 04-08-2010, 11:01 PM

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Originally posted by Sister Kitty View Post

You broke his equipment? Unfortunately for you, I expect additional discipline is required.

I understand and admire your contrition, but having charges brought against yourself will not help your overall family situation.

I'm sure they did not. And why are they there? Who took them to that floor to sleep on? Perhaps you have amends to make not only to your husband, but also to his boys.

A True Christian™ man will love his wife above all other than God and his children, if she also is a True Christian™. If he does not, you need to become a Truer Christian and a more devoted wife, mother, and homemaker.

Maybe the better question is why did you make Jesus have to make your husband have to beat you. If you answer that question, and repent, maybe your family has a chance of being whole again.

Um that husband beat his wife for no reason. You did NOTHING WRONG. ITS NOT YOUUR FAULT!!!! Get help! No one should beat his wife. Wheres the respect for you as a woman? Mother of his children? You gave up your antire LIFE and FUTURE to become his houswife. While I 100 percent respect this and paraise you for this, he could caren less. You deserve SO much better. Ignore these people, the man has no control over you, you can submit and trust him, but submit does NOT mean TAKING A BEATING! And I am not Unsaved Trash.

**James Dewitt** · 04-08-2010, 11:18 PM

Re: I left last night

Originally posted by JackieDambra View Post

Um that husband beat his wife for no reason. You did NOTHING WRONG. ITS NOT YOUUR FAULT!!!! Get help! No one should beat his wife. Wheres the respect for you as a woman? Mother of his children? You gave up your antire LIFE and FUTURE to become his houswife. While I 100 percent respect this and paraise you for this, he could caren less. You deserve SO much better. Ignore these people, the man has no control over you, you can submit and trust him, but submit does NOT mean TAKING A BEATING! And I am not Unsaved Trash.

Until the Dof, and a Pastor say differently, yes you are Unsaved trash. How are we to know you are who you say you are? For all we know you could be a lesbo or a mooslim terrorist.
Ephesians 5:22-24

22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.