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  • #1

    A question for the Ladies of Landover

    Hello LOLs.

    As you know Disciple Luke and I got married 69 days ago on the 10th of the 10th of the 10th. Luke's first wife, Sarah, died while giving birth to their third son John. So I have found myself a step-mum to Matthew (5), Mark (3) and Johnboy (1).

    OK. My question.... Because Luke and myself do not plan on adding to the family ... when would it be appropriate for us to have sexual intercourse? Luke knows that I am a virgin and said there is no pressure on me. I know that God intended sexual activity for procreation but is it wrong for me to wonder what this sexual intercourse thing is like?

    It isn't like I am as naive as I was when we married. I have bathed the boys so I do know the difference in anatomy.
    2 Chronicles 7:14
    14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land Australia.
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  • #2
    Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

    Originally posted by Sister Charli View Post
    Because Luke and myself do not plan on adding to the family ... when would it be appropriate for us to have sexual intercourse?
    Never.
    5 Reasons why GOD HATES WOMEN!
    To most "Christians" The Bible is like a license agreement. They just scroll to the bottom and click "I agree". All those "Christians" will burn in Hell!
    James 2:10 "For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all."

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    • #3
      Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

      Mr Cranky .... when did you become a Lady of Landover?
      2 Chronicles 7:14
      14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land Australia.

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      • #4
        Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

        Originally posted by Cranky Old Man View Post
        Never.

        I agree. Maybe you should have children. They are great. God wants you to go out and multiply.. That's what we are doing. I'm 8 weeks in with baby number 7. His name will be Jethro. Thanks to all who helped pick the name.
        “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” – 1 John 5:2-3

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        • #5
          Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

          Originally posted by Sister Charli View Post
          Mr Cranky .... when did you become a Lady of Landover?
          He has much experience in this subject seeing how wise he is, and probably wanted to share his opinion. He seems to be a wise man.
          “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” – 1 John 5:2-3

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          • #6
            Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

            Thank you for your reply Sister Adilene.

            But I am past 45 years of age and spent all my life looking after Daddy until he passed away recently.

            Do you really think I can go from virgin to pregnant at this age?

            Mr Luke seems happy with the three boys he has. They are great kids.
            2 Chronicles 7:14
            14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land Australia.

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            • #7
              Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

              My grandmother had a set of twins at 47! She was a very godly woman also.
              “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” – 1 John 5:2-3

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              • #8
                Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                Originally posted by Adilene View Post
                My grandmother had a set of twins at 47! She was a very godly woman also.
                I hear ya Sister.

                What do you suggest I do to maybe make myself more sexually attractive to Luke? I would love a baby of my own. Don't get me wrong. I adore his three boys and will do my best, God willing, to be their Mummy.

                But it is 10 weeks tomorrow since we married and although we share a bed I have never seen him naked or he seen me. I am not overweight. I have a nice complexion - never smoked cigarettes so do not have crocodile skin. I have nice teeth. And am a natural blonde.

                Should I initiate this sexual intimacy thing?
                2 Chronicles 7:14
                14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land Australia.

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                • #9
                  Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                  Originally posted by Sister Charli View Post
                  I hear ya Sister.

                  What do you suggest I do to maybe make myself more sexually attractive to Luke? I would love a baby of my own. Don't get me wrong. I adore his three boys and will do my best, God willing, to be their Mummy.

                  But it is 10 weeks tomorrow since we married and although we share a bed I have never seen him naked or he seen me. I am not overweight. I have a nice complexion - never smoked cigarettes so do not have crocodile skin. I have nice teeth. And am a natural blonde.

                  Should I initiate this sexual intimacy thing?
                  Maybe you should start a conversation with your husband about children. Tell him you feel like you would like one of your own, and you don't feel like it's too late. Tell him you think your obligated to have his child, and you want to have a child with him to seal your marriage. See what his reaction is.
                  “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” – 1 John 5:2-3

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                  • #10
                    Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                    I think it is best to look to your husband for cues on what to do, not only in matters of childbearing, but also in matters of how to walk, speak, what to wear, whether or not to enjoy myself or have self-respect, etc... After all, if we can't follow our husband's lead on these matters, are we really showing our appreciation for the temporary death of Jesus?

                    Genesis 3:16 (King James Version) Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.


                    Ephesians 5:22-24 (King James Version) 22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.


                    1 Peter 3:1-6 (King James Version) 1Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.


                    When to rape Deuteronomy 21:10-14 (King James Version) 10When thou goest forth to war against thine enemies, and the LORD thy God hath delivered them into thine hands, and thou hast taken them captive, 11And seest among the captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife; 12Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house, and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails; 13And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife. 14And it shall be, if thou have no delight in her, then thou shalt let her go whither she will; but thou shalt not sell her at all for money, thou shalt not make merchandise of her, because thou hast humbled her.


                    1 Corinthians 11:3
                    But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.


                    1 Timothy 2:12 (King James Version) 12But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

                    (Billy Bob: I approve this post.)
                    1 Corinthians 11:3
                    But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

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                    • #11
                      Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                      Originally posted by Cindy Lou Jenkins View Post
                      I think it is best to look to your husband for cues on what to do, not only in matters of childbearing, but also in matters of how to walk, speak, what to wear, whether or not to enjoy myself or have self-respect, etc... After all, if we can't follow our husband's lead on these matters, are we really showing our appreciation for the temporary death of Jesus?
                      I agree completely! You are very wise.

                      “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” – 1 John 5:2-3

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                      • #12
                        Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                        @Sister Charli Why would you want to have sex if you do not want children?

                        And age doesn't matter, just pray to Jesus for a child!
                        I Jesus!

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                        • #13
                          Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                          Sister Charli I thought you would have already understood that sex is just for making children. I hope you are not going down the path of lust.

                          It is really up to Luke if you are to have children. I thought this would have been discussed during the marriage arrangements. I know you want to have children yourself, but you should not be pressuring Luke to do so.
                          Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth
                          Proverbs 19:25 Smite a scorner, and the simple will beware: and reprove one that hath understanding, and he will understand knowledge.
                          Ezekiel 16:14 And thy renown went forth among the heathen for thy beauty: for it was perfect through my comeliness, which I had put upon thee, saith the Lord GOD.
                          Proverbs 6:25 Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
                          Genesis 24:16 And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her: and she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up.
                          Song of Solomon 1:15 Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves' eyes.

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                          • #14
                            Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                            Originally posted by Felicity View Post
                            @Sister Charli Why would you want to have sex if you do not want children?

                            And age doesn't matter, just pray to Jesus for a child!
                            Felicity you are very wise, your parents really taught you right! Pray to Jesus for a child! I'm sure he will here you.
                            “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” – 1 John 5:2-3

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                            • #15
                              Re: a question for the Ladies of Landover

                              Wazzup Charlie? Say maybe you should take a look at Genesis, find the story of Lot and his daughters. That might break the ice.
                              PS Tell Luke I need the first quarter reports from the mine. The honeymoon is over, I need to see a profit!

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