[Leninism]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

When I misbehave or don't learn my Bible lessons well enough, it's the duty of my husband, Mr. Whitford, to discipline me, and I accept that. The Lord has ordered me to submit to my husband in all things, and that's the way it should be (Adam wasn't formed from Eve's rib, after all).
So when he strikes me, it's for my own good. But it does hurt, so naturally I want to cry. He hasn't said anything about it yet, but I want to do the right thing to make his life easier and not distract him from Jesus. Should I try not to cry at all, or wait until he's done and cry in another room so as not to disturb him? Or should I cry right there to show that I'm learning my lesson?
If I could get some feedback before I ask him, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you, and God bless!

There is no reason for your husband to hit you ever. Get help he has no right to physically abuse you. You should tell him not to hit you it's wrong. Crying is natural as it comes with pain. You should be more concerned about your husand hitting you than crying.

[Johnathan]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

There is no reason for your husband to hit you ever. Get help he has no right to physically abuse you. You should tell him not to hit you it's wrong. Crying is natural as it comes with pain. You should be more concerned about your husand hitting you than crying.

How dare you!

She follows in the steps of her LORD and yet you persecute her?

So much for your liberal 'tolerance'.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

There is no reason for your husband to hit you ever. Get help he has no right to physically abuse you. You should tell him not to hit you it's wrong. Crying is natural as it comes with pain. You should be more concerned about your husand hitting you than crying.

Please don't confuse the ladies here. The LORD says quite clearly that discipline is a matter of lovingly restoring relationships following sin. When a wife sins against her husband, his disciplining her is the most compassionate thing he can do.

Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous:
nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.
Hebrews 12:11

Let me invite you to learn about Christian Domestic Discipline (the link is in my siggie):

There is no scripture whatsoever that speaks poorly of discipline, and seeing what good things the Bible tells us come from discipline, it begs the question:
How can a man say he loves his wife and not discipline her when needed?

[WWJDnow]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

I keep thinking that, if you're not crying, your husband isn't doing it right.

[juliet]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

I keep thinking that, if you're not crying, your husband isn't doing it right.

Our Pastor says that the punished wife is not humbled enough if the pain is not sufficient to cause her abundant tears an sobbing.
Our Pastor says that the husband has to give to his wife as much she can take, and even push her limits a bit, to make her learn the lesson.


Our Pastor has a 43 years happily lasting marriage

[HumbleWife]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

I keep thinking that, if you're not crying, your husband isn't doing it right.

As I have only recently become a Christian, and committed many foul sins, my husband beats me every day. I hope to be redeemed through the pain my flesh stands through, and the pleasure which it brings my husband to use me, his property, as he sees fit.

I wonder; why would I cry? It brings my husband pleasure to beat me. It helps wash away my sins when he beats me. My then, should I cry? Is it not a joyous thing, to bring your husband pleasure, to be in obedience to your husband, owner and protector? Despite the pain, as unbearable as it may be, I can see no occasion to cry. Rather, it is something that brings me pleasure - not some twisted perversional pleasure from the beating itself, but the pleasure of obedience.

The only cause I can see for crying would be the pain itself or to bring pleasure to your husband, and as my husband would point out, should a woman be so unused to pain that she cries at a mere beating, then the husband "isn't doing it right". So the only reason I can see to cry is if the husband is pleased by the crying, in which case if she doesn't cry that deserves a beating of its own!

[Atheist Troll Scum]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

You should get divorced, and stop getting beaten by yor husband. Women are equal to men they have a brain the only difference is in genetals, and emotions. Listen leave your abusive relationship, and get a real man. Women are EQUAL to men. I'm a man, and I believe this. EDIT: I know this.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

You should get divorced, and stop getting beaten by yor husband. Women are equal to men they have a brain the only difference is in genetals, and emotions. Listen leave your abusive relationship, and get a real man. Women are EQUAL to men. I'm a man, and I believe this. EDIT: I know this.

Dear Homo;

Don't waltz in here giving out unsolicited advice to the womenfolk. You won't find any "faghags" here.

Anyway, where does it say in the Holy Bible that "women are equal to men?" Post the Scripture here.

YIC,

--Pastor Ezekiel

[Levi Jones]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

Women are EQUAL to men.

That is the funniest thing I have read all day! Tell us another one, sweetie.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

I prefer to have my wife quietly weeping at all times. That way, I know she is always thinking about the problems she causes Jesus.

[Kristen Green]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

Whenever my husband disciplines me I cry as much as possible to let him know he's properly disciplining me. He seems happier now I used to hold in my tears, but he was just frustrated so one day I just started bawling my eyes out, and he was in a much better mood! So bawl your eyes out, and your husband will be happy!

[Billy Bob Jenkins]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

When I bury my axehead in a tree, I often feel sad that the tree does not cry out in anguish. Trees stand in staunch defiance of Jesus, reaching for Heaven like the blasphemous tower of Babel, collaborating with hippies and environmentalists, and spewing radiation into the environment to keep the people in a state of irrational fear and win votes for big government.

A disobedient wife who refuses to proclaim her repentance with tears is like a tree, except she is easier to knock down. Also, a disobedient wife can still be fertilized after you knock her to the ground, and will grow as a result of it, both literally and figuratively.

[Sophie Hennig]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

If my husband is disciplining me, it is because I did something wrong. He loves to see me cry and suffer of pain, so he knows that I truely regret my mistake and that I can pray for forgiveness with an honest heart.
But sometimes there are cases, when I do something wrong without wanting it. That means, I regret it from the start, since I cannot control it and then he beats me, but tries to keep it as short as possible, but as long as necessary.

[Dr Laurence Niles]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

If my husband is disciplining me, it is because I did something wrong. He loves to see me cry and suffer of pain, so he knows that I truely regret my mistake and that I can pray for forgiveness with an honest heart.
But sometimes there are cases, when I do something wrong without wanting it. That means, I regret it from the start, since I cannot control it and then he beats me, but tries to keep it as short as possible, but as long as necessary.

I do hope you husband is not just a violent bigot

Which bible verse does he shout at you when you are disobedient. Think carefully as we do not need another sadomasochist couple infiltrating our Godly Forum.

YIC

[Retrofit]

Re: Should I avoid crying when my husband disciplines me?

I'm new at this. Please help me. Am I to understand that I should physically put hands on my wife to assist her in becoming a True Christian?