[godpower97]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

Oh by the way, I'm not unsaved. I'm a regularily practicing non-denominational Christian. Does the fact that I disagree with you automatically make me unsaved ?

How else could I quote scripture?

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

I have 7 younger siblings and my mother is dead of a tumour, so I've taken over a large part of the parenting. Also, I regularily council other teens on how to deal with sex and and I regularily teach sunday school.
In my expierience, trying to overly control and discipline children doesn't make them listen. It makes them rebel. Children will listen to you once they trust and love you. In my expierience, spanking and shouting at them makes them hate you.

Sorry if our opinions on how to raise kids disagree.

Your unsaved opinions are worthless. We follow the Holy Bible, because that is God's literal instruction to us. God clearly says to beat your children hard and often. Don't worry about hurting them. You may break a few bones and cause some brain damage, but it isn't going to kill them. And even if they do die, they'll be better off. They'll thank you in heaven for beating the hell out of them.

Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. 23:14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.

[godpower97]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

I have 7 younger siblings and my mother is dead of a tumour, so I've taken over a large part of the parenting. Also, I regularily council other teens on how to deal with sex and and I regularily teach sunday school.
In my expierience, trying to overly control and discipline children doesn't make them listen. It makes them rebel. Children will listen to you once they trust and love you. In my expierience, spanking and shouting at them makes them hate you.

Sorry if our opinions on how to raise kids disagree.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

You need to explain to him WHY masturbation is a bad thing.

You don't have children, do you?

Children don't need to be convinced, that only encourages them to negotiate and nag and plead. Children need to learn obedience first, they need to be trained.

[godpower97]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

You need to explain to him WHY masturbation is a bad thing. Otherwise, he'll have no reason to stop. If you don't explain to him, he may begin to wonder why other things are wrong, and may end up leaving the Christian community all together, a true tragedy.
I actually believe that there are two types of masturbation: masturbation as sexual release and masturbation as a form of lust. Masturbation as a form of lust is wrong because it requires us to fantasize and lust after women, which turns women into objects in a man's mind, making it difficult to form a marriage relasionship with a women.
Masturbation as a form of sexual release is when a large amount of sexual pressure is released through masturbation without lust or fantasy. I believe this is okay because it doesn't threaten to jeapordize a man's image of women. However, the fact that your son is already tieing masturbation to lust means that he will never be able to expierience this kind of masturbation anyway.
By the way, to you people who say that all masturbation is wrong, remember that the Bible never actually addresses masturbation, (The verse about the guy "spilling his seed on the ground," does not apply, as it happened during a marriage sex act and because the verse is in fact addressing the man's unwillingness to take responsibility in his marriage,) the Bible only addresses "sexual immorality" as wrong.

[Daniel Webster]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

Yesterday my wife was cooking dinner as usual. When the dinner was ready I went to call my younger son but when I opened the door he sat naked on his bed masturbating over a pornographic magazine! Of course I gave him a hard beating and made him pray to the LORD until bedtime. Me and my wife are in shock, I have beaten my sons all their lives but sometimes they don't seem to understand the will of God. I am very concerned about this and I simply don't know what to do. I have always given them a daily spanking before bedtime but I feel like they need more beatings so they can seriously feel God's anger. Should I beat them more often or is there a better way to make them understand?

Firstly, build a bonfire, as big as you can make it. Get your neighbours to help out if you need.

Secondly, throw him onto the fire for a few moments, just long enough so that he can truly understand what awaits him in eternal hell. If this doesn't discourage him from unholy acts, leave him there next time

[Rev. M. Rodimer]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

I believe masturbation is a healthy thing.

Fantasizing about committing sins is just as bad as doing them in the flesh. Jesus said so.

Matthew 5:28
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

Thus, any sexual fantasy is the same as adultery, or rape, or fornication.

Care to try again?

[Adam Fag]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

I believe masturbation is a healthy thing

sex is only for marriage.

How can you think both of those things at the same time?

[Thomas Dalton]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

All True Christians™ know that if a boy touches himself, even in the shower, he is a homersexural. So just shut up about it and accept the fact that you are going to burn in HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY! "Fantasizing" about the "body parts" of female sluts is never an excuse! Since a boy is touching a male unmentionable member, that makes him HOMERSEXURAL!

