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  • Amy4God
    Forum Member
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    • Jul 2009
    • 25

    #1

    Gay fiancé

    The original thread was deleted for some reason so I'm just going to post the short version. I was supposed to be getting married soon but found gay pornography in my fiancé's apartment and think he's probably just going through with the marriage to cover up being gay. Should I talk to my and his father about this so we can get him treatment?
    I love God with all my heart and only wish to live every day of my life for Him, according to his will and word
  • Nobar King
    Municipal Code Archivist - Deuteronomy 28:58
    Christ's Guardian
    True Christian™
    • Sep 2007
    • 23748

    #2
    Re: Gay fiancé

    It depends. Does he claim to be a Christian? If so, you can probably beat the gay out of him and still have a decent husband.
    May you be a blessing to every life you touch.

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    • Amy4God
      Forum Member
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      • Jul 2009
      • 25

      #3
      Re: Gay fiancé

      Yeah, we're both from very strict Christian households. I'm afraid that now whenever I'm with him, all I can think about is his actions against God.
      I love God with all my heart and only wish to live every day of my life for Him, according to his will and word

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      • Marshall
        Righteous and Patriotic
        Highest body count at the VFW
        True Christian™
        • Oct 2006
        • 3322

        #4
        Re: Gay fiancé

        Confront him and ask where the gay porn came from and why it's there. If he gets defensive then he is obviously a homo. In which case begin paying attention in church for a better mans affections.
        God bless America, the Second Amendment and the Constitution. God bless the United States Marine Corps and all who fight for Jesus in third world cess pools. God bless the GOP and all they stand for, Truth, Honesty and the American people. God bless Landover Baptist Church and all True Christians™ the world over. Curses to our Muslim President, his failure is our Salvation.

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        • Talitha
          Deaconess
          Gracious, genteel, kind, tender, and warm True Christian™ Sister
          True Christian™
          • Feb 2026
          • 15118

          #5
          Re: Gay fiancé

          If he is a good Christian man then there has to be a reasonable explanation.
          It may have been planted by Demons or Wiccans.
          There is no way a Christian man would have any kind of pornography. Ever.
          Especially not the Sodomite kind with sweaty men crawling over one another doing all kinds of Homo stuff.

          Sister Talitha

          Markswoman, Circumcisionist, Platinum Tither.


          HE took the damsel by the hand, and said unto her, Talitha Cumi; which is,
          being interpreted, Damsel, I say unto thee, arise!...Mark 5:41



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          • James Hutchins
            True Christian™
            Just a Regular Nice Guy
             
            • Jun 2009
            • 29453

            #6
            Re: Gay fiancé

            There is a simple test you can do.

            Bring home two CD's. A Judy Garland and a Perry Como. If he chooses the Judy Garland, he is a Homer.

            If it turns out he is a Homer, any male in your family has the legal right and religious responsibility to stomp him for shaming you.
            Isaiah 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
            Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
            Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
            Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
            Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
            Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

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            • Oakland "Reb" Griner
              True Christian™
              True Christian™
              • Jun 2009
              • 2241

              #7
              Re: Gay fiancé

              A Christian counselor friend of mine has told me if a man has been, shall we say, the receiver, the homersixualisms is much harder to erase.

              If he has only been, well, let's say 'the pitcher', then there might be a fair chance of fixing the situation.

              If he has ever performed in public in woman's clothing, he is probably lost.

              I would also add a caution, if you seem to attract, or be attracted to men with this problem, then there could be something profoundly wrong with you.
              Jud 1:15 To execute judgment upon all, and to convince all that are unGodly among them of all their unGodly deeds which they have unGodly committed, and of all their hard [speeches] which unGodly sinners have spoken against him.

