[jmarie56]

Re: Infidelity!

It is not adultery if it is you that has forced him to the other woman. If you are unsure, you must ask him as he is the only one who can tell you. It is possible he is merely testing your devotion to him.

That is possible i never thought to ask him that.
But as far as I can see I havent done anything wrong (other than being a woman) for him to do this to me. You are right though sir I must stop whinning and be the better cleaner cooker and be first to ask him what he may need i thank you for your help and I pray it works

[Meek and Humble]

Re: Infidelity!

Good luck, sister!

[jmarie56]

Re: Infidelity!

You seem very sure of yourself sister, I detect maybe you are getting ideas above your station, This other he has taken as his lover have you seen her ? Your husband is displeased with you ,perhaps you have let yourself go but as you have such a high opinion of yourself you have been blinded by thinking to much of your self.

yes ive seen her and i only wish i could show you her because i havent the slightest idea why he would prefer her over me

[father yella]

Re: Infidelity!

my thoughts are that you do not keep a good clean house. maybe you should spend more time in the kitchen than on the internet. if you were mine i would punish you daily by beating you before i went to see my other woman.

[Brother Scanny]

Re: Infidelity!

my thoughts are that you do not keep a good clean house. maybe you should spend more time in the kitchen than on the internet. if you were mine i would punish you daily by beating you before i went to see my other woman.

It has just occurred to me aswell brother that the time she has spent on our holy forum could have been spent making amense with her husband , and she dare to come and ask why he has taken another, you are right in speaking of beating her if she were your wife, I to would be inclinded to punish her.

[Get Thee Hence!]

Re: Infidelity!

my thoughts are that you do not keep a good clean house. maybe you should spend more time in the kitchen than on the internet. if you were mine i would punish you daily by beating you before i went to see my other woman.

What scripture would you use to justify that beating?

Chapter and Verse please.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Infidelity!

That is possible i never thought to ask him that.
But as far as I can see I havent done anything wrong (other than being a woman) for him to do this to me. You are right though sir I must stop whinning and be the better cleaner cooker and be first to ask him what he may need i thank you for your help and I pray it works

Being you are a woman, you may not be of sufficient capacity to understand. You may not be capable of seeing the complete picture clearly as a man can. Do not think, do not question. Explain to your husband that you want to do what ever he wants. Thank him for finding the time to speak to you. If he sees fit, he might tell you what you did wrong. But that is of little matter as you must do what is right instead.

[bloody hand of god]

Re: Infidelity!

What scripture would you use to justify that beating?

Chapter and Verse please.

What is there to justify? she is clearly remiss and needs to make atonement. and a good paddling is the best way to ensure that she does just that!

[father yella]

Re: Infidelity!

What scripture would you use to justify that beating?

Chapter and Verse please.

jeremiah 30:11

For I am with you,' declares the LORD, 'to save you; For I will destroy completely all the nations where I have scattered you, Only I will not destroy you completely. But I will chasten you justly And will by no means leave you unpunished.'

i feel this just about covers it

[Get Thee Hence!]

Re: Infidelity!

What is there to justify?

Your actions fool.

Cite God's scripture/s.

jeremiah 30:11

For I am with you,' declares the LORD, 'to save you; For I will destroy completely all the nations where I have scattered you, Only I will not destroy you completely. But I will chasten you justly And will by no means leave you unpunished.'

i feel this just about covers it

Blasphemy.

The only Word we follow 'round here bucko is the Word of God, the KJV!

Be gone you perverted God mocker.

[Johnnyboy]

Re: Infidelity!

I have no deformities and I am not overweight.
I have been blessed with being very pleasing on the eyes
I am trying not to be selfish but i do not know if i can continue to
pleasure him knowing he is getting it elsewhere
I have not let myself go I look as good if not better than when we got married 7 years ago

jmarie,

I understand that you feel you've kept your appearance in order over the last seven years, and you feel like you look as good now as then. Perhaps your husband doesn't see it that way. Maybe if you posted some decent, Christian pictures of yourself, we can judge for ourselves if theres need for improvement.

[bloody hand of god]

Re: Infidelity!

Your actions fool.

Cite God's scripture/s..

Job 34

Surely it is meet to be said unto God, I have borne chastisement, I will not offend any more: That which I see not teach thou me: if I have done iniquity, I will do no more.

[Brother Scanny]

Re: Infidelity!

jmarie,

I understand that you feel you've kept your appearance in order over the last seven years, and you feel like you look as good now as then. Perhaps your husband doesn't see it that way. Maybe if you posted some decent, Christian pictures of yourself, we can judge for ourselves if theres need for improvement.

Amen brother, we like piccies.

[jmarie56]

Re: Infidelity!

jmarie,

I understand that you feel you've kept your appearance in order over the last seven years, and you feel like you look as good now as then. Perhaps your husband doesn't see it that way. Maybe if you posted some decent, Christian pictures of yourself, we can judge for ourselves if theres need for improvement.

how do i put pictures on i am not sure how

[Get Thee Hence!]

Re: Infidelity!

Job 34

Surely it is meet to be said unto God, I have borne chastisement, I will not offend any more: That which I see not teach thou me: if I have done iniquity, I will do no more.

A simple cut/paste job will not do in God's eyes.

Explain this passage (Job 34:32 mind you), and how it equates to beating your wife.

In God's name.