There's a man I want to marry...

[Curiousgirl]

Hello all, my name is Elisabeth, and I have a small problem...

I'm 19, and not married yet.

I have saved myself for that one true man, who I wish to bare many children with, serve, and love for many years...and I've found that man.

The trouble is...I don't think he wants me. He seems to be interested in a young harlot...She buys her clothes from that "Hot Topic" place...

He is a good church going boy, I met him during a church retreat...yes, it was both genders at the same time...I tried to convince them to give us separate retreats, but they said the cost was just too much...how can you put a price on preventing temptation of sin, I'll never know...

Anyways, I want to save him from this harlot, and I know he is a good god-loving boy, and that marriage will help keep him on the correct path...

But like I said, he doesn't seem interested...Basically, my question would be :

Is it wrong of me to tempt him with suggestive clothing, so that he may rape me, if that would be what would save him from this punk schoolgirl?

And if so...what should I expect to happen? And how can I help ensure he impregnates me, so that we may be married? And is there a proper way I may give my purity to Jesus, or should it go to the man I wish to marry? I want to be able to give birth to the first in a long line of my new babies for God...

Thank you all in advance for your help, I've searched for other forums, and this one seems to make the most sense.

[Curiousgirl]

Re: There's a man I want to marry...

Oh, and forgive the 'double-post'...I'm not sure if it matters or not, but his parents like me a lot. They want me as their daughter-in-law, and don't quite approve of his choice of this other woman...They will force him to marry me if he impregnates me.

[Rev. Jim Osborne]

Re: There's a man I want to marry...

Ok, first off, don't dress like a slut. If you have to dress like a harlot to attract him, then he's not the right type of man for you. No True Christian(tm) man would ever chase after a harlot.

Also, don't get pregnant before you get married! I know some women use this as a trap, but don't be doing any harebrained female schemes, ok? Perhaps you could invite him over to your house for Bible Study? Or go door to door with him collecting donations for your church? Do wholesome activities with him!

[Curiousgirl]

Re: There's a man I want to marry...

He is going down a path I simply do not wish to see him go down however. We've known each other for years. I know if we were to marry, I would be able to get him back on the right track.

His parents support me wanting to be married to him; and if being raped is what it takes to save him from damnation, I am willing to pay that sacrifice, and pay that sin for him, and ask forgiveness, hoping God and baby Jesus will understand my intentions.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: There's a man I want to marry...

Purposefully getting yourself raped is no different than being a whore. Unless you want to spend eternity in hellfire, I'd like to suggest that you spend your time in prayer.

Also baking him his favorite pie might not be bad. Certainly beats getting yourself raped.

What church do you attend?