[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

I don't want to cause any arguements... I'm just curious as to why a man would punish his wife for something as trivial as that?
And should you punish your wife for thinking another man is handsome?
Just asking questions..

[DrReid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

I don't want to cause any arguements... I'm just curious as to why a man would punish his wife for something as trivial as that?
And should you punish your wife for thinking another man is handsome?
Just asking questions..

I agree with Michael 110%
I'm no expert on women, but why would someone extract violence on someone they are supposed to love?

[wait_what]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

I agree with Michael 110%
I'm no expert on women, but why would someone extract violence on someone they are supposed to love?

Nobody is extracting anything here. What kind of pervert are you?

[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Nobody is extracting anything here. What kind of pervert are you?

Sir,
I think the Dr. meant,
Why would a man hit the person he's supposed to love and cherish?
Like, I would never in a million years dream of hitting my fiancee. Why bruise her beautiful face?

[wait_what]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Sir,
I think the Dr. meant,
Why would a man hit the person he's supposed to love and cherish?
Like, I would never in a million years dream of hitting my fiancee. Why bruise her beautiful face?

If you love your wife, then you are more concerned with her eternal salvation than her vanity.

If she is offending the Lord, then your duty is to correct her and lead her to repentance. If not, then you guarantee her damnation. Is that what you want for your fiancée?

[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

If you love your wife, then you are more concerned with her eternal salvation than her vanity.

If she is offending the Lord, then your duty is to correct her and lead her to repentance. If not, then you guarantee her damnation. Is that what you want for your fiancée?

I don't see where hitting her has anything to do with her eternal salvation?
And my fiancee would never offend the Lord. She's the one who showed me Christ.

[Pastor William Nathaniel Sampson]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Sir,
I think the Dr. meant,
Why would a man hit the person he's supposed to love and cherish?
Like, I would never in a million years dream of hitting my fiancee. Why bruise her beautiful face?

Why would you hit a woman in the face and leave marks?

No, that's what the phone book or the garden hose are for.

[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Why would you hit a woman in the face and leave marks?

No, that's what the phone book or the garden hose are for.

You mean... You would hit said person with a phone book or garden hose?
My fiancee was previously in an abusive relationship. She did nothing wrong... Maybe in bed. But that's not for our concern.
I just don't get it... Where in the Bible does it say that a man should hit his wife?

[Pastor William Nathaniel Sampson]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

And my fiancee would never offend the Lord. She's the one who showed me Christ.

Excellent, then you now lead the household and she is prepared to submit to you as unto Christ as per Ephesians 5:22?

[wait_what]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

I don't see where hitting her has anything to do with her eternal salvation?
And my fiancee would never offend the Lord. She's the one who showed me Christ.

Luke 14:26

26If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

Hebrews 12:5-11

5And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:

6For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.

7If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?

8But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

9Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

10For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.

11Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Proverbs 10:13


13In the lips of him that hath understanding wisdom is found: but a rod is for the back of him that is void of understanding.


Proverbs 13:24

24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

Ephesians 5:22-24

22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Galatians 6:1

1Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted


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Scripturally, I see no argument for your fluffy bunny desire to damn your fiancée because you are too much of a nancy-boy to do your manly duty.

[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Excellent, then you now lead the household and she is prepared to submit to you as unto Christ as per Ephesians 5:22?

But does that tell them to let their husbands beat them??
What about Colossians 3:19:
19"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."
Psalm 11:5
"5The LORD tests the righteous,
but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence."

[wait_what]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

But does that tell them to let their husbands beat them??
What about Colossians 3:19:
19"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."
Psalm 11:5
"5The LORD tests the righteous,
but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence."

Go back a page, you missed the answer.

[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Luke 14:26

26If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

Hebrews 12:5-11

5And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:

6For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.

7If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?

8But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

9Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

10For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.

11Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Proverbs 10:13


13In the lips of him that hath understanding wisdom is found: but a rod is for the back of him that is void of understanding.


Proverbs 13:24

24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

Ephesians 5:22-24

22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

Galatians 6:1

1Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted


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Scripturally, I see no argument for your fluffy bunny desire to damn your fiancée because you are too much of a nancy-boy to do your manly duty.

No. I just hate to see her cry.
Our emotional bond is strong. We undstand eachother's feelings.
When she cries, I cry. When she laughs, I laugh.
That's just how it goes.
My mom raised me to respect women. And, I do. I have nothing but respect for women.
Doesn't the Bible talk allot about Love?

[Pastor William Nathaniel Sampson]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

But does that tell them to let their husbands beat them??
What about Colossians 3:19:
19"Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."

The term is bitter against them. This is a King James forum.

Colossians 3:18-19 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter* against them.

*
πικραίνω
2) to embitter. exasperate
a) render angry, indignant
b) to be embittered, irritated
c) to visit with bitterness, to grieve (deal bitterly with)

We don't make our wives bitter. They know their places.

Psalm 11:5
"5The LORD tests the righteous,
but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence."

At least you understand that there are people God hates. You're one step ahead of most of the unsaved we get here.

[wait_what]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

No. I just hate to see her cry.
Our emotional bond is strong. We undstand eachother's feelings.
When she cries, I cry. When she laughs, I laugh.
That's just how it goes.
My mom raised me to respect women. And, I do. I have nothing but respect for women.
Doesn't the Bible talk allot about Love?

How much will she cry when she goes to Hell because you couldn't man up?

You can cry a little now, or cry through all eternity because you let her be damned. Your choice.