[Erin500]

Re: New Here

Hi. Welcome to the forum.

Why do you say that your husband is going to hell?

He was never dedicated like i was, he often didnt go to church like i do, i rarely saw a bible in his hand during the latest few years, stuff like that.

But thank you for the warm welcomes everyone, i don't need any help to follow our lovely fathers will but i believe by being here i can follow that will more efficiently of course however pastor Chris at my Church does believe i have a long way to go.

God Bless.

[Chewer]

Re: New Here

I was raised Christian and i am also raising my teenage son the same way. I hope that by coming here i can even better serve the Lord.

Do you have your husbands permission to post here? What is your favorite Bible verse? What church do you attend?

[MitzaLizalor]

Re: New Here

He was never dedicated like i was, he often didnt go to church like i do, i rarely saw a bible in his hand during the latest few years, stuff like that.

But thank you for the warm welcomes everyone, i don't need any help to follow our lovely fathers will but i believe by being here i can follow that will more efficiently of course however pastor Chris at my Church does believe i have a long way to go.

God Bless.

Perhaps he did respond to Jesus after all and that is why he "abandoned" you. Jesus explains that as a Christian you husband should hate you:

LUKE 14
20 And another said, I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.
21 So that servant came, and shewed his lord these things. Then the master of the house being angry said to his servant, Go out quickly into the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in hither the poor, and the maimed, and the halt, and the blind.
22 And the servant said, Lord, it is done as thou hast commanded, and yet there is room.
23 And the lord said unto the servant, Go out into the highways and hedges, and compel them to come in, that my house may be filled.
24 For I say unto you, That none of those men which were bidden shall taste of my supper.
25 And there went great multitudes with him: and he turned, and said unto them,
26 If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
KJV .. whole parable . context

False "christians" who just make up any old "god" and then say that The Bible means whatever they want it to mean will blurt how this is a special magic sort of hate. They may claim that Matthew, for example, presents the same discourse from another perspective and using different words. That is ridiculous, obviously, if it were the same discourse it would contain the same words. Matthew does record what Jesus says about obsessing over wives rather than following Him so be ready for that viper's brood when they hear about your husband. Nothing they plan for you is good.

MATTHEW 19
29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.
KJV .. look up . context

Facts. Can't beat ’em.

[Chewer]

Re: New Here

Yes it is:


1Peter 3:17 “For it is better, if the will of God be so, that ye suffer for well doing, than for evil doing.”


Sometimes bad things happen to good people…..there is plan in place and we aren’t let in on every little detail.


1Peter 3:7 “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”


The word together means a group of people or in this case two. A man and a woman who are married.


Colossians 3:19 “Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.”


Don’t be mean or short with your wife. Talk to her like you care and love her.


Ephesians 5:25 “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;”


Jesus died a horrific, slow, painful, humiliating, and degrading death for all to witness. That is saying a lot. He did this for us…….and the word of God compares this to the way a husband is to love his wife.


Jesus didn’t leave us or abandon us, he was not violent….he used his words. He is there through thick and thin. Even when things aren’t going so well in a marriage between two people (man and woman).


Ephesians 5:28 ‘So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.”


If you don’t love your wife, then you don’t love yourself either. Not sure what you would call this type of a man though.


1 Corinthians 7:4 “The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.”


Although a wife doesn’t have power/control over her body, but her husband does…..A husband doesn’t have power/control over his body, but his wife does.


1 Corinthians 7:27 “Art though bound unto a wife? Seek not to be loosed. Art though loosed from a wife? Seek not a wife.”


If you have a wife stay with her and if you leave her…..you’re not getting another one. You were given a gift, a blessing and if you chose to be disrespectful to God and leave, then you obviously shouldn’t be allowed the privilege and responsibility of having another one. Without one, the man who leaves his wife also eliminates his chance of being blessed with male offspring.


A wife’s rules are quite simple……obey your husband……put God first, then your husband and then your children and everyone else….don’t cheat on him, divorce him, or go against his wishes. Basically, teat him the way you would the Lord, but remember if his wishes interfere with Gods will or plan or goes against what you know God has said not to do….well, then don’t do it because we all have a judgment day. Make sure you ask your husband if you have a question about something and keep quite in church. Keep the house clean….have children…..take care of your husband’s needs and your children’s…..and most of all praise the Lord for allowing you to have two special titles: Wife and Mother (hopefully) Besides, if you do something to one of Gods children male or female…….he is the one running the show……I would be shaking and scared for my life. I still remember when I met this couple who really were nice, until our church found out he was beating her and being more harm than good. I think it was about month after they moved in the area when they were driving down the road and got into a horrible car accident. They turned the corner as another car was turning at the same time (old country road) and the van plowed right through the driver’s side of their truck. The people—a mother of three—all died on impact so there was no pain. The couple had one survivor. The engine had been shoved up onto his legs and his head cracked open. He was alive for a little while in this condition. She told me the worst part wasn’t seeing his brain, the blood or even the body parts that were scattered on the road. She had lost her husband. I guess you could say she is now free to find a man that will actually want to start a family. Why he never wanted kids is beyond me…….someone to carry on the family name….?


Yes I know this was long and hopefully I didn’t bore anyone or go overboard…..and if there is anything you think I need to be corrected on please let me know. Hopefully I didn’t offend anyone with this post. If I did I’m sorry.


Ellann

Enough of all of that clucking. Shut up already. Your here to learn not to preach.

2 Corinthians 4:5 "For we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord; and ourselves your servants for Jesus' sake."

We preach for Christ not for our own personal gain.