[Bob4God]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

That such sorrow has been brought upon my family has made my believe in God stronger. It cannot be a coincidence that my husband was leaving on the day the towers collapsed. It cannot be random, that my daughter subsequently have to be torn away from me.

Amen.

When an unimaginable catastrophe strikes, it should strengthen our belief in GOD to the point that no matter what happens, we will never suspect that He isn't there or doesn't care about us.

I am sure GOD had a good reason for not only allowing your husband to die in September 11, but for allowing radical terrorists to even gain control of the airliners to begin with.

I can't wait to get to Heaven and spend eternity with our awesome GOD, so I can praise His wisdom and mercy.

[IreneR]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

As a Christian man, I forgive you. Jesus commands us to do so, up to a certain point.

Matthew 18:21-22 "Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?"

"Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven."

So let's have a polite introduction. Tell us about yourself, the church you attend and any filthy sins that made you seek Jesus Christ for redemption.

Please be sincere.

In Christ

I am very happy to find a good soul will forgive me. I am a soon-to-be 43-year old housewife of Aurora in Illinois. I originally come from Boston in Massachusetts. My parents were religious as well, and I usually were their favorite of 3. I have only missed church once since I was 3, and that was due to a fire in our local church.

Around 1990 I met a man named Andrew, who I fell in love with. He was a junior manager in a major cleaning firm. I myself is an educated teacher, but I have not worked since 1991, when we got our first son, Andrew Jr, just 11 months after our wedding. In 1995 we got another son, Brandon. In 1996 we got a daughter, her name is Elizabeth, or Lizzy. Unfortunately, my daughter is having cancer in her brains, which have caused her to be in bed since 2006. Recently, the doctors stated that there is nothing more they could do.

Furthermore, my husband died in the attacks in New York City in 2001. He was on a business meeting, which was delayed. That caused him to stay to September 11th instead of the planned September 9th. That such sorrow has been brought upon my family has made my believe in God stronger. It cannot be a coincidence that my husband was leaving on the day the towers collapsed. It cannot be random, that my daughter subsequently have to be torn away from me. I believe that God is there, and that he need them by his side. I can't live without the thought, that a superior power is taking care of me and my sons after our first loss, and after the next loss, that we all know must come.

Because of my daughter's disease, we have not gone to church for some time. Lizzy can't go that far, but I want for her soul to remain in good faith in her last days and weeks. So I have hired a reverend to come to our house, and we have a small family service every Sunday at 3 p.m.

I really have to go now. Dinner will not make itself, and I have a family to feed. God bless you, here from Aurora.

[Brother Harold Porter]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

I am awfully sorry and embarrassed that I wrote such about the Father. I swear I will pay for it by taking another 10 minutes in my bedside prayer.

I have had a very rough day, so I didn't think clearly at the moment. My Father only made me human, as he made us all human.

I naturally never meant to call my Lord in fallible in anyway. I hope I can achieve forgiveness.

As a Christian man, I forgive you. Jesus commands us to do so, up to a certain point.

Matthew 18:21-22 "Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?"

"Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven."

So let's have a polite introduction. Tell us about yourself, the church you attend and any filthy sins that made you seek Jesus Christ for redemption.

Please be sincere.

In Christ

[IreneR]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

Wrong.

Matthew 5:48 "Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect."

Why are you here? To harass simple True Christians™ that love Jesus Christ?

I am awfully sorry and embarrassed that I wrote such about the Father. I swear I will pay for it by taking another 10 minutes in my bedside prayer.

I have had a very rough day, so I didn't think clearly at the moment. My Father only made me human, as he made us all human.

I naturally never meant to call my Lord in fallible in anyway. I hope I can achieve forgiveness.

[Brother Harold Porter]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

Our children are not Jesus, and none of us are perfect, not even the Lord

Wrong.

Matthew 5:48 "Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect."

Why are you here? To harass simple True Christians™ that love Jesus Christ?

