[Brother Temperance]

Re: what now?

Please do not judge me until you have been in my shoes.

I will never wear a woman's shoes, the Bible forbids it. So I'll just have to judge you now, otherwise I wouldn't get to judge you at all.

I came here for help and guidance, not to have people tell me I am a harlot because of the incidences that have happened in my life.

Friend, we want to help you and guide you. We want to help you stop being a harlot and guide you to salvation. But the first step to giving up harlotry is admitting that you have a harlotry problem.

Please do take the time to explain to me how it is I would be considered a harlot.

You committed harlotry with a junkie. It's pretty straightforward, really.

Having been though what you claim, I have to wonder about you decision making ability. I assume your husband was not on drugs until he married you. I then have to wonder what you did to cause him to prefer drugs over marital bliss.

Unless he was out of his tree on happy dust when he decided it'd be a good idea to get married to this harlot?

[Rev. M. Rodimer]

Re: what now?

Please do take the time to explain to me how it is I would be considered a harlot.

If you never marry anyone else, and never have relations with anyone else, then I suppose you might avoid being deemed an adultress by God.

However, if you get a new boyfriend, or a new husband, then you will be nothing but an adulterous whore.

[savethisslut (Quarantined)]

Re: what now?

Please do not judge me until you have been in my shoes. Not that it's your business, but my children's father got in trouble with the law for his drug abuse. The state got involved, and I had a choice to either leave him, or have the state take my children away and place them in states custody. I have my children living with me, and they are very happy and well taken care of. I did not abandon him in his time of need either. He made the choice to either get help for his drug addiction, or lose our children. He made the latter decision. I came here for help and guidance, not to have people tell me I am a harlot because of the incidences that have happened in my life.

My vote is believe in yourself. You seem like a strong woman. Do what's right for you children and make sure they experience all they can and enjoy every minute of it. Make yourself happy, and don't take the advice of people who criticize you for making the decision you did.

[Ohlordy]

Re: what now?

My vote is believe in yourself and don't take the advice of people who criticize you for making the decision you did.

Even I know the Word of God is not a decomracy.

Either you married a junkie or turned him to drugs, which is it?