I even think only looking at your own member might turn you homosexual, like looking at a woman may cause you to fornicate:

Matthew 5:27-28:
27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:

28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

That's why I wear a blindfold every time I relieve myself to not open myself up to temptation. It took some getting used to, but nowadays the maids hardly have to clean up anything after I went to the toilet

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

What was it that caused you to believe it was masturbation that lead you to these homosexual tendencies? Is there a possibility they would have happened anyway? I'm not disrespecting your view in this matter, I just need some help in understanding how you came to those conclusions. Lots of people who masturbate do not develop homosexual tendencies.

In Christ,
Zachariah

All True Christians(tm) know that if a boy touches himself, even in the shower, he is a homersexural. So just shut up about it and accept the fact that you are going to burn in HELL FOR ALL ETERNITY! "Fantasizing" about the "body parts" of female sluts is never an excuse! Since a boy is touching a male unmentionable member, that makes him HOMERSEXURAL!

[James Hutchins]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

What was it that caused you to believe it was masturbation that lead you to these homosexual tendencies? Is there a possibility they would have happened anyway? I'm not disrespecting your view in this matter, I just need some help in understanding how you came to those conclusions. Lots of people who masturbate do not develop homosexual tendencies.

In Christ,
Zachariah

Every person who masturbates is a homersexual. They made the choice to firmly stroke their member until the Seed of Onan(r) spurts all over the house, it is only a matter of time before any man that masturbates has the need to grab hold of another mans flaccid genital and stroke him to fruition. Homers do not suddenly find themselves in dank leather bars by 'accident', friend. Something is the catalyst. Go ask any Homer, ask him if he likes to 'do it to another guy'. All just a matter of time. If you never, ever touch 'it', you can never be gaywise. It is as simple as that.

[Zachariah4Christ]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

It wasn't long into my filthy habit before I would attempt auto-fellatio, in desperation at satisfying my queerest of desires. What was the next logical step when this failed? Of course, finding another sissy with fag inclinations and coupling in the bushes in filthy and violent sodomy, dozens of times each day.

What was it that caused you to believe it was masturbation that lead you to these homosexual tendencies? Is there a possibility they would have happened anyway? I'm not disrespecting your view in this matter, I just need some help in understanding how you came to those conclusions. Lots of people who masturbate do not develop homosexual tendencies.

In Christ,
Zachariah

[Brother Harold Porter]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

If done in private, I believe this can be a healthy solution.

Friend, my earliest homosexual fantasies started when I began to self-fornicate. No coincidence, as the masturbator is focused only on his own naughty parts, and without a female to be concerned with.

It wasn't long into my filthy habit before I would attempt auto-fellatio, in desperation at satisfying my queerest of desires. What was the next logical step when this failed? Of course, finding another sissy with fag inclinations and coupling in the bushes in filthy and violent sodomy, dozens of times each day.

Of course, Jesus Christ cured me of being a queer when I asked Him for help, but never forget that many influences can lead to the decision to be a homo.

Nothing good can come from self-pleasure.

In Christ

[Zachariah4Christ]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

I believe masturbation is a healthy thing, especially for those whole think sex is only for marriage. Waiting until marriage means that young men and women have no natural way of dealing with their sexual tendencies. These tendencies could manifest in ways that are harmful to others. Sexually deviant behaviour often stems from people who were not dealing with their sexual energy properly. If you wish young men and women to wait until marriage, and not express their sexual energies in deviant ways (flashing, touching, which can escalate to rape), we must allow a natural way to deal with these feelings. If done in private, I believe this can be a healthy solution.

[Thomas Dalton]

Re: Caught my son masturbating, what should I do?

Help needed.
I found my son in the bathroom with nothing else apart from his sisters knickers.
I need to find a way to punish him, will Jesus allow me to make him wear his sisters knickers ( with the satan white stain) on his head till December or should I resort to taking away his replica machete?

Thanks.

Deuteronomy 22:5: The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.

You either are a failed troll as mr. Much says (even though I loath to agree with an atheist like him) or you didn't read your Bible enough if you still have to ask for such obvious advice.

In both cases, you can get one advice from me, read the Bible! It may save you from eternal hellfire and/or anal rape by demons!