Infidelity!

[jmarie56]

I just found out my husband has been seeing another woman (sexually) and he never wants to spend time with me anymore. He treats the children differently I am starting to believe he is falling for this woman but I know I cannot divorce what should I do please help me.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Infidelity!

Well, based on how you have behaved here so far, I cannot blame your husband for looking elsewhere. You do know, a divorce will leave you with only the weak, sickly children and be un-marry-able. I suggest you bake him a pie and apologize to him for your bad behavior. Pray he cares enough to discipline you. Best of luck.

[jmarie56]

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Well, based on how you have behaved here so far, I cannot blame your husband for looking elsewhere. You do know, a divorce will leave you with only the weak, sickly children and be un-marry-able. I suggest you bake him a pie and apologize to him for your bad behavior. Pray he cares enough to discipline you. Best of luck.

thank you for your advice sir.
and ive already been punished for the way i have acted
my husband ordered me at once to apologize and i have to
everyone here. Yes i am aware a divorce shall make me un-marry-able
and I've thought this through I just am not sure what to tell my children
or what to tell myself. Do i stay and endure the emotional pain?

[bloody hand of god]

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thank you for your advice sir.
and ive already been punished for the way i have acted
my husband ordered me at once to apologize and i have to
everyone here. Yes i am aware a divorce shall make me un-marry-able
and I've thought this through I just am not sure what to tell my children
or what to tell myself. Do i stay and endure the emotional pain?

For the love of the lord Woman!! Get yourself from here and hence to the kitchen. Cook your husband his favorite meal and prepare thyself for the thrashing you know that you have truely earned. What business of yours is it if you husband chooses to pleasure other women. you are his property. Would you allow his pet dog to become jealous if he brought another pet into his house. Be thankful that he allows you to continue living in his humble abode, and stop your whining.

[Johnnyboy]

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thank you for your advice sir.
and ive already been punished for the way i have acted
my husband ordered me at once to apologize and i have to
everyone here. Yes i am aware a divorce shall make me un-marry-able
and I've thought this through I just am not sure what to tell my children
or what to tell myself. Do i stay and endure the emotional pain?

I'm deeply saddened to hear this. When you asked your husband for forgiveness, were you properly on your knees? This is important. He will be much more forgiving if you're in that position! You say you've already been punished by your husband. Did he spank you? If not, remind him of his duties as a man and husband. Demand he spank you vigorously. Being that I'm still looking for the future Mrs. Johnnyboy(White Christian Virgin), I admit to having limited knowledge of this tyype situation. Hopefully some of our married, True Christian Sisters can give you more sage advice.

Johnny

[jmarie56]

Re: Infidelity!

For the love of the lord Woman!! Get yourself from here and hence to the kitchen. Cook your husband his favorite meal and prepare thyself for the thrashing you know that you have truely earned. What business of yours is it if you husband chooses to pleasure other women. you are his property. Would you allow his pet dog to become jealous if he brought another pet into his house. Be thankful that he allows you to continue living in his humble abode, and stop your whining.

but im not understanding i do everything he asks i cook and clean and pleasure him well. I do everything a good Christian woman should do and im just hurt. I thought adultery was wrong? why is it ok for him?

[Johnnyboy]

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For the love of the lord Woman!! Get yourself from here and hence to the kitchen. Cook your husband his favorite meal and prepare thyself for the thrashing you know that you have truely earned. What business of yours is it if you husband chooses to pleasure other women. you are his property. Would you allow his pet dog to become jealous if he brought another pet into his house. Be thankful that he allows you to continue living in his humble abode, and stop your whining.

The difference if her husband chooses to pleasure other women is Exodus 20:14 "Thou shalt not commit adultery."

Your post is full of fail.

[Brother Scanny]

Re: Infidelity!

I just found out my husband has been seeing another woman (sexually) and he never wants to spend time with me anymore. He treats the children differently I am starting to believe he is falling for this woman but I know I cannot divorce what should I do please help me.

Do you have any deformities? are you over weight ? You should be grateful you have a husband if you are either of these things, God has been kind enough to give you a husband and you throw it back in his face....... Think of your children and your husband do not be selfish and think of yourself , As a woman you should know your place.

[Pastor Isaac Peters]

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This, dear friends, is a perfect example of how secular law, written to please the feminazis, is ultimately unworkable. We must obey secular law for now, but once Jesus and His favorite political party restore us to Biblical law, jmarie56's husband will be free to remain married to jmarie56 and also to take on this other woman as a second wife or a concubine. Problem solved.

[father yella]

Re: Infidelity!

I just found out my husband has been seeing another woman (sexually) and he never wants to spend time with me anymore. He treats the children differently I am starting to believe he is falling for this woman but I know I cannot divorce what should I do please help me.

infidelity is a mans god given right to sow his seed wherever he feels the need. you have obviously been depriving him of his marital rights to his property and now you are paying the price. no doubt you have let yourself go since you entered wedlock and are now feeling sorry for yourself. may i suggest you diet and make an effort for your husband if you wish to become the centre of his attention again.

[jmarie56]

Re: Infidelity!

I'm deeply saddened to hear this. When you asked your husband for forgiveness, were you properly on your knees? This is important. He will be much more forgiving if you're in that position! You say you've already been punished by your husband. Did he spank you? If not, remind him of his duties as a man and husband. Demand he spank you vigorously. Being that I'm still looking for the future Mrs. Johnnyboy(White Christian Virgin), I admit to having limited knowledge of this tyype situation. Hopefully some of our married, True Christian Sisters can give you more sage advice.

Johnny

yes i was on my knees asking for forgivness and yes ive been properly punished for my wrong doing. I just do not know what to do he is commiting adultery is he not? and I know i cannot divorce i just dont know what to do the emotional pain has almost become unbearable. I just wish that he loved me as I love him so.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Infidelity!

If you want to 'stay in the game', you accept he wants a second wife. You welcome her with open arms and share all you have to share. Show your husband how giving you are. Be a better cleaner, cook and worker. Be the first to compliment him and do for him. Sounds like it is this or be an outcast, shunned by all. First step might be to stop whinning.

[jmarie56]

Re: Infidelity!

Do you have any deformities? are you over weight ? You should be grateful you have a husband if you are either of these things, God has been kind enough to give you a husband and you throw it back in his face....... Think of your children and your husband do not be selfish and think of yourself , As a woman you should know your place.

I have no deformities and I am not overweight.
I have been blessed with being very pleasing on the eyes
I am trying not to be selfish but i do not know if i can continue to
pleasure him knowing he is getting it elsewhere
I have not let myself go I look as good if not better than when we got married 7 years ago

[James Hutchins]

Re: Infidelity!

yes i was on my knees asking for forgivness and yes ive been properly punished for my wrong doing. I just do not know what to do he is commiting adultery is he not? and I know i cannot divorce i just dont know what to do the emotional pain has almost become unbearable. I just wish that he loved me as I love him so.

It is not adultery if it is you that has forced him to the other woman. If you are unsure, you must ask him as he is the only one who can tell you. It is possible he is merely testing your devotion to him.

[Brother Scanny]

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I have no deformities and I am not overweight.
I have been blessed with being very pleasing on the eyes
I am trying not to be selfish but i do not know if i can continue to
pleasure him knowing he is getting it elsewhere
I have not let myself go I look as good if not better than when we got married 7 years ago

You seem very sure of yourself sister, I detect maybe you are getting ideas above your station, This other he has taken as his lover have you seen her ? Your husband is displeased with you ,perhaps you have let yourself go but as you have such a high opinion of yourself you have been blinded by thinking to much of your self.