I am a young girl at the age of 16 who wants nothing more than to become a humble wife, but my father is a very old man, who would rather hunt or be in church than trying to find me a husband so that have fallen in the task of my uncle.
As you might know my uncle is not the best man on earth, he is an ex-gay. My uncle found me this boy, who I do not like at all. First of all he has long hair, (he looks like one of the Beatles!), he can not speak english (so he could not have read the KJV Bible), he plays soccer, likes cucumbers, I suspect that he might be a vegan and he talked against his father!
He also asked me what I thought when he and his brother discussed something (I can't remeber what). He also wear bright clothes with stars and rainbows and such on them.
When I was visiting him and his with my uncle and mother I found out that he hates America! My mother was mentioning her american cookbook that I have ordered for her, and he said: ”Haha, l-o-l, America is a horrible country and one should just nuke it. And why would one like to eat steak – it makes you fat, and think of the animals!”
I really do not want to marry him, because he does not sound like a True Christian, actually he sounds sinful.
I have no idea how my uncle found this boy, I have never seen him at church, but he seemed to like him alot since they talked alot, and was sitting next to each other and my uncle gave him some advice in the boys room.
What shall I do? I do not want to marry this boy... shall I just bite the sour apple, marry him and try to make him a better Christian?
I have no idea what to do. I have prayed to God and been really sad lately... I even burnt a pie!
And I feel like I am defying my father! Even though he have not spoken in the matter yet...
Also I apologize if I have made any grammar faults, American is not my mother tounge and I am upset right now.
Yours in Christ
Sister Elisabeth
As you might know my uncle is not the best man on earth, he is an ex-gay. My uncle found me this boy, who I do not like at all. First of all he has long hair, (he looks like one of the Beatles!), he can not speak english (so he could not have read the KJV Bible), he plays soccer, likes cucumbers, I suspect that he might be a vegan and he talked against his father!
He also asked me what I thought when he and his brother discussed something (I can't remeber what). He also wear bright clothes with stars and rainbows and such on them.
When I was visiting him and his with my uncle and mother I found out that he hates America! My mother was mentioning her american cookbook that I have ordered for her, and he said: ”Haha, l-o-l, America is a horrible country and one should just nuke it. And why would one like to eat steak – it makes you fat, and think of the animals!”
I really do not want to marry him, because he does not sound like a True Christian, actually he sounds sinful.
I have no idea how my uncle found this boy, I have never seen him at church, but he seemed to like him alot since they talked alot, and was sitting next to each other and my uncle gave him some advice in the boys room.
What shall I do? I do not want to marry this boy... shall I just bite the sour apple, marry him and try to make him a better Christian?
I have no idea what to do. I have prayed to God and been really sad lately... I even burnt a pie!

Also I apologize if I have made any grammar faults, American is not my mother tounge and I am upset right now.
Yours in Christ
Sister Elisabeth
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