New Here

[Erin500]

I was raised Christian and i am also raising my teenage son the same way. I hope that by coming here i can even better serve the Lord.

[James Hutchins]

Re: New Here

Fine. Enough clucking.
Tell us about your husband. Does he hunt? What Church does he attend? What is his name?

[Erin500]

Re: New Here

My husband abandoned me and my sons. he is going to hell. My favorite verse is Timothy 5:8, i think its quite fitting.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

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Details please. What church do you attend? What did you do to drive your husband away?

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[James Hutchins]

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My husband abandoned me and my sons. he is going to hell. My favorite verse is Timothy 5:8, i think its quite fitting.

Husbands never leave wives. Wives disgust husbands and make living conditions unbearable. Be honest, it was 'that smell', wasn't it?

[Erin500]

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Me and my sons attend a Baptist Church near our home. I don't know the real reason why my husband left but we were having problems. I don't think he was a true Christian, My youngest son is always asking "When is Daddy coming home" nearly every night, even after nearly a year. No contact.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

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Me and my sons attend a Baptist Church near our home. I don't know the real reason why my husband left but we were having problems. I don't think he was a true Christian, My youngest son is always asking "When is Daddy coming home" nearly every night, even after nearly a year. No contact.

Well, what does your Pastor say about it? And how about your Christian duties as a wife? Was supper on the table when he came home from work? Was your pie crust up to snuff? How did he rate you?

Or maybe you're a lezbean?

[Erin500]

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Oh i did everything for him. I did everything i could to keep the spirit of Christ in our marriage and home. He was never as dedicated as i was, i think it became too much for him or there might be other reasons. My youngest boy cries himself to sleep sometimes because he misses his father, I pray that he comes back as instructed too every night by my Church

[Freddy Osborne]

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Me and my sons attend a Baptist Church near our home. I don't know the real reason why my husband left but we were having problems. I don't think he was a true Christian, My youngest son is always asking "When is Daddy coming home" nearly every night, even after nearly a year. No contact.

Hello Erin500,

Are you Nascar fan? What caused your husband to forsake you?

[Mother Of Seven]

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Maybe he was an adulterer?

[Pastor Ezekiel]

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Maybe he was an adulterer?

That's right, blame the man. All you females just can't wait to blame men for your own shortcomings.

[James Hutchins]

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Oh i did everything for him. I did everything i could to keep the spirit of Christ in our marriage and home. He was never as dedicated as i was, i think it became too much for him or there might be other reasons. My youngest boy cries himself to sleep sometimes because he misses his father, I pray that he comes back as instructed too every night by my Church

Now, now. Obviously you failed to do enough. Women that fail to keep a man then try to find blame elsewhere. It is really quite shameful.
Isaiah 61:7
For your shame ye shall have double; and for confusion they shall rejoice in their portion: therefore in their land they shall possess the double: everlasting joy shall be unto them.

[Erin500]

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Now, now. Obviously you failed to do enough. Women that fail to keep a man then try to find blame elsewhere. It is really quite shameful.
Isaiah 61:7
For your shame ye shall have double; and for confusion they shall rejoice in their portion: therefore in their land they shall possess the double: everlasting joy shall be unto them.

You are totally right. I'm not trying to shift blame but clearly i failed to do enough. And now our boys are paying for it.

[James Hutchins]

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You are totally right. I'm not trying to shift blame but clearly i failed to do enough. And now our boys are paying for it.

I'll pray God does not inflict His wrath onto you. Though I am more worried about your boys.
What can you do to ease their suffering? You have to make amends for making them fatherless. How are they going to learn to be men now? So often, when boys live in a house without a manly influence, the boys will turn to homosex. It upsets me to think about two young men involved in swordplay.
Think about the little ones and not yourself.
Matthew 19:14
But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven.

[Mary Etheldreda]

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Oh i did everything for him. I did everything i could to keep the spirit of Christ in our marriage and home. He was never as dedicated as i was, i think it became too much for him or there might be other reasons. My youngest boy cries himself to sleep sometimes because he misses his father, I pray that he comes back as instructed too every night by my Church

Hi Erin, and welcome to our friendly forums! You mention your children quite a bit. Perhaps you're more of a nag than you realize. I mean, you've posted only a couple times and already I feel a headache coming on. I couldn't blame a man for wanting some deserved peace and tranquility at home, and a nagging wife is worse than just about anything. The LORD tells us it's worse than the annoying dripping on a rainy day (Proverbs 27:15). You know what one of the worse methods of torture is, don't you? The Chinese drip torture. Do you really think that's some kind of coincidence that the worst kind of torture mankind has come up is the same thing as a never-ending nagging woman? Let me offer you some advice, woman to woman:

Stop nagging the poor man. Stop nagging him about the children. If you did your job he wouldn't have to pick up where you drop the ball. Keep yourself looking as young and fresh as you did the day he met you. Don't "let yourself go," as so many women do once they think they are "safe" now that they're married. It's an embarrassment to women and an extra burden to men, and they work ever so hard doing things and thinking of the hard problems, that we shouldn't have to contribute to their workload. I would encourage you to call him up, apologize to him, treat him to a five-star chef meal in the kitchen, the lead him to the bedroom and abuse him like a five-dollar Vietnamese whore. Make sure his "happy ending" is so happy he doesn't want to stray any more, if you know what I mean.