[IreneR]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

I must say I am very shocked with your way of raising your children. Using violence to get them to understand your point of view. Our children are not Jesus, and none of us are perfect, not even the Lord (with the Noah thing and all), but he is awfully close. What you have to do is to sit discretely down in your dining room or whatever, and have a reasonable talk to your son. Make sure to arm yourself with pamphlets and the Bible. Make sure to talk to him not at him. As a teenager, the divine God, and his son, our savior have given him an urge to please himself, as a test he must pass to ease the way to Heaven. We, as parents should all wish for our children, grandchildren and all other descendants to enter Heaven, and it can only be done by love and care. Love and care has always been the holy Son's most powerful weapon, in the fight against Satan, who uses violence. You can not fight fire with fire, but with water, and you can not fight Satan with violence, but with love and good, caring words. I did that to my son when he was 15. Today he is educating himself at University of Chicago, does not have sex, is engaged to a member of our Church, and is basically on his way straight to Heaven (hopefully after I'm gone myself). My other son is 16, and since I had this talk with him on his 15th birthday, which was hard without their recently dead father's support, his grades has increased rapidly (average of A-), and I have found no 'tracks', so to speak, that indicates he is doing so in the late hours before bedtime when I do his laundry. His computer's history don't show any porn sites either.

So, basically, by love, understanding for the Lord's tests on our faith, a Bible and pamphlets, you can easily fight this. The spanking certainly don't seem to work.

I wish you all kind of luck helping your son through the test called 'puberty', and so do I to all other parents out there, who must go through this with their children, so we all can reunite in Heaven. Bless you from Aurora, Illinois.

[Harold C. Howard]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

Masturbation is one of the first indications of the path of Satan. You must remain focused in your use of physical punishment until your son recognizes the error of his ways.

There were times when I as a young parent, would question my use of violence in order to cleanse my children. Luckily though, I saw the fruit of my labour - and the Lord had shown me the effectiveness of harnessing His wrath for their salvation.

I do have one child though, who just won't budge. His name is Derek and he is a 26 year old bum. I swear I beat that hethen offspring of mine 5 times a week......but nothing changed. There were times when his mother would even lock him in his room for days at a time without food or water........but still nothing. He now works a pitiful minimum wage job, spending his money on grass and heavy music clearly inspired by Satan. I am embarrassed by him, but still have faith that one day Jesus will enter his heart and he will be forgiven.

My final advice - you need to nip that in the bud right away. The longer you allow that vile behaviour to continue, the more likely you are to end up with a disgraceful child like Derek.

I shall pray for your son.

[James Dewitt]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

I think you should do nothing now, but next time you catch him doing it you should offer to help. My dad Jesus once walked in on me and it was a magical experience.

Oh my You are either a God Mocker or a Messicant. Yet I do some how get the felling you are a troll. Can you try a bit harder?

[Affrikan niqkua 999^]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

I think you should do nothing now, but next time you catch him doing it you should offer to help. My dad Jesus once walked in on me and it was a magical experience.

[peaceandlies]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

Marry him, let him have children then remove his testicles. He'll have no need for them after that.

[Gods Hand!]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

I never had wet dreams, haha, in your dreams!

[HellIsGood]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

'Is easy to masturbate when no one is watching, no one will know.' That's what most people would say, but they're wrong, The Lord up above will see it!

Also, what are your opinions about so called 'wet dreams', a man has a sexual dream (while sleeping) which evolves in an orgasm. It could accidentally happen to anyone, right? NO! It's Satan himself who plants these thoughts in your mind. People who suffer from this are perhaps not sinners, but they are weak minded already! To weak to shut the devil out, and therefor a danger for our society!

Duh the Lord will see it. How else do you think he gets his porn? O.o

Wet Dreams? My opinions on them are again. They are perfectly natural. They can accidently happen to anyone. I bet you've had plenty. Are you weak-minded?

[Gods Hand!]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

'Is easy to masturbate when no one is watching, no one will know.' That's what most people would say, but they're wrong, The Lord up above will see it!

Also, what are your opinions about so called 'wet dreams', a man has a sexual dream (while sleeping) which evolves in an orgasm. It could accidentally happen to anyone, right? NO! It's Satan himself who plants these thoughts in your mind. People who suffer from this are perhaps not sinners, but they are weak minded already! To weak to shut the devil out, and therefor a danger for our society!

[HellIsGood]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

Maybe it's beautiful to you, but not to the LORD GOD, and you'll burn in Hell for it.

Do you really love it that much to burn forever for it? What a pervert.

Its beautiful to millions of people in the world. Im sure there are more people that think its great than people who think its dont.

And dont call me a pervery. And I wont burn it hell for it because I dont practise it. Not because I think its disgusting but because I just don't need to. I'm sure many people do though

[Cursed]

Re: Cought my son masturbating, what should I do?

Thank you, I appreciate you clearing that up. However I'm not dumb. Also. Masturbation is not sinful. Its a beautiful thing.

Maybe it's beautiful to you, but not to the LORD GOD, and you'll burn in Hell for it.

Do you really love it that much to burn forever for it? What a pervert.