[James Hutchins]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

Should we forgive our wives before or after we beat them? My wife ruined a pot roast last week and I was afraid she was forgetting her Biblical role in our house, so I was compelled to correct her- but I was concerned about when in the punishment process I should forgive her.

""Spare the rod, spoil the child."

No, by correcting you are showing your loved one you really care. Words flow in one ear and out the other, especially if it is a female. A good bruise lasts for weeks.
I feel if she accepts her correction, she may have earned some forgiveness. If I provide forgiveness, it is after the weeping has ceased and the problem 100% rectified. If she is being especially ornery, I might consolidate all the incidents and multiple corrections, following up with a single forgiveness, say at the end of the month. A man only has so much energy.

[New Creation]

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After every beating I give my wife, I forgive her. Forgiveness is the Christian way.

Should we forgive our wives before or after we beat them? My wife ruined a pot roast last week and I was afraid she was forgetting her Biblical role in our house, so I was compelled to correct her- but I was concerned about when in the punishment process I should forgive her.

[James Hutchins]

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You´re like bad (or should I say good) lawyers: playing around with the words, making it as convenient as possible for you own good, so you can go and do whatever you wish however you wish! Smart, I have to admit, very smart!

Jesus is all about love and forgiveness, and not just for men, but for women as well.

After every beating I give my wife, I forgive her. Forgiveness is the Christian way.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

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You´re like bad (or should I say good) lawyers: playing around with the words, making it as convenient as possible for you own good, so you can go and do whatever you wish however you wish! Smart, I have to admit, very smart!

Jesus is all about love and forgiveness, and not just for men, but for women as well.

I warned you about posting in the Men's Only section several times. I can only conclude that you are some kind of feminazi sent by satan to sissify the Men of Landover Baptist Church, and since you continue to defy me, I have no choice but to banish you from our midst.

Enjoy hell.

[Billy Bob Jenkins]

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You´re like bad (or should I say good) lawyers: playing around with the words, making it as convenient as possible for you own good, so you can go and do whatever you wish however you wish! Smart, I have to admit, very smart!

Jesus is all about love and forgiveness, and not just for men, but for women as well.

We are merely pointing out the words that you (and others) have ignored.

[Amelia Gab]

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You´re like bad (or should I say good) lawyers: playing around with the words, making it as convenient as possible for you own good, so you can go and do whatever you wish however you wish! Smart, I have to admit, very smart!

Jesus is all about love and forgiveness, and not just for men, but for women as well.

[RevDrJack]

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You should forgive her, Jesus told us to forgive not 7, but 70 x7, so...

You silly trouble maker. Learn how to read.

Mat 18:21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?

Once you learn how to read you can read the KJV1611.

YIC

[Amelia Gab]

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You should forgive her, Jesus told us to forgive not 7, but 70 x7, so...

[Liam the ex-drunk]

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This truly is an inspirational thread, so many wise words. Alas too late for me.

You may have read that my harlot of a wife strayed from my home and my love to seek out another. I know this was because of weakness on my part. If I had paid more attention and read the wise words within this thread then I might have been able to discipline her properly and therefore stop her from straying.

I have received letters from her asking me to 'take her back'. However, I now realise that to do this I need to show her discipline. I have purchased a rosewood cane (no thicker than my little finger), but before I make the next move I would like some advice, should I forgive her for her sin? what should I do with the homer soccer player whom she has knowledge of? Should I go to his club and confront him, or is all this sin down to my wife and my lack of discipline?

[Pastor Ezekiel]

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Hello there,

I´m just curious about something, what if the wife loves to be beatten?? That´s my case, I love my husband to hit me, harder and good, I can really reach an orgasm very fast with the pain, and the belt is my favourite. But he doesn´t enjoy it, in fact the only reason he does it is to please me.

Maybe I should have married one of you guys!

Ma'am, this is the MEN's ONLY forum. You're in the wrong place.

Please make a thread of your own in the "Introductions" section of the forum, so that we can properly greet you. Tell us about yourself, your church, and how you came to find Jesus.

And if you're here to flame us, better take a look at THIS before making an even bigger ass out of yourself.

And if you need private counseling, click on the link in my signature. Discretion assured, pics a plus.

[Amelia Gab]

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Hello there,

I´m just curious about something, what if the wife loves to be beatten?? That´s my case, I love my husband to hit me, harder and good, I can really reach an orgasm very fast with the pain, and the belt is my favourite. But he doesn´t enjoy it, in fact the only reason he does it is to please me.

Maybe I should have married one of you guys!

[Seth Campbell]

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That acutally made me laugh. No, my husband would love and respect me, as God would want him to. And besides, if any man were to lay a hand on me, I would retaliate. I've had a LOT of love in my life and am confident enough to say this on a message board that is full of misogynists.

Yet you have no respect for anyone else. You come waltzing into our board which clearly says "unsaved unwelcome" then into the mens section to tell us about things that you don't understand. You're not even married!

Maybe after ten years of marriage, you'll understand your position in life, but until then, I think you should work on your skills as a housekeeper, not a mouthpiece.

[Alphonse Alban]

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21 "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Meaning to put each other first. No one has authority over the other.

Stop talking nonsense and start reading the Bible.

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

You maybe saved yet.

[wait_what]

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21 "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Meaning to put each other first. No one has authority over the other.

1 Corinthians 11:3

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

1 Corinthians 11:8-9

8 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.

9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

Ephesians 5:22

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.


Care to back your crazy ideas up with scripture?

[bobnorton37]

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I feel the same way about my husband!