[christain-goth]

Re: About Marital Rape.

this is not a forum for your thoughts and concerns.

If this isn't a forum for thoughts and concern they why bother making it into a forum? Why didn't you just put down all your beliefs on a website and not let anyone debate them?

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

These yahoos don't believe in marrying for love. They don't believe that a woman should even get to choose her own spouse. I can't imagine marrying for any reason other than love, and I don't believe that adults who love each other expect to command the other or be required to unfailingly obey commands from the other. The word "obey" was not in the vows my husband and I took. The words "love," "respect," "honor," and "share" figured prominently, however.

[Ebenezer Wright]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

And I would love for you to produce a drop of scripture that supports that.
We follow the KJV 1611 Holy Bible here, this is not a forum for your thoughts and concerns.

[christain-goth]

Re: About Marital Rape.

A woman should never be forced to do anything she doesn't want to. The point of marraige is for a woman to live with the man she loves for the rest of her life. She shouldn't have to obey her husband.

[Ebenezer Wright]

Re: About Marital Rape.

It doesn't matter if your married or not, rape is rape

If the woman isn't in the mood for sex, she has every right to say no

Why should a woman have to apologize to her husband for something that's entirely his fault?

Did you even read the post you quoted?? The wife is supposed to submit to her husband! If he wants it, he better get it. AMEN

[christain-goth]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Now, as we all know, Marital Rape is a very serious topic. There is a victim and a perpetrator. It is a dreadful crime.

When you refuse your husband his marital rights, you are committing a crime, Ladies! You swore to honor and OBEY him! Even if you didn't, you still have to: Ephesians 5:24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. If he asks you to minister to him, what right do you have to refuse? Well, I say there is too much talk of "rights" these days. What we need is more responsibility. Women need to make themselves responsible for their husband's godly needs. By not doing what you vowed to do, you are abusing your husband, Ladies!

So next time you lie to Baby Jesus and pretend you have a headache, and your husband requires his rights of you, you just think about what a terrible thing you did. Then apologize to your husband for forcing his hand, and pray to Jesus that he forgive you.

It doesn't matter if your married or not, rape is rape

If the woman isn't in the mood for sex, she has every right to say no

Why should a woman have to apologize to her husband for something that's entirely his fault?

[Warrior of God]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If your logic was any more twisted, you could open a wine bottle with it.

If your response was any more irrelevant annd evasive of the issue you would be called Old Iron Crotch ...

Oh...that's right....you are.....
explains it all.

I imagine you champion all the modern day myths and social placebos that everyone is equal and other such drizzled dung

[Off Base]

Re: About Marital Rape.

There you go... you are finally getting it. Now you know why there are so many rapes on High School girls. And I'd say that in 99% of the cases, it is ALWAYS the girls fault.

What would you prescribe for me to wear? If you were in charge, would you have me wear those disgusting clothes women are required by law to wear in places like Iran?

I wear Jeans and a T-Shirt quite often. It's comfy and I don't have to mess with going to a special dry cleaners or anything like that. It has nothing to do with trying to show anything off (actually, my favorite pair are actually pretty loose; I have to wear a belt to keep them up since I've lost quite a bit of weight). The t-shirts are hardly form fitting, either; I do have form fitting clothes, but I don't wear them often, unless I have a date coming up.

Are you coming on to me or one of the other Brothers here?
Maybe one of the Sisters?
You are truly depraved.

If you find a six year old Green Day t-shirt with a big mustard stain on it sexually exciting, I have serious worries about you.

And, seriously, that thing is way too huge for me to wear anywhere but bed; It goes down nearly to my knees!

[Marshall]

Re: About Marital Rape.

I still don't understand why a wife would say no when her man has been at work all day earning a living and dealing with things she would never dream about having to deal with. She cleans and sews and vacuums and cooks but when he gets home she should be ready to help him wind down from his tough day. Part of that is her willingness to service him.

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If you didn't take a vow to obey, You're not a Christian wife, and that's what the Lady was talking about.

If you are not Christian, again, You're not a Christian wife, and , again ,that's what the Lady was talking about.
You would be a concubine , or slut , or some other kind of unpaid , llive in whore.

I am a wife - legally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

If one spouse is in the mood and the other isn't, I assume means in regard to the husband's requirements. Obviously , there is only one spousal state of import , the husband's.

Sometimes the woman is in the mood and the man isn't; sometimes it's the other way round.

Any woman who accepts and enjoys the benefits, security , provisions, and protection that marriage offers , is patently obliged to proffer the services she is capable of.. Otherwise she would be leeching.
Is that really how you see women ?
As exploitative parasites devoid of respectable honour and any valid sense of due reciprocity.

We both have paying jobs and both contribute to keeping the bills paid, groceries bought, and house kept up. We each have our own car; he paid for his and I paid for mine before we were married. The deed to the house we live in is in my name, as I bought it before we married. Neither of us OWES the other sex as payment for other services rendered, and we don't see sex as a form of currency.


You seem to be making a strong case to say a man should breed the woman how ever many times he sees fit, then get rid of her before she becomes a pointlesss burden , an expensive gadget that doesn't even do its job...

If your logic was any more twisted, you could open a wine bottle with it.

[Warrior of God]

Re: About Marital Rape.

If you didn't take a vow to obey, you are under no obligation to do so.

If you are not Christian, you are not bound by Biblical commands.

If one spouse is in the mood and the other isn't, the one who is *expletive deleted* should simply *expletive deleted*.

No rape victim should ever apologize to her rapist.

If you didn't take a vow to obey, You're not a Christian wife, and that's what the Lady was talking about.

If you are not Christian, again, You're not a Christian wife, and , again ,that's what the Lady was talking about.
You would be a concubine , or slut , or some other kind of unpaid , llive in whore.

If one spouse is in the mood and the other isn't, I assume means in regard to the husband's requirements. Obviously , there is only one spousal state of import , the husband's.
Any woman who accepts and enjoys the benefits, security , provisions, and protection that marriage offers , is patently obliged to proffer the services she is capable of.. Otherwise she would be leeching.
Is that really how you see women ?

As exploitative parasites devoid of respectable honour and any valid sense of due reciprocity.

You seem to be making a strong case to say a man should breed the woman how ever many times he sees fit, then get rid of her before she becomes a pointlesss burden , an expensive gadget that doesn't even do its job...

[Nobar King]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Most women are raped while wearing just jeans and a t-shirt.

I'd like to see a source for that ridiculous claim. Everyone knows that most women get raped in miniskirts.

So you steal sex while she's alseep. You're one sick puppy.

How does one 'steal sex'? Are you sure he's not giving it?

[Old Iron Crotch]

Re: About Marital Rape.

Is your Husband running free now, then, amongst the ticks and chiggers?

At the moment, he's getting ready to go teach his classes.

[Brother DT]

Re: About Marital Rape.

No ladies,if your husband/boyfriend/uncle/daddy forces himself on you in any way it is RAPE and is ILLEGAL. Believe it or not Christians, you are not above the law of the land and if you engage in these kinds of activities will be be prosecuted , tried and sent to prison.

[SUV]

Re: About Marital Rape.

There are no cages at my house.

Is your Husband running free now, then, amongst the ticks and chiggers?