[Witch Hammer]

Re: Husbands Right

I am totally sorry this woman was beaten this way.

When I correct my wife it is always on her bare bottom, not anywhere else, as mutually agreed upon in our contract. I never bruise her.
She gets a bit pink at times, though.

I don't believe in severe beatings. My wife and I have too good of a relationship for that.

It sounds like the husband needs to refocus on the way he does things.

txgurl, if you are still visitng this forum (I know it's been a long time)
try to show him and get him interested in the CDD website

Hope things are better for you

Ray

Grow some stones, Ray! You need to keep her on her toes all the time, keep her in a spin and don't give her any chance to get her bearings. You're not doing her or Jesus any favors by giving her light spankings on the bottocks. Be a man and assert yourself! What, are you afraid she's going to hit you back, sissy?

[Samuel Hubbard]

Re: Husbands Right

I am totally sorry this woman was beaten this way.

When I correct my wife it is always on her bare bottom, not anywhere else, as mutually agreed upon in our contract. I never bruise her.
She gets a bit pink at times, though.

I don't believe in severe beatings. My wife and I have too good of a relationship for that.

It sounds like the husband needs to refocus on the way he does things.

txgurl, if you are still visitng this forum (I know it's been a long time)
try to show him and get him interested in the CDD website

Hope things are better for you

Ray

You have a CONTRACT? Mr. Bird, your wife isn't supposed to have any say in your discipline of her. Remember, you're the head of the household and she's supposed to accept everything you say and every punishment you give her. Colossians 3:18 By only giving her light spankings on her rear, you are spoiling your wife, which you aren't supposed to be doing.

Grow some stones, Ray! You need to keep her on her toes all the time, keep her in a spin and don't give her any chance to get her bearings. You're not doing her or Jesus any favors by giving her light spankings on the bottocks. Be a man and assert yourself! What, are you afraid she's going to hit you back, sissy?

Amen, Brother!

[Raybird]

Re: Husbands Right

My Freinds,

I appreciate the advise, but both of you are way off track.

If you check out CDD, it calls for a contract between the two of you.

I don't want to be taken to jail because she presses charges on me. (which I don't think she would never do, but things need to be covered 100%)

I don't care much for the clientel there.

Getting back to the topic at hand, I never give light spankings. I just don't believe in bruising.

I had a stepfather who was an abuser. He used to beat me black (not blue). It was 9 years before my mother finally dumped the creep. Why she stayed with this creature for so long I'll never know. He was abusive to her too. Not as bad as to me, though.

Long and short of it is, I swore a long time ago I would never do the same to my children or anyone else.

[Dr Laurence Niles]

Re: Husbands Right

I had a stepfather who was an abuser. He used to beat me black (not blue). It was 9 years before my mother finally dumped the creep. Why she stayed with this creature for so long I'll never know. He was abusive to her too. Not as bad as to me, though.

What do you do to make him abuse you?

YIC

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: Husbands Right

If you check out CDD, it calls for a contract between the two of you.

The Holy Bible, on the other hand, does not. The Holy Bible calls for fear and obedience (Ecclesiastes 12:13), and for women that is expressed through submission to her husband (Ephesians 5:22-23; Colossians 3:18). Written contracts are for people who plan to sue. A Biblical agreement is made by putting one's hand under the other's thigh (Genesis 24:9; Genesis 47:29). Please note, this should only be done by True Christians™, as the occasion for temptation to indulge in and embrace homosexual pursuits may be too great for lesser men, and the threat of an insufficiently subservient wife to do real damage should never be underestimated (Deuteronomy 25:11).

[Raybird]

Re: Husbands Right

Dr Niles

Most of it was mainly just everyday mistakes. I'd forget to do things sometimes, miss some things in the yard when I was told to pick it up, etc.
I'd get beaten for the least infraction.

One time I came into the kitchen with my hair uncombed. Like to know what he did?

Put me in a chair and shaved my head

[FreeFromBrains]

Re: Husbands Right

Dr Niles

Most of it was mainly just everyday mistakes. I'd forget to do things sometimes, miss some things in the yard when I was told to pick it up, etc.
I'd get beaten for the least infraction.

One time I came into the kitchen with my hair uncombed. Like to know what he did?

Put me in a chair and shaved my head

Let me get this straight: YOU were the one making mistakes?


That is NOT how civilised people behaviour. You dad was an obvious ***UnGodly Word Used My Mistake, I'm Sure***. You don't need to follow in the family tradition.

[Didymus Much]

Re: Husbands Right

...I'd get beaten for the least infraction...

Sounds righteous(tm) to me.

Proverbs 20:30 "The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil: so do stripes the inward parts of the belly."

Your moaning about it, not so much.

Deuteronomy 21:18-21 "18 If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: 19 Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; 20 And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. 21 And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear."

[Witch Hammer]

Re: Husbands Right

Sounds righteous™ to me.

Proverbs 20:30 "The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil: so do stripes the inward parts of the belly."

Your moaning about it, not so much.

Deuteronomy 21:18-21 "18 If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: 19 Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; 20 And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. 21 And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear."

Ray, you just had your @$$ handed to you by an atheist!

Shame on you! What do you have to say for yourself, now?

Are you ready to stop acting like a child and administer the beating your wife so richly deserves?

[Raybird]

Re: Husbands Right

Mr Witch Hammer

I don't even know what he said. I quit reading what Didymus says a long time ago. He trys to bully and intimidate. I totally ignore him. He's like a spoiled brat. The more attention you give him, the worse he gets. For some reason he has targeted me.

[Raybird]

Re: Husbands Right

Ms Etheldreda

I do agree with you about the Bible. But I would never have gotten into CDD with my wife if she did not also agree to do it. The CDD doctrine calls for a contract and that the both of you agree to do this.

When it all started I did show her passages in the Bible. This was right after she came back from a religious retreat where she found Jesus
(praise the lord!).

I can honestly say that this was one of the best decisions we ever made.

Thanks for listening

Ray

[Didymus Much]

Re: Husbands Right

Mr Witch Hammer

I don't even know what he said...

Bulldroppings. Even if you didn't see my original post, everything I said would show up in WitchHammer's post where he quoted it.

...I quit reading what Didymus says a long time ago. He trys to bully and intimidate. I totally ignore him. He's like a spoiled brat. The more attention you give him, the worse he gets. For some reason he has targeted me.

Yeah, you know who else was attacked and vilified for trying to tell people what the Bible said?

This guy: