Fallen off the beaten trail...

[Little Nissy]

Hello,
I was hoping that you all could help me in this forum. I am currently more dominant then my husband in our relationship, and I would like to learn how to be more obedient towards him so that he can become the dominant head of house.
Any advice that you could give me so that I can write them down to remember would be a great asset to me and to my husband.

Thank-you!

[Felicity]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

@Little Nissy Welcome! I hope we can be friends!

Since you are new here please look at our please read this before posting and our your rights on this forum threads! If you already did that, just do it again. There you can learn that this forum is not about debating or unsaved opinions but about praising Jesus!

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

Welcome to our friendly forum!

Did you get your husbands permission to be here?

[Brother Harold Porter]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

Hello,
I was hoping that you all could help me in this forum. I am currently more dominant then my husband in our relationship, and I would like to learn how to be more obedient towards him so that he can become the dominant head of house.
Any advice that you could give me so that I can write them down to remember would be a great asset to me and to my husband.

Thank-you!

Does he even know you are on the World Wide Webs by yourself? If not, leave now and come back when you have his permission.

In the mean time, prayer, prayer, prayer!

Don't forget that it was the lowly woman that started all this trouble when you tricked the man in the garden. Consider yourself fortunate that you have even found an example of God's real creative talent in your husband.

Yours in Christ

[Little Nissy]

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Ummm, no I did not get my husbands permission to be on here, and I know that he wouldn't care anyways, I just thought that I would come and see about getting advice on how to be a better wife to him and serve him better then I have been.

[Billy Bob Jenkins]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

Ummm, no I did not get my husbands permission to be on here, and I know that he wouldn't care anyways, I just thought that I would come and see about getting advice on how to be a better wife to him and serve him better then I have been.

How are you in the kitchen? Maybe you should start there. Get yourself a great big cookbook and learn to cook everything in it. When your husband isn't hungry, busy yourself with dusting and washing his clothes. Do you keep a garden? When your husband is at work, catch a bus and buy some seeds in the lawn and garden center at Wal-Mart. Plant a garden. Try wearing a pearl necklace, and dangly earrings. Do you paint your nails? Do that. This is all just common sense really. I shouldn't have to explain this to a woman. It should come as instinct.

[Little Nissy]

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Um, my husband is rarely home because he works long long hours, and when he is he prefers to cook the food for us cuz I might not do it right so I let him. I don't keep a garden because I tried and it all died. I dress up lots because my job requires me to look professional. Ummm, wow, looks like I really doen't do a lot, because he also does the laundry for us, I think I might have to rethink a few things...

[Little Nissy]

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Mmmmm well I have taken some time and thought about things, and I figure that if my husband looks happy cooking and doing our laundry that can't be a bad thing, I would assume that he wouldn't do it if he didn't like it right??

[Little Nissy]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

Well I have taken the time and thought about a few things, and I have come to the conclussion that if my husband looks happy cooking and doing the laundry then he must be right, or otherwise he wouldn't do it...

[Little Nissy]

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I am sorry if I offended anyone, I didn't mean it, I am learning and that is why I am here, for help, what I said was what I thought, I assume that he is happy doing it or he wouldn't right? If he didn't want to do it I would assume that he wouldn't, I didn't mean to come off as a B*tch. Sorry.

[Brother Harold Porter]

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Well I have taken the time and thought about a few things, and I have come to the conclussion that if my husband looks happy cooking and doing the laundry then he must be right, or otherwise he wouldn't do it...

Or so it would appear to a fallen woman not doing her duty.

Has it ocurred to you that he is actually miserable? Probably praying at this very moment that his Savior leads you to your proper place and he can finally get some rest. Does he not provide well for you?

You need to pray, in private, to the Lord Jesus Christ that He may work in you to return you to your intended role as the keeper of the Christian home.

After three hours of prayer in the closet, show some incentive and at least scrub some floors tonight!

Yours in Him

[Little Nissy]

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I have assumed that if he wasn't happy that he would let me know by telling me, yes he provides greatly for me, but I too contribute to our home, ummm, I have done the floors, dishes, laundry, lawn cutting, etc...
He has never once said to me to "do" something, I was hoping that he would tell me what he would like done, but hasn't yet.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

Hello,
I was hoping that you all could help me in this forum. I am currently more dominant then my husband in our relationship, and I would like to learn how to be more obedient towards him so that he can become the dominant head of house.
Any advice that you could give me so that I can write them down to remember would be a great asset to me and to my husband.

Thank-you!

That isn't really an introduction, is it.

You're supposed to tell us about yourself, your church and your family.

[Little Nissy]

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I am sorry, well my name IS Nissy, and I am 27 years of age, I have been married to my husband for 4 years 3 months, I do not go to church because where my husband and I live there are 2 Lutheran Churchs, but we do read the Good Book together to insure our faith.
We do not have any children yet, my husband works lots and is not home the majority of the time, and when he is I am at work. I am trying to find a way that I can be a better wife to him because he does the majority of the work around the house without complaint, I just feel that there must be something that I can do to assist him in any way that I can.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Fallen off the beaten trail...

I am sorry, well my name IS Nissy, and I am 27 years of age, I have been married to my husband for 4 years 3 months, I do not go to church because where my husband and I live there are 2 Lutheran Churchs, but we do read the Good Book together to insure our faith.
We do not have any children yet, my husband works lots and is not home the majority of the time, and when he is I am at work. I am trying to find a way that I can be a better wife to him because he does the majority of the work around the house without complaint, I just feel that there must be something that I can do to assist him in any way that I can.

Sounds like a queer to me...

Have you asked yourself what you've done to drive him into degeneracy like that?