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              • Amy4God
                Forum Member
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                • Jul 2009
                • 25

                #8
                Re: Gay fiancé

                Originally posted by Metatron13 View Post
                I would also add a caution, if you seem to attract, or be attracted to men with this problem, then there could be something profoundly wrong with you.
                The marriage was pre-arranged by our fathers several years ago so thank God that's not the problem
                I love God with all my heart and only wish to live every day of my life for Him, according to his will and word

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                • Marshall
                  Righteous and Patriotic
                  Highest body count at the VFW
                  True Christian™
                  • Oct 2006
                  • 3322

                  #9
                  Re: Gay fiancé

                  I beg to differ, there is something profoundly wrong with someone there it just isn't you this time. If you find pornography it can be atoned for through tithes and prayer, if it was gay porn then the trouble runs deep indeed. That is a specialty type of filth that is generally imported from Asia and Europe where the gays pretty much run the place. That sort of porn would have to be ordered directly from an opium den or from California.
                  God bless America, the Second Amendment and the Constitution. God bless the United States Marine Corps and all who fight for Jesus in third world cess pools. God bless the GOP and all they stand for, Truth, Honesty and the American people. God bless Landover Baptist Church and all True Christians™ the world over. Curses to our Muslim President, his failure is our Salvation.

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                  • Nobar King
                    Municipal Code Archivist - Deuteronomy 28:58
                    Christ's Guardian
                    True Christian™
                    • Sep 2007
                    • 23748

                    #10
                    Re: Gay fiancé

                    Has he been expressing interest in planning the wedding?
                    May you be a blessing to every life you touch.

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                    • Amy4God
                      Forum Member
                      Forum Member
                      • Jul 2009
                      • 25

                      #11
                      Re: Gay fiancé

                      He doesn't really care about the event itself and left the planning all up to me and my mother
                      I love God with all my heart and only wish to live every day of my life for Him, according to his will and word

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                      • James Hutchins
                        True Christian™
                        Just a Regular Nice Guy
                         
                        • Jun 2009
                        • 29453

                        #12
                        Re: Gay fiancé

                        Originally posted by Amy4God View Post
                        He doesn't really care about the event itself and left the planning all up to me and my mother
                        Hmmmm that is odd. Homers like to plan weddings and parties.
                        Isaiah 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
                        Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
                        Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
                        Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
                        Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
                        Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

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                        • Amy4God
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                          • Jul 2009
                          • 25

                          #13
                          Re: Gay fiancé

                          He's been hanging out with some new "friends" a lot more than he used to hang out with his usual group of friends lately. I'm afraid they might be turning him gay.
                          I love God with all my heart and only wish to live every day of my life for Him, according to his will and word

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                          • Pastor Ezekiel
                            Putting the "stud" back in Bible Study
                             
                            • Sep 2006
                            • 78555

                            #14
                            Re: Gay fiancé

                            Amy, have you prayed over your role in all this? What have you done to drive your fiancée into the arms of sweaty, hairy, muscular men? Is your cooking up to snuff? Have you treated him with respect and allowed him to subjectify you, as the Bible commands?

                            I find that in many cases it's the woman's fault.
                            Who Will Jesus Damn?

                            Here is a partial list from just a few scripture verses:

                            Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)

                            Need Pastoral Advice? Contact me privately at PastorEzekiel@landoverbaptist.net TODAY!!

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                            • Rev. Jim Osborne
                              True Christian™ Televangelist
                              Director of Fundraising and Tithing
                              On the Look Out for Wife #6!
                              True Christian™
                              • Jun 2009
                              • 8622

                              #15
                              Re: Gay fiancé

                              I would just like to point out that while possession of pornography is circumstantial evidence it is not direct evidence. As a televangelist and family advocate, I have a public role in investigating the worst of society and bringing it to the public's attention. That is why I involved myself in playing Oblivion and Fallout 3 to learn about it and write articles about them so that Christian families will be better educated on what to keep away from their kids.

                              My steadfast dedication to eradicating pornography and making it illegal goes back over 30 years! Back in '72, I snuck in under disguise into a Los Angeles adult theatre to watch "Deep Throat". The film blew me away with its sordid sexual acts. It left a bad taste in my mouth, and I couldn't swallow the fact of what I was seeing! In response, I immediately starting shooting out a load of pamphlets to Christian men in my church warning them not to see it. I even gave out the locations and times it was playing so that they may not happen to wander by the place at the wrong time and get sucked in by the Devil.

                              My point is Amy, just make sure he wasn't holding the gay pornography for research purposes. It is possible he may have been starting a ministry for ex-gays. Remember, it's circumstantial evidence which doesn't convict him, but it doesn't mean he's off the hook and I advise you to keep a watchful eye over him.

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